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The Lost Art of Listening
Michael P. Nichols
4.08 (2677 Reviews)
Communication skill
Relationship
Psychology
Self-growth
Panoramica
Punti Chiave
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Domande Frequenti

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In a world where everyone speaks but few truly hear, "The Lost Art of Listening" transforms relationships through genuine connection. This psychology classic has helped 125,000+ readers discover why one reader calls it a "revelation" worth re-reading annually for more meaningful interactions.

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The Silence That Screams

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Your partner just walked past you for the third time tonight, eyes glued to their phone. You're mid-sentence, sharing something that matters, and suddenly you're talking to empty air. That hollow feeling in your chest? It's not just disappointment-it's a fundamental human need going unmet. We've entered an era where connection has never been more accessible yet genuine listening has become startlingly rare. Screens glow brighter than faces. Notifications ping louder than voices. We've mastered the art of being constantly available while remaining perpetually absent. And in this fractured attention economy, we're starving for something ancient and essential: to be truly heard. The cost of this listening famine shows up everywhere-in marriages that feel like parallel monologues, in families where everyone talks but no one connects, in friendships that fade because nobody really knows what's happening beneath the surface. Think about the last time someone gave you their complete attention. Not the nodding-while-scrolling kind, but the leaning-in, eyes-locked, world-fading-away kind. Remember how that felt? That's not coincidence-it's biology meeting psychology. Being heard validates our very existence. When someone steps fully into our frame of reference, they're saying: "You matter. Your experience is real. You're not alone in this."

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Why Being Heard Shapes Everything We Are

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How Listening Creates the Self We Become

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When Words Pass Like Ships in the Night

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The Exhausting Work of Actually Listening and Why We Hear What We Expect

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The Patterns That Keep Us Trapped

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The Gift We Choose to Give

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