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    22. Apr. 2026

    Discover how our desperate need for approval corrupts design processes, turning user-centered thinking into committee-pleasing performance art that creates systems nobody actually wants.

    Why People-Pleasing Breaks Design Thinking

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    The False Consensus That Drives Bad Design

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    When Design Systems Become Performance Art

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    The Accommodation Trap in User Research

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