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U thrive

how to succeed in college (and life)

Daniel Lerner and Alan Schlechter
3.85 (223 Reviews)

Overview of U thrive

Discover the science of thriving in "U Thrive" - the college success guide built on positive psychology principles from Martin Seligman's protege. Why are universities adopting these mindfulness techniques that transform academic stress into lifelong resilience and purpose?

Key Themes in U thrive

  • positive psychology
  • college transition
  • perma framework
  • academic resilience
  • student well-being

Quotes from U thrive

  • Happiness actually fuels success, not the other way around.

  • Positive emotions literally rewire our brains for better problem-solving.

  • College represents more than just academic advancement.

  • Positive emotions widen your perspective.

  • Cultivating positivity isn't just about feeling good-it's about creating the optimal conditions for excellence.

Characters in U thrive

  • Daniel LernerAuthor and instructor of NYU's happiness course
  • Alan SchlechterAuthor and instructor of NYU's happiness course
  • Barbara FredricksonPsychologist who pioneered broaden and build theory

About the Author

About the Author of U thrive

Daniel Lerner and Dr. Alan Schlechter, co-authors of U Thrive: How to Succeed in College (and Life), are leading voices in positive psychology and mental health education. Lerner, a clinical instructor at New York University and Master of Applied Positive Psychology, combines research on well-being with practical strategies for peak performance, coaching Fortune 500 executives, athletes, and artists.

Dr. Schlechter, a child psychiatrist at Bellevue Hospital and NYU Langone Medical Center professor, directs one of New York City’s largest public mental health clinics, focusing on resilience-building for underserved populations. Their NYU course “The Science of Happiness” — the university’s most popular elective — inspired this evidence-based guide to navigating college stressors while cultivating purpose and joy.

Blending humor with clinical expertise, U Thrive distills psychological research into actionable tools for academic and personal growth, covering mindfulness, relationships, and emotional regulation. The book has become a cornerstone of freshman orientation programs nationwide, praised for its engaging approach to mental health prevention. Both authors frequently speak at universities and corporate events, advocating for proactive well-being strategies in education and workplace cultures.

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FAQs About This Book

U Thrive is a science-backed guide to thriving in college and beyond, blending positive psychology with practical strategies for managing stress, building resilience, and fostering well-being. It addresses academic pressures, social challenges (like difficult roommates), and personal growth through actionable tips on goal-setting, mindfulness, and finding purpose. The book emphasizes holistic success over mere survival.

This book is ideal for college students, parents of undergraduates, educators, and anyone navigating life transitions. It’s particularly valuable for students feeling overwhelmed by academic demands, social dynamics, or self-doubt. Professors and mentors will also find insights to better support their students.

Yes—U Thrive combines rigorous research with relatable anecdotes, endorsed by experts like Angela Duckworth and Adam Grant. Its actionable advice on stress management, habit-building, and cultivating resilience makes it a standout resource for students seeking academic and personal success.

Key ideas include positive psychology (leveraging strengths for fulfillment), SMART goals (specific, measurable objectives), deliberate practice (structured skill-building), and flow states (deep focus). The book also stresses resilience, social connections, and physical health as pillars of thriving.

The book offers science-backed strategies like mindfulness exercises, reframing negative thoughts, and time management. For example, recalling a happy memory for 30 seconds before high-pressure moments can reduce anxiety. It also provides tips for balancing academics, social life, and self-care.

This framework merges academic success with well-being, emphasizing sleep, nutrition, exercise, and emotional health. Studies cited in the book show that holistic self-care improves grades and life satisfaction, challenging the myth that burnout is inevitable.

Unlike generic self-help guides, U Thrive tailors its advice to college-specific challenges (e.g., finals week, roommates). It blends academic research with real student stories, offering a roadmap for thriving—not just coping—during pivotal years.

The book features exercises like identifying core values, setting SMART goals, and journaling prompts to track progress. One exercise involves visualizing a “best possible self” to clarify long-term aspirations and align daily actions.

It advocates for deliberate practice—breaking skills into measurable steps—and finding mentors or internships (“apprenticeships”). For example, a student aiming for real estate success might study financing, marketing, and sales tactics systematically.

While praised for its actionable insights, some note its college-centric focus may limit appeal to broader audiences. However, its principles on resilience and well-being remain applicable to post-grad life and career challenges.

The book applies research on gratitude, strengths, and mindfulness to college contexts. For instance, practicing gratitude improves mental health, while leveraging personal strengths (e.g., creativity, curiosity) enhances academic performance and relationships.

Absolutely—its lessons on resilience, goal-setting, and emotional intelligence apply to career transitions, relationships, and personal growth. The authors stress that thriving is a lifelong practice, not just a college achievement.

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