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    Social Anxiety to Authentic Self

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    30 nov 2025
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    Discover how to transform your relationship with social anxiety while staying true to yourself. Learn practical strategies to shift from hiding behind fear to embracing genuine connection and authenticity.

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    “

    Social anxiety isn't just about fear of judgment—it's the fear that those judgments are actually correct about us. The goal isn't becoming flawless, it's developing the courage to be imperfect.

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    Managing social anxiety and being yourself

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    Fuentes de conocimiento
    How to Be Yourself
    Overcoming Social Anxiety Part 1
    The dance of fear
    A More Effective Treatment Focus for Social Anxiety - Assertive Defense of the Self - by Christine A Padesky, PhD
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    https://www.padesky.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/social_phobia_updated2017.pdf
    Merging Acceptance and Commitment Therapy with Exposure Exercises to Treat Social Anxiety in a Teen
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    https://digitalcommons.usu.edu/psych_facpub/2216/
    An intervention to build social identities improves mental health and wellbeing in people with elevated social anxiety: Evidence from a singlearm clinical trial
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    https://openresearch-repository.anu.edu.au/server/api/core/bitstreams/6a8b25ab-6953-460c-aeb7-687df8ffd653/content

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    1

    Welcome and Setting the Stage

    0:00
    0:13
    0:31
    2

    Understanding the Heart of Social Anxiety

    0:45
    1:01
    1:10
    1:30
    1:40
    1:54
    2:00
    3

    The Social Skills Myth and Internal Focus

    2:15
    2:22
    2:39
    2:43
    2:57
    3:03
    3:16
    1:10
    4

    The Power of Assertive Self-Defense

    3:33
    3:38
    3:55
    1:10
    4:16
    4:18
    4:34
    4:40
    5

    Building Social Confidence Through Connection

    5:01
    5:11
    5:28
    1:10
    5:46
    5:46
    6:04
    1:10
    6

    The Courage to Be Imperfect

    6:23
    6:26
    6:43
    6:47
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    1:10
    7:20
    7:22
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    Practical Steps for Transformation

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    7:52
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    8:13
    8:28
    1:10
    8:49
    8:53
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    The Journey to Authentic Connection

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    9:37
    9:43
    9:55
    1:10
    10:15
    10:19
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    Wrapping Up: Your Path Forward

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