What is What My Bones Know about?

What My Bones Know is a memoir by journalist Stephanie Foo about healing from complex PTSD (C-PTSD), a condition resulting from repeated childhood trauma. The book chronicles Foo's journey after receiving her diagnosis at age 30, combining personal narrative with scientific research as she explores various therapies, investigates immigrant trauma in her San Jose community, and uncovers family secrets in Malaysia to understand how trauma can be inherited through generations. It's both a personal reckoning with childhood abuse and an investigative exploration of C-PTSD treatment.

Who is Stephanie Foo and what is her background?

Stephanie Foo is a Malaysia-born American radio journalist, producer, and author who worked for prestigious programs including This American Life and Snap Judgment. Born in Malaysia, she moved to the United States at age two and was abandoned by her parents during her teenage years after enduring years of physical and verbal abuse. Despite this traumatic childhood, she became an award-winning radio producer before writing What My Bones Know in 2022. She graduated early from UC Santa Cruz in just two and a half years with honors.

Who should read What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo?

What My Bones Know is essential reading for anyone dealing with childhood trauma, C-PTSD, or those seeking to understand these conditions. Mental health professionals, therapists, and counselors will find valuable insights into complex PTSD treatment approaches. The book also resonates with children of immigrants, Asian Americans exploring intergenerational trauma, and anyone interested in the intersection of personal narrative and scientific research. Readers should be prepared for descriptions of emotional and physical abuse throughout the memoir.

Is What My Bones Know worth reading?

What My Bones Know became a New York Times bestseller with a 4.52-star rating on Goodreads, earning widespread critical acclaim. Readers describe it as "powerful, enlightening, and hopeful," praising Foo's ability to weave personal narrative with scientific research on C-PTSD. The memoir is noted for being both "easy to read" despite difficult subject matter and valuable in demystifying complex PTSD for both sufferers and the general public. However, readers should be aware it contains detailed descriptions of childhood abuse and trauma.

What is complex PTSD and how does Stephanie Foo explain it in What My Bones Know?

Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) differs from traditional PTSD in that it develops from repeated trauma over years rather than a single traumatic event. Foo describes it as "a learned set of responses and a disruption of important developmental tasks" that occurs when someone experiences ongoing trauma, such as continuous child abuse. The condition has a "whole-body grip"—hence the title "what my bones know"—affecting both mental and physical health. Foo received her official diagnosis in 2018 at age 30 after struggling for years with symptoms she couldn't name.

What healing methods does Stephanie Foo try in What My Bones Know?

Stephanie Foo explored numerous therapeutic approaches in her healing journey, including work with neuroscientists and psychologists, yoga practice, and joining support groups for childhood trauma survivors. Her most transformative work was with Dr. Ham, who recorded their therapy sessions and played them back so they could analyze the dialogue line by line together. This innovative method helped Foo identify when her C-PTSD symptoms flared and when she was dissociating without awareness. She also tried various experimental therapies and returned to her childhood home to "fact-check" her memories of abuse.

How does What My Bones Know address immigrant trauma and intergenerational trauma?

What My Bones Know explores how trauma passes through generations, beginning with Foo's parents who were ethnically Chinese living in Malaysia and faced fierce discrimination before immigrating to California. Foo returns to San Jose to investigate immigrant trauma's effects on the community and travels to Malaysia to uncover family secrets, understanding how her parents' own experiences shaped their treatment of her. She avoids simplistic "tiger parent" explanations, instead examining intergenerational trauma with both compassion for her ancestors' struggles and clear recognition that her parents' abusive behavior was unacceptable.

What are the main themes in What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo?

The memoir centers on the relationship between past trauma and present identity, exploring how childhood abuse continues to affect adult health, relationships, and career. Key themes include the power of naming and understanding one's diagnosis, the journey from survival to healing, and the role of achievement as both coping mechanism and professional success. Foo examines mourning the childhood she never had, the process of self-parenting as an adult, and how trauma lives in the body. The book also addresses Asian American mental health, discrimination, and journalism as a tool for both investigation and personal healing.

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Capitolo 1

When Trauma Becomes Your Identity

What if everything you thought was "you" was actually a symptom? Imagine discovering that your personality traits-your anxiety, your drive, your relationship patterns, even your sense of humor-were actually coping mechanisms developed in response to childhood trauma. This is the devastating realization that radio producer Stephanie Foo faces in her memoir "What My Bones Know." After years of therapy for depression and relationship issues, at age thirty, Foo receives a diagnosis that changes everything: complex PTSD. Unlike regular PTSD from a single traumatic event, complex PTSD results from years of continuous trauma-in Foo's case, severe childhood abuse. The book, which became a New York Times Editors' Choice and was praised by Oprah's Book Club, takes readers on an intimate journey through Foo's trauma, her diagnosis, and her path toward healing. With unflinching honesty and surprising moments of humor, Foo explores what it means to rebuild an identity when you discover the foundation was built on trauma.

Capitolo 2

The Origins of Brokenness

Growing up in an upper-middle-class Malaysian-Chinese immigrant household in San Jose, California, Stephanie Foo endured relentless physical and emotional abuse. Her mother regularly beat her with whatever was available-hands, chopsticks, plastic rulers, bamboo canes-for infractions as minor as making eye contact, using American slang, or opening a magazine without permission. The violence often escalated to life-threatening levels: her mother would grab her ponytail and threaten to throw her down stairs or press a cleaver against her neck. After particularly severe beatings, her mother would threaten suicide, swallowing pills and warning Stephanie not to call 911 or she would "slit her throat." Meanwhile, Foo became the mediator and caretaker in her parents' volatile relationship. She created elaborate systems to maintain order-forcing her parents to attend church, reminding them of things to be grateful for, and hiding evidence of her father's messiness from her mother. When her mother was angry without reason, Foo would take the blame, telling her father, "It's not her fault. It's just that I'm bad, I'm awful, I'm evil." Eventually, she internalized these beliefs and pushed herself toward perfection in everything. The only respite came during biennial trips to Malaysia, where her extended family doted on her. Her great-aunt-the family matriarch they called "Auntie"-particularly cherished Foo, always greeting her with "Ho gwaai, ho gwaai" (so well-behaved, so good). During quiet afternoons, Auntie would share stories and dispense Chinese wisdom: "When the sky falls, use it as a blanket. Big things, make small. Small things, make nothing." What Foo didn't realize was that Auntie was giving her the tools she would need to survive. When Foo was a teenager, her mother abandoned the family for a new husband. Though initially relieved, Foo found herself becoming her depressed father's caretaker and companion rather than his child. They embraced their newfound freedom irresponsibly-staying up late, watching R-rated movies-while Foo abandoned extracurriculars and started failing classes. Their relationship eventually deteriorated into violence as well, culminating in a terrifying incident where Foo threatened her sleeping father with an ax after he had threatened her life during an argument. Shortly afterward, her father also abandoned her, leaving Foo alone in their large house as a teenager. She lived in squalor, subsisting on shoplifted frozen dinners and contemplating suicide. What saved her was finding purpose through journalism at her high school newspaper, where she thrived as editor-in-chief and exposed a major financial scandal in her school district.

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Capitolo 3

The Dread That Never Leaves

Despite escaping her traumatic childhood and building a successful career in radio journalism, Foo couldn't escape what she called "the dread"-a persistent feeling that something terrible was about to happen. This dread infected everything. She couldn't enjoy meals without obsessing over nutrition or cost. She created star charts for productivity but was never good enough. Her hair fell out, she cried randomly, and considered isolating herself to protect others. In relationships, the pattern was devastating. Initially confident and flirtatious, once relationships became official, she'd have visions of inevitable failure. She constantly sought reassurance, then feared becoming needy and pushed partners away, only to resent them for abandoning her. Eventually, they'd tire of her emotional chaos. One boyfriend who took her shooting broke up with her, saying he feared she might someday shoot him. By 2014, Foo had landed her dream job at This American Life, but even this achievement couldn't quiet the dread. In New York, she felt ordinary for the first time, making her anxiety harder to manage. At work, a new boss seemed determined to find her incompetent, criticizing her sound editing mercilessly and excluding her from group projects. The political climate following the 2016 election exacerbated her mental health struggles. After spending hours interviewing white supremacists and border patrol agents for stories, she began each workday by sitting at her desk and crying. The most optimistic thought she could muster was a Post-it note reading "NO ONE ELSE IS HAPPY EITHER." How could anyone be truly happy in a world of unrelenting suffering? She felt fundamentally different from everyone else-they could still laugh, make muffins, and function despite the state of the world. Why couldn't she? It was during this breakdown that her therapist Samantha finally revealed Foo's diagnosis: complex PTSD from childhood trauma. Researching after their session, Foo was devastated to discover the symptoms perfectly described her entire personality-her emotional regulation difficulties, inappropriate trust, self-loathing, relationship troubles, and aggression patterns. The revelation that her trauma had infected every aspect of her identity left her grief-stricken. For years she'd built a new life, but now every conflict traced back to her. She was far from normal-the common denominator in her life's tragedies.

Capitolo 4

The Science of Broken Bodies

After her diagnosis, Foo approached healing like a journalist-through research. She discovered that C-PTSD isn't officially recognized in the DSM (psychiatry's diagnostic manual), though some health organizations acknowledge it. From the few available books, she learned that traumatic experiences encode deep associations in our brains between stimuli and danger. These "triggers" aren't signs of weakness-everyone has them-but they become PTSD when they cause debilitating responses. What makes complex PTSD uniquely miserable is exposure to trauma hundreds or thousands of times over years. The number of triggers becomes infinite-if you're beaten for hundreds of mistakes, every mistake becomes dangerous. If dozens of people let you down, all people become untrustworthy. Foo was particularly disturbed by the physical toll of trauma. Between 1995 and 1997, Kaiser Permanente conducted the groundbreaking Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) study, giving over 17,000 patients a questionnaire assessing childhood trauma. Patients received scores from 0-10 based on experiences like abuse, neglect, and parental divorce or substance abuse. The results were devastatingly clear: higher ACE scores correlated with dramatically worse health outcomes. People with high scores were three times likelier to develop liver disease, twice as likely for cancer or heart disease, four times for emphysema. They were 7.5 times more likely to become alcoholics, 4.5 times more likely to suffer depression, and twelve times more likely to attempt suicide. Most alarmingly, having an ACE score of 6 or higher reportedly takes twenty years off life expectancy, reducing it to just sixty years. Foo's score was 6. At thirty, she felt halfway to the end. Research on trauma's biological effects showed that traumatized brains physically differ from healthy ones-enlarged amygdalae, shrunken self-awareness regions, reduced prefrontal cortex thickness affecting decision-making and logical reasoning. The connection between cortical thickness and IQ particularly threatened Foo. She'd always prided herself on being intelligent, but these papers suggested she wasn't as smart as she could have been without the trauma. Being her parents' caretaker had given Foo an illusion of control-a belief she could prevent disaster through vigilance. But these health outcomes proved her wrong. It was vigilance itself that had destroyed her.

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Capitolo 5

Seeking Healing Through Connection

After her diagnosis, Foo left her dream job at This American Life, telling her boss, "Healing needs to be my job now." She began an intensive search for effective treatment, but finding suitable therapy in America's healthcare system proved torturous. Insurance providers offered meager lists of therapists, many unavailable or unwilling to take certain patients. Most psychologists are white (86%), and since C-PTSD isn't in the DSM, insurance wouldn't cover treatment specifically for it. Her search was disheartening. She tried a man who promised cures within three months but pathologized everything she said. Another therapist was too quiet, just asking "how does that make you feel?" Meanwhile, she discovered evidence that traditional talk therapy might not be effective for C-PTSD. Between 40-60% of people drop out of therapy, most within the first two sessions. Even cognitive behavioral therapy shows poor results for PTSD. Eventually, Foo found Eleanor, who practiced EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy. Developed by Francine Shapiro in 1987, EMDR involves bilateral stimulation (eye movements, sounds, or vibrations) while revisiting traumatic memories to "process" them-not just talk about them, but truly resolve them by rewriting memories with healthier narratives. In one powerful session, Foo visualized being beaten by her mother with a wire hanger at age six. When Eleanor had Foo imagine her fiance Joey entering the scene to rescue child-Foo, her younger self refused to leave, feeling responsible for protecting her parents. Eventually, adult-Foo had to tell child-Foo the harsh truth: "They both abandon you in a few years. All your hard work to save them never pays off." Foo embraced her child self, acknowledging her power and vigilance in holding the family together, assuring her the parents' unhappiness wasn't her fault. After the session, she felt the weight of her abuse emotionally for the first time-not just intellectually understanding it wasn't her fault, but truly feeling it. She realized her unhealed wounds had been masked, and her parents truly didn't love her-not because of anything she did, but because they hated themselves too much to love anyone else. Later, Foo discovered her most effective therapy relationship with Dr. Jacob Ham, a trauma specialist at Mount Sinai. His approach focused on relationship repair rather than punishment. He explained that complex trauma is fundamentally relational trauma-caused by bad relationships with people who should have been trustworthy. Therefore, healing required practicing relationships to reinforce the shattered belief that the world could be safe. Dr. Ham helped Foo understand that traumatized people only know rupture-they either constantly apologize without having their needs met, or demand apologies without recognizing the other person. True forgiveness is an act of love where you acknowledge someone's imperfections while still loving them: "We're not giving up on each other; we're in this for the long haul. You hurt me. And, yes, I hurt you. And I'm sorry, but you're still mine."

Capitolo 6

Confronting Cultural Silence

As Foo worked through her personal trauma, she began questioning whether her experiences were unique or part of a larger pattern in her community. Returning to San Jose, she sought to validate her memories by connecting with old classmates and teachers. Initially, she received little response to her inquiries. But when she met with Steve, an old classmate, he confirmed what she suspected-many of their peers were being abused. "We were all getting our asses beat. Why do you think we were so stressed about getting all those As in the first place?" he explained. He listed names of other abused kids across various Asian ethnicities-Vietnamese, Taiwanese, Korean-including some popular, seemingly well-adjusted students. Later, Foo connected with Yvonne Gunter, a social worker at her former high school-a position that didn't exist when Foo was a student. Yvonne confirmed physical abuse was rampant. She had to constantly remind students that if they revealed abuse, she was legally required to report it-yet they kept talking, desperate for help. She'd submitted hundreds of cases to Child Protective Services, but nothing happened because when social workers visited nice-looking Asian homes, the children wouldn't speak up. When Foo asked if Asian American trauma was overlooked because of model minority stereotypes, Yvonne immediately agreed. She told Foo about parents who dismiss mental health concerns with "My kid doesn't need counseling-he gets straight As!"-only to later discover their high-achieving children have serious addictions or mental health issues. Foo began researching the historical context of her community's trauma. San Jose was built from the wreckage of America's brutal proxy wars against communism. Her classmates' families had survived the Chinese Cultural Revolution, Vietnam War, Korean War, and Cambodian genocide. When Foo spoke with fellow Asian children of immigrants about their parents' histories, everyone defended their parents as "good people" who were just stoic or anxious. But when she gently probed about trauma, the confessions emerged-stories of escape by boat, witnessing rape, losing family members, living through political uprisings. Foo also examined cultural influences on her family's approach to trauma. Though her family had converted to Christianity, they retained Taoist traditions. Taoists practice wu wei-"success through non-effort"-recognizing that pushing against nature's forces causes disruption. Instead, one must "flow like water," accepting and adapting to life's currents. This philosophy often manifested as resignation-"What to do?"-rather than confronting painful experiences. Consulting experts, Foo discovered this wasn't uniquely Taoist but partly cultural superstition-speaking negative things makes them reality. Professor Russell Jeung suggested her desire for healing reflected Western privilege, as most cultures simply endure trauma as part of life. Professor Hien Do noted that American assimilation pressure encourages immigrants to forget painful histories and embrace the "model minority" success narrative.

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Capitolo 7

Inherited Trauma and Genetic Memory

Despite her family's attempts to erase their painful history, Foo discovered that trauma can be genetically inherited. The epigenome-a layer of chemical markers atop our DNA-determines which genes are activated, functioning like SparkNotes that flags which genes cells need to read. While only 2% of DNA determines physical traits, the remaining 98% of noncoding DNA influences emotions, personality, and instincts. This epigenome is highly sensitive to stress and trauma. Rachel Yehuda's 2015 study revealed Holocaust survivors and their children shared identical epigenetic tags on stress regulation genes-tags absent in Jewish people who lived outside Europe. McGill University researchers even found ways to reverse DNA methylation in mice, eliminating anxiety caused by neglectful mothers. Remarkably, some trauma adaptations prove beneficial. Records from the Swedish town of Overkalix showed that children who suffered starvation between ages nine and twelve had grandchildren who lived thirty years longer with lower rates of diabetes and heart disease. Foo recognized that her body carried the code of generations of trauma, death, migration, and history. Though her family tried erasing this past, her body remembered. She wanted to understand what her bones knew, reclaiming her stolen history to write her future. This understanding helped Foo make the difficult decision to cut ties with her father. After a period of increased neediness where he called her frequently for emotional support but showed little interest in her life, Foo realized the relationship was still harmful. In a final meeting, when she told him she was cutting ties because "you don't love me," he responded with anger and denial, refusing to acknowledge the abuse and neglect. Estrangement wasn't freeing or joyful-it felt necessary but painful. The silence wasn't so different from the lonely holidays she'd endured before, but she no longer had to work on earning his love. She could just accept she would never have it.

Capitolo 8

Finding Wholeness Through Self-Compassion

Removing her parents from her life protected Foo but didn't fix her. The excision cleared the way for rebuilding, but now came the hard part: replacing them. Many believe healing from C-PTSD requires receiving kind, compassionate parenting. If our own parents can't provide this, we must find new parental figures or learn to parent ourselves. Foo tried various approaches to self-parenting. During one meditation class, when asked to love herself the way her fiance Joey loved her, tears leaked from her eyes. Later, she was able to visualize and embrace different versions of herself-her struggling, diagnosed self from nine months ago, her twelve-year-old self, her college self. For the first time without hallucinogens, she experienced unconditional self-love. After that meditation, she developed a practice of summoning an older version of herself, a year into the future, who hugs her from behind and reassures her when she's sad. She silences her mother's voice in Foo's head, becoming her third parent. Dr. Ham helped Foo understand that her restrictive emotional range was another form of self-punishment. When she drew her "circle of permitted feelings," writing "Happiness. Anger sometimes" inside and "Stressed out. Sadness" outside, with "SMART!" prominently in the center, Dr. Ham observed this resembled a tiger mom's expectations. "You're tiger-childing your recovery," he explained, "telling yourself you have to be perfectly happy all the time." He taught her about healthy hearts-they adapt quickly to different situations rather than maintaining one steady state. Similarly, emotional health means feeling appropriate emotions at appropriate times, then returning to baseline. Negative emotions serve important purposes-anger inspires action, sadness processes grief, fear keeps us safe. Foo began practicing this approach, allowing herself to feel stressed when cut off in traffic or sad about a sick relative without guilt. Remarkably, her emotions became lighter, less intense, and shorter in duration. She'd finally conquered the "deadly triad of P's-personal, pervasive, and permanent." Dr. Ham helped her distinguish between pain (appropriate hurt) and suffering (feeling bad about feeling bad).

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Capitolo 9

Trauma as a Superpower

During the COVID-19 pandemic, Foo discovered her C-PTSD had transformed into a superpower. While friends panicked, she remained calm and productive. Her hypervigilance became appropriate vigilance in a genuinely dangerous world. Dr. Greg Siegle explained that what we call psychopathologies are often "skills and capabilities gone awry." For many with complex PTSD, the prefrontal cortex becomes more active during stress, explaining why Foo might overreact to small triggers but remain remarkably calm in genuine crises. He named this phenomenon "Blunted and Discordant Affect Sensitivity Syndrome"-or BADASS-acknowledging that this dissociative capability can be an asset. As her understanding grew, Foo recognized other benefits: her struggles made her uniquely empathetic and attuned to others' needs. Even her tendency to push people to discuss their feelings-which sometimes annoyed Joey-ultimately made him feel deeply cared for. She wasn't loved in spite of her C-PTSD, but partly because of it. At her wedding to Joey, Foo embraced vulnerability by writing sincere, heartfelt letters to each guest. Looking out at their guests reading these letters-crying, laughing, smiling-she realized these were truly good people who represented countless acts of kindness in her life. The void she'd felt was finally full, overflowing with love. She recognized that her PTSD had lied to her about being alone and unlovable. Throughout the reception, guests shared stories of how she'd supported them through difficult times-writing daily letters to a friend who moved away, staying up late with another when his grandmother died, calling regularly during someone else's hard time. She realized she hadn't been broken all along-she'd been giving and receiving love, scattering goodness throughout her life. The only broken thing was her self-image. Though C-PTSD remains a shape-shifting beast that will always require vigilance, Foo has gained hope and agency. She knows her feelings are temporary, and she is the beast's master. Healing isn't perfection or finality-it's fullness. She is full of anger, pain, peace, and love, and her lifelong challenge is balancing these elements. Even with grief on her back, she's grown strong. Now, as she waits for the beast to come, she dances.

Capitolo 10

The Journey Continues: Healing as a Practice

Healing from complex trauma isn't a destination but a practice - a daily commitment to showing up for yourself with compassion and patience. For Foo, this means embracing the full spectrum of human emotions without judgment or shame. It means recognizing that her trauma responses aren't character flaws but survival mechanisms that once kept her alive. Through therapy and self-reflection, she learns to observe her triggers with curiosity rather than condemnation, understanding that hypervigilance, people-pleasing, and perfectionism were adaptive strategies in an unsafe environment. The most profound revelation in Foo's journey is that healing doesn't mean erasing the past or becoming someone entirely new. Rather, it means integrating all parts of herself - the wounded child, the hypervigilant protector, the creative journalist, the loving partner - into a cohesive whole. Her trauma doesn't define her, but it is an undeniable part of her story. She discovers that healing often involves seemingly contradictory truths: that one can be both strong and vulnerable, that pain can coexist with joy, that one can honor their resilience while acknowledging their wounds. Through her memoir, Foo offers a roadmap not just for trauma survivors but for anyone seeking to understand the complex interplay between childhood experiences and adult behavior. She demonstrates that even the deepest wounds can become sources of wisdom and strength. Small victories mark her progress - being able to accept love without expecting abandonment, learning to trust her own perceptions, finding joy in ordinary moments without waiting for the other shoe to drop. By sharing her story with unflinching honesty, she breaks the cycle of silence that perpetuates trauma across generations and shows how healing, while deeply personal, has ripple effects through families and communities. What our bones know, ultimately, is not just pain but resilience. They carry the memory of every wound, yes, but also every healing. They remember not just what broke us, but how we pieced ourselves back together, stronger at the broken places. This somatic wisdom manifests in unexpected ways - in the body's capacity to settle after years of hyperarousal, in the nervous system's gradual return to regulation, in the quiet moments when safety finally feels possible. And in that remembering lies the possibility of transformation - not just for ourselves, but for those who come after us, creating a legacy of healing that extends far beyond our individual journey. The practice of healing becomes woven into the fabric of daily life - in setting boundaries, in choosing self-compassion over self-criticism, in celebrating progress without demanding perfection. Foo's experience illuminates how trauma recovery isn't about reaching a final destination but about continuing to show up, day after day, for the ongoing work of growth and integration.

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I had complex PTSD, a condition that results from ongoing trauma.
What if everything you thought was 'you' was actually a symptom?
The most optimistic thought she could muster was a Post-it note reading 'NO ONE ELSE IS HAPPY EITHER.'
Big things, make small. Small things, make nothing.
When the sky falls, use it as a blanket.

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Stephanie FooAuthor and radio producer diagnosed with C-PTSD
AuntieThe author's great-aunt and family matriarch
SamanthaThe author's therapist who provides her diagnosis

Sull'autore

Stephanie Foo è l'autrice bestseller del New York Times di What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma e una pluripremiata giornalista e produttrice radiofonica.

Nata in Malesia e cresciuta negli Stati Uniti, Foo ha costruito una carriera distinta nella narrazione audio, lavorando come produttrice per Snap Judgment e This American Life, dove ha vinto un Emmy.

La sua competenza nel giornalismo e l'esperienza diretta con il disturbo da stress post-traumatico complesso (C-PTSD) l'hanno posizionata in modo unico per scrivere questo libro di memorie innovativo, che combina la narrazione personale con un'ampia ricerca sul trauma e sulla salute mentale.

In qualità di Rosalynn Carter Fellow for Mental Health Journalism 2019-2020, Foo ha collaborato con il New York Times, il New York Magazine e ha creato l'innovativo podcast Pilot. What My Bones Know è diventato un bestseller del New York Times ed è ampiamente riconosciuto come una testimonianza definitiva in prima persona sulla convivenza e la guarigione dal disturbo da stress post-traumatico complesso.

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