What is *Getting More* by Stuart Diamond about?

*Getting More* offers a revolutionary approach to negotiation, emphasizing emotions, perceptions, and cultural empathy over traditional power-based tactics. Stuart Diamond, a Pulitzer Prize-winning negotiator and Wharton professor, teaches strategies applicable to everyday scenarios—from parenting to billion-dollar deals. The book challenges conventional ideas like “win-win” and BATNA, advocating for collaborative solutions that create four times more value.

Who should read *Getting More*?

Professionals, parents, entrepreneurs, and anyone seeking to improve communication and outcomes in negotiations. The strategies are used by Google, Microsoft, and U.S. Special Operations. Stuart Diamond’s methods help sales teams close deals, managers resolve conflicts, and parents motivate children, making it ideal for diverse audiences.

Is *Getting More* worth reading?

Yes. A *New York Times* and *Wall Street Journal* bestseller, *Getting More* is endorsed by Fortune 500 leaders and military commanders. Its practical, real-world examples—like resolving the 2008 Hollywood Writers’ Strike—demonstrate actionable frameworks. Readers call it “the best investment” for career growth.

What are the main ideas in *Getting More*?

1. **Perceptions matter**: Understand the other party’s emotional drivers. 2. **Trade unequal items**: Exchange low-cost concessions for high-value gains. 3. **Incremental steps**: Break negotiations into smaller, manageable agreements. 4. **Cultural sensitivity**: Adapt to diverse communication styles.

What are key negotiation strategies in *Getting More*?

* **Frame issues collaboratively**: Use “we” language to align interests. * **Ask open-ended questions**: Uncover hidden needs. * **Leverage standards**: Cite precedents (e.g., market rates, policies) to justify requests. * **Build trust**: Small commitments foster rapport for larger agreements.

What are common criticisms of *Getting More*?

Some readers note a lack of step-by-step guides for complex scenarios. Critics argue its focus on empathy may falter in high-stakes, adversarial negotiations. However, most praise its practicality over academic theories like *Getting to Yes*.

How does *Getting More* compare to *Getting to Yes*?

While *Getting to Yes* focuses on principled negotiation and BATNA, *Getting More* prioritizes emotional intelligence and incremental gains. Diamond’s model is praised for real-world applicability, whereas Fisher and Ury’s framework is more theoretical.

How can *Getting More* be applied in business?

Microsoft’s Xbox team used its strategies to secure partnerships, while Google trained 12,000 employees globally. Key applications include client negotiations, conflict resolution, and cross-cultural deals. For example, framing proposals around a client’s budget constraints often yields better outcomes.

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Getting More

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"Getting More" by Stuart Diamond transforms negotiation through emotional intelligence, not power. Google trains employees with it, U.S. Special Ops saves lives with it, and it's created billions in value. Curious why traditional negotiation tactics fail 75% of the time?

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