What is *I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual* by Luvvie Ajayi about?

*I'm Judging You* is a collection of humorous yet incisive essays tackling cultural obsessions like social media misuse, systemic racism, and performative feminism. Luvvie Ajayi blends sharp wit with Nigerian slang and AAVE to critique modern behavior while advocating for personal accountability and societal improvement.

Who should read *I'm Judging You*?

This book suits readers seeking candid cultural commentary infused with humor. It’s ideal for those interested in social justice, pop culture analysis, or improving their digital etiquette. Fans of authors like Jenny Lawson or Roxane Gay will appreciate Ajayi’s unapologetic voice.

What are the main themes in *I'm Judging You*?

Key themes include racial inequality, feminism’s inclusivity gaps, social media’s impact on empathy, and the normalization of toxic behavior. Ajayi also addresses religion, rape culture, and the ethics of viral content, urging readers to “do better” in their personal and public lives.

How does Luvvie Ajayi approach social media critique in the book?

Ajayi dedicates a chapter to social media’s role in fostering judgment and cyberbullying. She highlights absurd trends (e.g., oversharing, virtue signaling) and offers guidelines for positive online engagement, emphasizing accountability over anonymity.

What is the tone of *I'm Judging You*?

The tone balances laugh-out-loud humor (e.g., mocking “Truck Nutz” enthusiasts) with hard-hitting critiques of systemic issues. Ajayi’s style merges colloquial Nigerian phrases, AAVE, and pop culture references, making complex topics accessible.

Are there criticisms of *I'm Judging You*?

Some readers found the essays uneven, with the later chapters leaning heavily into serious topics, which contrasts with the lighter early sections. A few critiques note the humor fades as the book progresses, making it challenging to finish.

How does *I'm Judging You* compare to *The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck*?

Both books blend self-help with cultural critique, but Ajayi’s work focuses more on collective responsibility than individual mindset shifts. While Mark Manson uses profanity liberally, Ajayi adopts a “ladylike” tone with occasional cuss words for emphasis.

What actionable advice does Luvvie Ajayi offer in the book?

Ajayi provides guidelines for ethical behavior, such as avoiding gossip, fact-checking before sharing news, and confronting microaggressions. She also advises curating social media feeds to prioritize positivity and unfollowing toxic accounts.

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Chapitre 1

When Side-Eye Becomes an Art Form

Have you ever scrolled through social media and witnessed something so outrageous that your eyeballs nearly rolled out of your head? Like someone posting photos of their deceased grandmother being prepared for burial? This is exactly the kind of behavior that prompted Luvvie Ajayi to write her cultural critique "I'm Judging You." In a world more connected than ever before-where babies have Instagram accounts and world leaders conduct diplomacy via Twitter-many people seem to have missed the memo on basic decency. Ajayi's book, which became a New York Times bestseller and earned praise from celebrities like Shonda Rhimes (who optioned it for television), serves as that missing handbook. With razor-sharp wit and unflinching honesty, this Nigerian-born, American-raised writer delivers the shade and side-eye we all secretly wish we could give to the logic-deficient people around us. Whether you're cringing at your friend's oversharing on Facebook or questioning society's deep-seated prejudices, Ajayi's cultural commentary feels like that brutally honest conversation you've been dying to have with your smartest, funniest friend.

Chapitre 2

The Many Ways We Fail at Basic Human Decency

Let's be honest-we're all annoying sometimes. Those people who jump up the moment a plane lands despite sitting in seat 35G with 173 passengers ahead of them? Pure foolishness. But some folks consistently tap-dance on our last nerve with their thoughtless behavior. Take group dinners, for instance. They're breeding grounds for financial shenanigans. There's Dinner Scrooge #1, who orders everything on the menu then suggests splitting the bill equally, essentially making everyone subsidize their feast. Then there's Dinner Scrooge #2, who whips out a calculator to determine their exact contribution down to the penny, somehow always forgetting tax and tip. And let's not forget Dinner Scrooge #3, who conveniently "has to leave early" and mysteriously forgets to contribute their portion. After experiencing this financial theater one too many times, I've learned to avoid group meals unless everyone brings cash or there's a fixed menu. Even toddlers deserve judgment. These tiny terrorists make demands with zero regard for others' feelings. They'll tell you "those shoes look like my nightmares" without blinking because your emotions mean nothing to them. They're essentially short, mean teenagers whose only saving grace is their cuteness, which somehow makes us attached to them despite their tyrannical behavior. Between our perpetual lateness, dinner party failures, and allowing these miniature dictators to run our lives, we humans are fundamentally flawed. And yes, I'm judging us all for it.

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Chapitre 3

The Friends Who Make You Question Your Choices

Friends are life's bonus gifts-people who choose to be with us without blood obligation. While some enhance our lives immeasurably, others diminish it by blocking the two-way street that friendship should be. The Competitor turns every achievement into a competition. Share good news about your promotion, and they'll immediately trump it with their supposedly better accomplishment. Your joy serves as a painful reminder of their perceived failures, so they steal your spotlight at every opportunity-even getting engaged at your wedding. Their superpower is making your achievements about them. The SOS Pal only appears during crises-when they need money, bail, or emotional support. During these times, you're in their "Favorites" list, but during good times, you learn about their life through social media like everyone else. They never check on you, and if you mention your problems during their crisis, they'll dismiss you because "this is about MY pain." They take without giving, disappearing like someone's overbraided edges when it's time to reciprocate. The Adventurer (aka Reckless Robin) lives without boundaries, turning simple brunches into wild adventures. As captain of Team No Chill, they're the friend your parents warned you about. While they create great stories (like getting tattoos at 1 AM from Lil Wayne's artist), you fear going out with them because they might provoke someone into a fight you're not equipped to handle. Still, everyone needs one person to keep life interesting, even if you occasionally wake up with a hangover and a new tattoo. The Lannister is someone you can't trust despite enjoying their company. They've betrayed others (sleeping with friends' partners, stealing) and though they've never wronged you personally, Maya Angelou's wisdom applies: "When people show you who they are, believe them." You keep them at arm's length, knowing they'd stab you in the back then use the same knife to butter their bread at your next group meal. The Surface is that mysterious friend you've known for years yet remains a complete enigma. Despite your long history, you know nothing beyond surface details. Their job? A complete mystery they guard with CIA-level secrecy. When directly asked "WHAT DO YOU DO?" they give vague answers that leave you more confused than before. Like Tommy from the TV show Martin, they move in silence "like gnomes," revealing nothing about their personal life. The Frenemy uses you as a verbal punching bag, disguising cruelty with backhanded compliments like "Let's go out to eat tomorrow. I know you don't go to the gym now." They throw so much shade you need a flashlight app around them. You remain friends only because of your long history, but they're one comment away from getting kicked in the ankles. The Enabler never challenges you, even when you're clearly wrong. Take them shopping and they'll swoon over jersey culottes (which look good on nobody). While this sweetheart is the opposite of a mean girl, sometimes you wish they'd occasionally express a differing opinion. The Flake is as unreliable as a Chicago meteorologist. Despite living in the same city, you see them once a year because they'll find a way to cancel any plan. They love making plans but send vague excuses the night before-or worse, at the exact meeting time with an "OMG WAS THAT TODAY?" The Holy Roller makes normal adult conversations uncomfortable with their constant spiritual references. You hesitate to invite them to girls' night because they'll gasp "Ohmygoodness, you slept with him and you've only known him for a year?" The worst is remembering how free they were before getting born again-you're tempted to point out their hypocrisy but refrain.

Chapitre 4

When Love Makes Us Lose Our Minds

Love has an extraordinary ability to cloud our judgment, flooding our brains with chemicals that make even the most level-headed people act irrationally. Those early-stage endorphins can be particularly dangerous, leading to hasty decisions we later regret. Promise rings perfectly exemplify this kind of premature commitment - they're either appropriate for middle school sweethearts or serve as an unnecessary stepping stone to actual engagement. If you're not ready for a real commitment but want to show affection, there are better options like meaningful jewelry that doesn't carry the weight of a pseudo-engagement. The impulse to permanently mark our bodies with a partner's name is another common manifestation of love-induced temporary insanity. While relationship-inspired tattoos aren't inherently wrong, they should only be considered after witnessing your partner's full spectrum of behavior - including how they handle stress, disappointment, and conflict. Someone can be charming during date nights and vacations, but their true character emerges during arguments, financial struggles, or family crises. I've seen too many people rush to the tattoo parlor during the honeymoon phase, only to be scheduling laser removal appointments months later. The concept of "ride-or-die" relationships often glorifies toxic loyalty at the expense of personal growth and wellbeing. This mindset disproportionately affects women, who face societal pressure to stand by their partners regardless of poor choices or destructive behavior. Meanwhile, men rarely face the same expectations when their female partners struggle. I firmly believe that loyalty should have boundaries - supporting someone through difficult times is admirable, but enabling destructive patterns or sacrificing your own future waiting for someone to change is misguided devotion. Healthy relationships should function as catalysts for personal growth and mutual improvement. Partners should challenge each other intellectually, support each other's ambitions, and help navigate life's obstacles together. However, when relationships produce serious complications - like break babies (children conceived during "temporary" separations) or repeated betrayals of trust - it's crucial to recognize when loyalty becomes self-destructive. Sometimes, the most loving choice you can make is to walk away, both for your own wellbeing and to break cycles of toxic behavior. The key is maintaining enough emotional clarity to distinguish between normal relationship challenges that strengthen bonds and fundamental issues that signal incompatibility. Love shouldn't require sacrificing your principles, dreams, or self-respect - it should enhance them.

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Chapitre 5

Beauty Standards That Damage More Than They Enhance

Bleaching your skin strips away melanin-nature's built-in SPF protection-forcing people into a cycle of continuous chemical treatments as melanin stubbornly tries to return. The consequences are visible: mismatched skin tones with betraying knuckles and feet, uneven coloration, and potentially serious long-term damage. Even more concerning, many skin-lightening products contain dangerous chemicals like mercury and high levels of steroids that can cause kidney damage, skin cancer, and permanent scarring. Despite these risks, the global skin lightening industry continues to grow, projected to reach billions in sales, feeding off deeply rooted colorism and colonial beauty standards. This obsession with changing our natural appearance extends beyond skin color to plastic surgery, where people undergo extreme procedures that leave them unrecognizable. The rise of social media filters and edited photos has created unrealistic expectations, driving more people toward invasive surgeries at younger ages. While I'm not categorically against cosmetic enhancements (I might consider modest breast augmentation someday), I oppose transformations so dramatic they require new identification. The psychological impact of these dramatic changes can be severe, with many people becoming addicted to procedures, chasing an ever-moving target of "perfection." The dangers multiply when people seek bargain procedures from unqualified practitioners-people have literally died from black-market butt injections containing concrete, fix-a-flat, and industrial silicone. These underground operations, often performed in hotel rooms or makeshift clinics, have led to countless horror stories of infections, disfigurement, and death. Our impossible beauty standards have everyone wanting what they don't have: small-chested women want larger breasts, flat-bottomed women want curves, while naturally curvy women often face pressure to slim down. This endless cycle of dissatisfaction fuels a predatory industry that profits from insecurity. I'm grateful I wasn't blessed with a "donk" because I'd be insufferable-declaring my behind its own corporation, hiring theme music to follow it, and walking backwards into rooms. The Lord knew what He was doing when He made me petite, sparing the world from my potential shallow shenanigans. More importantly, this self-acceptance didn't come easily - it required years of unlearning toxic beauty standards and recognizing that our worth isn't determined by conforming to arbitrary physical ideals. The most attractive quality is ultimately self-confidence and comfort in one's own skin, natural or enhanced within reasonable, safe boundaries.

Chapitre 6

The Weight of Society's Expectations

During an interview, a reporter casually joked about my weight, asking if I was "like a hundred pounds"-a completely irrelevant comment that left me stunned. This casual body commentary reflects our society's obsession with weight and size, where no one is considered perfect as they are. While I've experienced some teasing for being petite, the vitriol directed at larger people is far more severe and pervasive. Fat-shaming has become so normalized that people don't consider how humiliating it is to be ridiculed simply for existing in your natural body. Some comedians build entire careers on fat jokes-the discount-rack version of comedy that requires no cleverness or originality. What's particularly insufferable are those who claim they're just trying to "motivate" plus-sized people to "have better lives"-as if mockery is a helpful form of encouragement. Our media landscape perpetuates these harmful standards through magazines, fashion, and entertainment. The fashion industry showcases ultra-thin models while ignoring that the average woman is a size fourteen. Television and movies consistently pair chunky male characters with hot wives, but rarely show the inverse. Plus-size women are denied romantic leads and relegated to comic relief roles, as if it's unthinkable that anyone would desire them. Meanwhile, we send contradictory messages like "real women have curves"-but only the right kind of curves in the right places. As someone who's always been naturally skinny, I've experienced my own body-shaming, with people constantly commenting on my thinness and asking if I eat. We're all walking around being told we're not enough, whether big or small. We need to be gentler with each other about weight and focus on loving ourselves as we are.

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Chapitre 7

The Systems That Keep Oppression Alive

When your empire grows from soil fertilized with blood, it sustains power through continued bloodshed. America was built on Black and brown backs and still stands on our necks. Racism isn't just church burnings and police killings-it's a system of oppression seeping into every aspect of our lives, as American as apple pie. America's history began with Columbus's mediocrity-claiming land he didn't understand, slaughtering Native Americans, then stealing Africans to build on stolen land. The United States lacks a legitimate history of integrity. Racism isn't a byproduct but the foundational stock of American soup. Even "nice people" can be racist-it doesn't require conscious hatred, just subconscious prejudice like clutching your purse when a Black boy enters an elevator. The real scaffolding of racism is institutions so entwined with prejudice that changing them requires overhauling entire systems. Black and brown people must work twice as hard for half as much, constantly auditioning for jobs we already have. Our names on resumes receive half as many callbacks despite identical qualifications. For women, there's a glass ceiling; for Black people, an iron gate; for Black women, a glass ceiling with iron reinforcements. There's excessive haste to imprison Black people, including children perceived as threats. Black children are handcuffed for playing in their own neighborhoods and tried as adults. Tamir Rice, just twelve, was killed within seconds by police while playing with a BB gun, while white adults pointing real guns at police often live to stand trial. Media serves as prejudice's mouthpiece, framing narratives that serve oppression. White gatherings are "revelers" while people of color are "rioters." White mass shooters are described as "disturbed" or "gentle loners" deserving sympathy. Brown criminals are quickly labeled "terrorists." When Black people die unjustly, media scrutinizes victims rather than perpetrators. Even the Charleston Nine-Bible students in church-weren't spared scrutiny. Black trauma is never given space to heal because we must ensure white perpetrators don't feel too bad about their actions.

Chapitre 8

When Ignorance Crosses Continental Boundaries

When nine-year-old Luvvie arrived in America from Nigeria, she experienced being an outsider for the first time. Her accent and cultural differences made her a target for ignorant questions and stereotypes about Africa. To fit in, she suppressed her Nigerian identity, abandoned her accent, and even stopped using her Yoruba name Ifeoluwa ("God's love"), adopting the nickname Lovette instead. Media portrayal bears much responsibility for Western ignorance about Africa. Shows like Nightline present sensationalized stories of "primitive" practices without specifying which of Africa's 54 countries they're depicting, reinforcing the false notion of Africa as one monolithic place. The continent's PR problem manifests in contradictory Western attitudes: Africa is simultaneously portrayed as "uncivilized" while its cultural elements-fabrics, head ties, fashion-are appropriated by Western designers who profit from them without acknowledgment. Africans are "studied but not seen," with beauty recognized only through Western standards. The 2014-2015 Ebola epidemic perfectly demonstrated problematic attitudes toward Africa. The Western world paid little attention until the virus reached Dallas, Texas. People canceled travel to all parts of Africa-even countries thousands of miles from the outbreak-revealing profound geographical ignorance. African names face constant mispronunciation and dismissal, another form of othering. Luvvie recalls teachers calling her name "hard" and asking for alternatives, forcing her to use an alias because people wouldn't make the effort to pronounce "Ajayi" correctly. Africa's true diversity includes luxury hotels, national parks, tech conferences, and shanty towns-all part of a vast continent containing 54 countries, hundreds of landscapes, and thousands of languages. Until the world sees beyond the single negative story of Africa, we'll continue judging this ignorance.

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Chapitre 9

The Digital Revolution That Changed Everything

We are the bridge generation-those who remember life before social media but grew up with it and now can't imagine life without it. As early adopters of platforms like Facebook (since 2004) and Twitter (since 2008), we've witnessed how social media has fundamentally shaped communication while simultaneously deteriorating our basic social skills. Your social media experience depends entirely on who you allow into your digital space-the people you friend, follow, and like determine your "eLife." While some connections bring daily brilliance and laughter, others make you "roll your eyes so hard that you go temporarily cross-eyed." Hashtags serve valuable purposes by making words trackable and connecting conversations. They've launched important movements like #BlackLivesMatter and created hilarious cultural moments. Despite their utility, hashtag abuse has become rampant-hashtagging every word in a sentence, tagging basic words like "the," or creating complete sentence hashtags that serve no functional purpose. The predictable stages of Facebook relationships provide endless entertainment, from the lovey-dovey beginnings to the passive-aggressive statuses that signal trouble in paradise. Amateur detectives analyze exactly when things went wrong between couples who air their dirty laundry online, followed by the dreaded "It's Complicated" relationship status change that invites a flood of condolence comments. Social media encourages oversharing, allowing us to curate our lives for digital consumption. The Everything Sucks Oversharer constantly complains, the Mundane Oversharer documents every trivial moment, the Relationship Oversharer broadcasts intimate details, the Bodily Fluids Oversharer shares gross physical functions, and the Work Oversharer risks their career with inappropriate complaints. We've become actors in our own invisible films, performing our lives for validation through likes and comments. The internet is not a safe space-it's filled with people who don't care about our well-being yet we entrust them with our innermost thoughts. Real Gs move in silence like gnats, keeping personal relationships and bodily functions private. One is sacred, the other gross.

Chapitre 10

The Price of Fame in a Digital World

Social media has given everyone a voice and audience-an ePulpit where anyone can deliver sermons through their eMicrophone. Fame has been democratized and no longer signifies extraordinary talent. Now, fifteen minutes of fame can be achieved in fifteen seconds with the right viral video. The lengths people go to for Internet fame are shocking-from faking pregnancy announcements to stealing content. Our culture normalizes dishonesty as people create false personas, steal jokes, repost others' videos without credit, and fabricate experiences. Some even Photoshop themselves into vacation photos they never took or buy fake followers to appear influential. While it's cool that anyone can create an online community and amplify their voice, this democratized fame has created monsters among us. The Internet celebrity ecosystem includes several archetypes: The Number Dropper who constantly mentions their follower count in unrelated conversations; The Brand who rigidly maintains their online persona in inappropriate contexts; The Quasi-famous who exaggerates their recognition factor after being spotted once; The Powerful Threatener who bullies service workers with threats of social media "blasts." Internet fame is ultimately flimsy and ephemeral-it can be erased with the press of a button in some tech guy's office. Those Facebook pages with 500,000 fans can be deleted for violating terms, Twitter accounts with 200,000 followers can be suspended. We should check ourselves and understand that being a big deal online isn't necessarily permanent-you're only as good as your last piece of work.

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Chapitre 11

The Call to Do Something That Matters

When I was three or four, my mom taught me a powerful lesson about giving by making me hand my favorite doll to a less fortunate girl. Though I was devastated, this act planted the seed of service that defines me today. I fear too many see giving back as optional rather than obligatory, while I believe we're failing at existence when my having basic needs met makes me richer than 75% of humanity. The world's problems can feel overwhelming, but we each must look beyond ourselves to make Earth less terrible. You don't need to be Captain Planet-small acts matter. Refusing to serve is like being rescued from drowning then pulling the rope up behind you instead of helping others. Being an ally is one simple way to lift others: if you're white, befriend Black people and acknowledge privilege; if you're a man, treat women equally; if you're straight, love people regardless of who they love; if you're able-bodied, make spaces accessible. At minimum, don't contribute to systems of oppression. Those with platforms have special responsibility. When our voices shake, that's when our words need to be heard most. Speaking up isn't just for activists-even a whisper of truth matters in an echo chamber of lies. As Cicely Tyson said, "I wanted to use my career as a platform." Money is power that can be wielded for change, even when the person who has it is silent. If you have influence, use it-whether through speaking, giving, or volunteering. Service to others, as Shirley Chisholm said, "is the rent you pay for your room here on earth." Some of us are delinquent on this rent, but we can start doing better anytime. The world needs more people willing to judge what's wrong and then do something about it.

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Thèmes clés dans Je vous juge de haut

digital etiquette
cultural critique
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interpersonal boundaries
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Citations de Je vous juge de haut

We're all annoying sometimes.
Even toddlers deserve judgment.
Friends are life's bonus gifts.
Love has an extraordinary ability to cloud our judgment.
The concept of "ride-or-die" relationships often glorifies toxic loyalty.

Personnages de Je vous juge de haut

Luvvie AjayiAuthor and cultural critic
Shonda RhimesTelevision producer who optioned the book
Reckless RobinArchetype of the adventurous and boundary-less friend

À propos de l'auteur

Luvvie Ajayi Jones est une auteure nigéro-américaine à succès, une critique culturelle renommée et une militante pour une vie éthique. Elle est surtout connue pour son livre, I’m Judging You: The Do-Better Manual.

Mêlant humour et commentaires sociaux incisifs, le premier livre d'Ajayi Jones est devenu un best-seller du New York Times, atteignant la 5e place. L'ouvrage examine l'éthique moderne à travers des essais sur la race, la culture pop et la responsabilité personnelle, s'inspirant de son expérience face au plagiat en tant que blogueuse.

Ajayi Jones est également la fondatrice de la plateforme influente AwesomelyLuvvie.com. Son rayonnement s'est étendu grâce à sa conférence TED virale, « Get Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable », qui a recueilli plus de 9 millions de vues et a été traduite en 23 langues. De plus, elle co-anime le podcast Jesus and Jollof.

Auteure quatre fois classée au palmarès des best-sellers du New York Times, ses autres ouvrages incluent Professional Troublemaker: The Fear-Fighter Manual et le livre pour enfants Little Troublemaker Makes a Mess. Reconnue par la liste SuperSoul100 d'Oprah, elle intervient fréquemment dans des lieux tels que Google, TED et la Maison Blanche sous l'administration Obama. Son premier livre est actuellement en cours d'adaptation en série comique par Shondaland, la société de production de Shonda Rhimes.

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108

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254

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The Friends Who Make You Question Your Choices

When Love Makes Us Lose Our Minds

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The Weight of Society's Expectations

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The Systems That Keep Oppression Alive

When Ignorance Crosses Continental Boundaries

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The Digital Revolution That Changed Everything

The Price of Fame in a Digital World

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The Call to Do Something That Matters

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The Friends Who Make You Question Your Choices

When Love Makes Us Lose Our Minds

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The Weight of Society's Expectations

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The Systems That Keep Oppression Alive

When Ignorance Crosses Continental Boundaries

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