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    Trying Not to Try: The Ancient Art of Effortlessness and the Surprising Power of Spontaneity
    Edward Slingerland
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    Discover the ancient Chinese art of "wu-wei" - effortless action that paradoxically requires intense effort. Tim Ferriss champions this counterintuitive approach where trying harder backfires. What if your greatest achievements come when you stop obsessively pursuing them?

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