What is *The Science of Stuck* by Britt Frank about?

*The Science of Stuck* explores the neuroscience behind why people feel trapped in unhealthy patterns, offering science-based strategies to overcome inertia. Britt Frank, a licensed neuropsychotherapist, combines brain biology with practical tools to help readers break cycles of procrastination, stress, and self-sabotage. Key themes include rewiring neural pathways, harnessing anxiety constructively, and using the “micro-yes” technique to spark action.

Who should read *The Science of Stuck*?

This book is ideal for individuals feeling stagnant in careers, relationships, or personal growth, as well as leaders addressing workplace burnout. It’s particularly relevant for high achievers who appear successful but struggle internally, offering actionable steps rooted in neuropsychotherapy.

Is *The Science of Stuck* worth reading?

Yes—the book is a *Wall Street Journal* bestseller translated into 8 languages, praised for bridging neuroscience and self-help. Readers gain tools like the 3 Steps to Unstuck and learn to reframe anxiety as a motivational force, making it valuable for personal and professional growth.

What are the 3 Steps to Unstuck from *The Science of Stuck*?

1. **Name It**: Identify the specific behavior or thought keeping you stuck. 2. **Trace It**: Explore the origin of the pattern (often tied to past trauma or conditioning). 3. **Replace It**: Use small, actionable “micro-yes” decisions to create new neural pathways.

How does *The Science of Stuck* redefine anxiety?

Britt Frank frames anxiety as a “superhero” signaling unmet needs, not a villain to suppress. By understanding its biological purpose—mobilizing action—readers learn to channel anxiety into problem-solving rather than avoidance.

Can *The Science of Stuck* help with workplace stress?

Yes. Frank addresses burnout by teaching readers to de-therapize workplaces, set boundaries, and use somatic techniques to regulate stress responses. The “micro-yes” method helps break overwhelming tasks into manageable steps, improving productivity and mental health.

What is the “micro-yes” technique in *The Science of Stuck*?

A strategy to combat paralysis by committing to tiny, immediate actions (e.g., “I’ll work for 2 minutes”). These micro-choices bypass the brain’s fear response, building momentum and reactivating decision-making capabilities.

How does *The Science of Stuck* approach trauma?

Frank, a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, emphasizes body-based healing over talk therapy. The book teaches readers to recognize trauma’s physical manifestations and use grounding exercises to release stored stress, aiding recovery.

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Overview of Science of Stuck

Feeling stuck? Britt Frank's groundbreaking guide dismantles motivation myths with trauma-informed science. Mental health professionals praise its "sensitively crafted" approach that's transforming therapy practices nationwide. What if your stuckness isn't laziness but your brain's survival response waiting to be decoded?

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Chapter 1

When Getting Unstuck Feels Impossible

The Science of Stuck has become a phenomenon in the self-help world, with celebrities like Brene Brown and Glennon Doyle praising its practical approach to breaking free from life's most frustrating patterns. Britt Frank's groundbreaking work has resonated with millions who find themselves trapped in cycles of procrastination, anxiety, and self-sabotage. What makes this book particularly powerful is how it bridges the gap between neuroscience and everyday experience, offering a roadmap for those who know what they should do but can't seem to do it. As one reader famously noted, "This isn't just another self-help book-it's the missing manual for the human brain." Let's explore why understanding the science of being stuck might be the key to finally getting unstuck.

Chapter 2

Anxiety: Your Internal Navigation System

Imagine if your car's check-engine light flashed, and instead of investigating the problem, you simply covered it with tape. That's essentially what we do when trying to eliminate anxiety rather than understanding its purpose. Contrary to popular belief, anxiety isn't the enemy-it's a sophisticated internal navigation system designed to alert us when something needs attention. Our culture has trained us to view anxiety as a disorder to be medicated away, but current research from experts like Dr. Bessel van der Kolk and Dr. Stephen Porges reveals that anxiety provides crucial signals when we're out of alignment with external safety or internal truth. When you feel anxious, your body is communicating something important-it's not attacking you. The mental health system rarely considers external factors like oppression, patriarchy, or systemic racism when treating anxiety. Most therapists can become licensed without learning about the body's stress responses. When we numb anxiety through distractions like eating, social media scrolling, or drinking, we miss powerful signals pointing us toward our authentic selves. What we call "anxiety disorders" should more accurately be termed "anxiety responses." These aren't disorders but survival mechanisms. When anxious, you've switched from rational mode into survival brain. The distinction between anxiety, fear, and worry is crucial-anxiety manifests as uncomfortable physical sensations without an identifiable source (like a car's check-engine light), fear produces similar sensations but with a clear source, and worry is essentially "diet fear." Consider Jo, who struggled with "social anxiety" for years. Through therapy, she discovered her discomfort wasn't random anxiety but a reasonable fear response to a college sexual assault. By recognizing her "anxiety" as a trauma response and developing appropriate coping strategies, Jo eventually eliminated her symptoms entirely. Anxiety functions like a superpower-not because it feels good, but because it guides you toward what needs attention. The bottom line: your body isn't trying to hurt you; it's actually on your side. What we label as anxiety disorders are often just your brain attempting communication. Removing shame and guilt from the equation makes solutions much more accessible.

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Chapter 3

The Hidden Benefits of Staying Stuck

Have you ever wondered why, despite knowing exactly what you should do to improve your life, you remain frustratingly immobile? The answer might surprise you: staying stuck often serves a purpose. When we examine our motivations with self-acceptance rather than self-shame, we discover that even our most self-defeating behaviors offer hidden rewards. While working as a television producer interviewing women in abusive relationships, I noticed something surprising-these women often spoke wistfully about the "good times" with their abusive partners. This revealed a fundamental truth: underneath most unhealthy behaviors lie hidden rewards. These initial benefits create cycles of repetition that keep us returning to harmful situations. There are four primary perks to staying stuck, which I call the Four P's: First, staying stuck prevents discomfort. Taking a fearless inventory of relationships, career, habits, and beliefs often reveals that getting unstuck requires uncomfortable conversations. Irina, a 52-year-old with severe anxiety, refused to acknowledge her unhappiness in a toxic workplace where she was overworked, underpaid, and subjected to inappropriate comments. She maintained a facade of loyalty, fearing that addressing her real issues would force her to leave her job of thirteen years. Second, staying stuck protects you from emotions. There are no negative emotions-only uncomfortable ones that serve important functions. Anger points to injustice, sadness to loss, and fear to threat. I had to become thoroughly sick of spacing out in conversations, finding myself in abusive relationships, and feeling body shame before becoming willing to face my emotions. Third, staying stuck promotes connection. If your primary attachment figure struggled with anxiety, you likely mimicked their behaviors to bond with them. As a child, I became highly sensitive and nervous, subconsciously trying to connect with my anxious mother by sharing her emotional state. Finally, staying stuck points to problems. Depression is often used interchangeably with feeling stuck. While traditionally viewed as a disease, depression may actually be an adaptive mechanism-nature's way of signaling needed change. A brain that feels safe typically doesn't produce clinical depression symptoms. Understanding these benefits creates forward momentum, while denying them fosters shame. Procrastination isn't laziness but protection from potential failure and rejection. Acknowledging these rewards without judgment is the first step toward change.

Chapter 4

The Myth of Motivation

Since the 16th century, we've clung to the concept of laziness as a moral failing rather than a biological reality. Just as we've moved beyond toxic beauty treatments and bloodletting, we must update our understanding of why we get stuck. When you want to be productive but find yourself procrastinating, you're experiencing a trauma response-not laziness. Your brain's primary function is survival, not happiness-it constantly anticipates energy needs through allostasis. When your brain budgets energy inaccurately, you experience either too much energy (anxiety/panic) or too little (depression/fatigue), creating trauma responses even when no immediate threat exists. Even when you consciously feel safe, your body may disagree-and your body calls the shots. As Dr. Stephen Porges explains, our nervous systems continuously evaluate risk outside our conscious awareness. What appears as laziness or lack of motivation is actually your physiology responding to perceived danger. Common indicators of unresolved trauma include indecisiveness, over-apologizing, difficulty saying no, ADD/ADHD/OCD symptoms, people-pleasing, perfectionism, racing thoughts, inability to relax, procrastination, exaggerated startle response, and difficulty enjoying basic pleasures without guilt. Contrary to popular belief, having trauma doesn't necessarily mean experiencing catastrophic events-everyone has trauma to some degree, simply by virtue of being human. Dr. Peter Levine defines trauma as anything that is "too much, too fast, or too soon." Trauma is an internal process-not an external event. It's essentially brain indigestion, your brain's inability to process and metabolize information. Whether you identify as a trauma survivor or not, feeling overwhelmed, stuck in the "off position," or unable to sleep, relax, or focus are all trauma responses-your brain's attempts to keep you safe. The things we think make us broken are often our brains doing exactly what they're designed to do to keep us alive. Trauma responses are frequently misdiagnosed as mental illness, but trauma is an injury, not an illness-and it can heal. There's no such thing as an unmotivated or lazy person. Humans are always motivated-either to make conscious choices or to survive threats. When you say "I struggle with motivation," what you really mean is "My brain thinks it needs to conserve energy to keep me alive." Rather than a static (fixed) nervous system, a dynamic (mobile) system is the goal-one capable of change and smooth transitions between active and resting states. Your autonomic nervous system includes two divisions: on (sympathetic nervous system/SNS) and off (parasympathetic nervous system/PNS). When stuck in "on" mode, you'll experience distraction, restlessness, inability to relax, anxiety, panic, and irritability. When stuck in "off" mode, you'll feel exhausted, immobilized, depressed, frozen, and numb. The best way to manage trauma responses is developing fluency in body sensations. Mental health isn't about strength versus weakness-it's about perception of safety versus danger. A brain that feels safe has no need to produce symptoms.

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Chapter 5

Shadow Intelligence

The shadow isn't something scary or mystical but a metaphor for parts of ourselves we're ashamed to admit or afraid to encounter. Just as physical shadows form when light is blocked, psychological shadows emerge when awareness is blocked. People might have creativity shadows (thinking they should always be practical) or anger shadows (thinking they should always be nice). Carl Jung wrote that we must have a dark side to be whole. Rather than being taught wholeness, most people learn to split off from socially unacceptable thoughts and feelings, valuing goodness over wholeness. The author compares shadows to fire-having potential for both comfort and destruction. She contrasts Bruce Wayne/Batman (who successfully integrated his shadow anger into a force for justice) with Walter White from Breaking Bad (whose shadow overtook him, transforming him from a gentle teacher to a vicious drug kingpin). Beyond IQ and EQ, there's SQ (shadow intelligence)-knowing your shadows inside and out. Shadow work frees energy previously used to suppress parts of yourself. Shadow qualities like resentment, procrastination, envy, gossip, and guilt can offer potential gifts such as boundary awareness, protection from threats, insight into desires, connection needs, and proof of empathy. Having multiple personalities is normal and different from having a disorder. The psyche is like other complex systems-composed of multiple subparts working together. From the "parts perspective," issues like procrastination signal internal non-consent rather than character flaws. Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps work with these parts, suggesting we think of them as a cast of characters including fearful children, sullen teenagers, and critical parents. Richard Schwartz compares your internal system to an orchestra that needs a conductor to transform noise into music. This "capable conductor" is known as the Essential Self, Higher Self, Soul, or simply "Self" in IFS terminology. Self-leadership allows you to respond to stressors rather than react to triggers. When your capital-S Self is in charge rather than your parts, you gain access to the 8 C's of Self-Leadership: Confidence, Calmness, Creativity, Clarity, Curiosity, Courage, Compassion, and Connectedness. The secret to effective self-talk is turning your inner monologue into a dialogue by using your name or pronouns instead of "I." This third-person self-talk (illeism) creates psychological space between you and your stressors. Research shows this practice increases self-control under stress because we're generally kinder to others than to ourselves. Self-parenting means speaking to and caring for all your parts with kindness and compassion. When you learn to parent yourself, you stop seeking validation from others or pushing yourself to exhaustion. The PART method helps: Pause (remember you have multiple parts), Acknowledge your parts, Remove shame (your parts are trying to help), and Take back the "conductor's baton" to make a plan.

Chapter 6

How to Human: Relationship Crash Courses

After experiencing a destructive relationship that devolved from fairy tale to nightmare, I discovered that relationship issues are universal equalizers. The good news is that shifting relationships out of stuck patterns doesn't require years of therapy-just willing participants and accurate information. There's a famous Buddhist saying applicable to intimacy: "Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional." In other words, conflict is inevitable, but fighting is optional. A conflict language creates safety during difficult conversations, preventing amygdala hijack when our brains perceive danger. Dr. Stan Tatkin emphasizes that we must devote ourselves to our partner's sense of safety, not just our own idea of what that should be. I've identified six conflict languages: Social Distancing (leaving physical space during conflict), Time Limits (setting timers and taking breaks), Virtual vs. In-Person communication options, Emergency Exit (safe words to stop conversations), Food Fights (eating during difficult conversations to prevent escalation), and Geographic Location (consciously choosing where to have difficult conversations). A conflict contract is a document specifying rules for fair fighting. While we wouldn't expect athletes to compete without rulebooks, we enter arguments with loved ones without any guidelines. Consider Denise and Bryan, a successful couple who own a doggie day spa. Despite their picture-perfect social media presence, they stormed into my office hurling accusations until I had to stop the session. Before they could even approach solutions, they needed a conflict contract. The biggest misconception about boundaries is that they require someone else's agreement. In reality, boundaries are about your choices in response to others' behavior, not making others do things. When you say "They keep crossing my boundaries!" you likely mean they didn't do what you wanted-that's actually a request, not a boundary. Requests ask someone to do something, while boundaries are choices you make in response to their behavior, requiring no discussion or compliance. The phrase "I'm sorry" is often hollow, especially when followed by "if" statements that shift blame. Instead of empty apologies, making amends offers a faster path to relationship repair. The Four O's method works better: OWN your behavior ("I admit I did/didn't..."), OBSERVE how it impacted your partner ("I imagine you felt..."), OUTLINE your plan to prevent recurrence ("In the future I will..."), and OFFER to listen ("Is there anything else you need me to know?").

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Chapter 7

The Sticky World of Friendships and Dating

Friendships are not merely nice-to-have luxuries but biological necessities with profound survival value. Extensive research demonstrates that lack of strong social relationships increases premature death risk by 50%-comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes daily and worse than obesity or physical inactivity. This finding has been replicated across multiple studies, with social isolation showing measurable negative impacts on blood pressure, immune function, and mental health outcomes. Adult friendships differ fundamentally from childhood ones in several key ways. Without the built-in daily proximity of school or neighborhood play, maintaining connections requires deliberate effort and planning. Adult responsibilities like work, family, and geographic mobility create natural barriers to spontaneous interaction. Adult friendships also involve more nuanced boundaries about sharing personal information, with selective vulnerability replacing childhood's open-book approach. Notably, adult friendships can handle conflict without permanent rupture, using mature communication rather than playground-style fighting. These relationships naturally ebb and flow rather than maintaining the "best friends forever" intensity of youth. The modern landscape of adult friendship requires consciously deciding what roles matter most, moving beyond pop culture's limited portrayal of friendship archetypes like the "party friend" or "work bestie." The author advocates for a more nuanced approach, defining specific trust parameters for different friendship roles. Rather than requiring blanket "trust" from everyone, we can cultivate varied relationships: adventure partners, emotional confidants, practical support systems, and intellectual sparring partners. This framework allows for richer, more diverse social connections. The author systematically dismantles romanticized notions of relationships, using popular culture examples to illustrate problematic patterns. Beloved movie couples like Belle and the Beast or Edward and Bella actually showcase concerning dynamics including emotional manipulation, stalking behavior, and isolation from support systems. Dating creates what she terms "couple cocaine"-a potent cocktail of brain chemicals including dopamine, norepinephrine, and oxytocin that can impair judgment for approximately twelve months, explaining why new couples often make decisions they later regret. Five pervasive toxic fairy tales about relationships deserve particular scrutiny: First, the notion that "all you need is love" dangerously suggests that emotional connection alone can overcome fundamental incompatibilities in values, goals, or communication styles. Second, the advice to "never go to sleep angry" ignores how attempting complex emotional discussions while exhausted often escalates conflicts. Third, the assumption that "monogamy is your only option" overlooks how consensual non-monogamy, while requiring sophisticated communication skills, can be a viable choice for many couples. Fourth, the belief that couples should "spend every waking moment together" contradicts the psychological need for individual space and growth. Finally, the idea that "you need someone to complete you" promotes an unhealthy deficit mindset leading to "projection bonding"-where partners try to fill their own emotional gaps through their relationship. In the realm of dating, the author emphasizes that "mixed signals" are actually clear signals in disguise. When someone is both genuinely interested and emotionally available, their behavior will consistently demonstrate both qualities. The equation "Interested + unavailable = mixed signal" should be interpreted as a clear signal to redirect one's emotional energy elsewhere, as genuine romantic potential requires both interest and availability to align.

Chapter 8

The Emotionally Unskilled Family

The author challenges our idealized views of family dynamics, arguing that the Addams Family actually represents one of the healthiest fictional families due to their passionate marriage, valuing of self-expression, individual interests, welcoming nature, and consent-based interactions. She emphasizes that all families exist on a continuum of dysfunction-even relatively "normal" families cause emotional wounds. The author challenges the concept of "normal" families, noting that all families cause some degree of emotional wounds. She addresses how people from relatively functional families often minimize their pain with statements like "Other people had it worse" or "I shouldn't be upset." She defines trauma as "anything less than nurturing" and reassures parents that making mistakes is inevitable-what matters is identifying and correcting them. Rather than categorizing families as good or bad, she introduces the concepts of "emotionally skilled" versus "emotionally unskilled" families. Emotionally skilled families generally demonstrate secure attachment and authoritative parenting, introducing the SKILLED acronym (Seek solutions, Keep communication direct, Invite dialogue, Listen, Learn, Empathize, Disagree respectfully) to describe healthy family dynamics. Signs of emotionally unskilled families include controlling behaviors (using intimidation, guilt, and emotional outbursts to maintain power), closed systems (distrusting outside influences and mandating conformity), and rigid roles (assigning specific identities to family members and resisting attempts to change them). When facing emotionally unskilled family dynamics, the author recommends practicing mindful responding rather than automatic reacting. She introduces the BUILD framework: set Boundaries (essential for wellness), Unsubscribe from obligation-based thinking, Investigate perceptions through reality testing, Label your own thoughts and feelings, and Delay compassion until you've fully acknowledged your injuries. She emphasizes that compassion without boundaries is codependence, and clarifies that forgiveness is not required to heal trauma-it's often an overflow of emotional healing, not a prerequisite. Rushing to forgive can lead to self-inflicted gaslighting by minimizing your reality.

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Chapter 9

Let's Play: Getting Unstuck Through Strategic Action

Like chess has endured for 1,500 years because it's a perfect metaphor for life. Both are complex, suspenseful, require sacrifices, and benefit from strategy. In chess and life, even a simple pawn can become powerful with persistence. Sometimes we all end up in zugzwang-when any move makes a bad situation worse. As Benjamin Franklin observed, "Life is a kind of Chess, in which we have often points to gain, and competitors or adversaries to contend with." The seven rules to escape being stuck are: 1. Take Inventory: Identify all areas of your life as chess pieces-Career, Money, Social Life, Intimate Partner, Family, Children/Parenting, Spirituality, Creativity, Physical Health, Body Image, Hobbies, Self-Care, Mental Health, Sex, Purpose, and Community. Taking inventory helps you see the whole board rather than fixating on one stuck area. 2. Look for Easy Moves: When overwhelmed, don't force things. Look for easy moves and do those first. There's no specific order to follow-you might feel trapped at work but find ease with relationships. As long as you do something, you're still in the game. All moves count-even the easy ones. 3. Make a List of Three Choices: For each stuck area on your board, write down three small choices. For example, if money feels trapped: make a list of all overdue bills, write down customer service phone numbers, and call one bill collector to set up a payment plan. 4. Know Which Pieces You Can and Cannot Move: The Serenity Prayer reminds us to accept what we cannot change, have courage to change what we can, and wisdom to know the difference. It's critical to distinguish between what you want to change but can't versus what you think you can't change but actually can. 5. Do One Thing: Newton's first law applies to your stuck state-objects at rest stay at rest until acted upon. Once you start moving, progress compounds rapidly. Choose one task from your list of three and commit to doing it within a week. 6. Listen to Feedback: Stuck transforms into unstuck the moment you take any step-even if it feels like the wrong direction. Like GPS, you won't receive guidance until you start moving. The beauty is that wrong turns provide immediate feedback and rerouting opportunities. 7. Celebrate: Sometimes you're not actually stuck but it seems that way because you don't validate smaller wins. You dismiss cooking at home because "I still have weight to lose" or making credit card payments because "I still have debt." Celebrating isn't frivolous-it's a powerful brain hack that shifts your physiology. Though this book focuses on science, spirituality is essential to getting unstuck. Spirituality-our universal desire for meaning, connection, beauty, and purpose-doesn't require belief in a deity. As Carl Sagan wrote, "Science is not only compatible with spirituality; it is a profound source of spirituality." Don't wait until you feel ready-you need only willingness. Expect discomfort as you shift out of stuck. Sometimes changing feels like breaking, but you are unbreakable. There's a place inside all of us untouched by trauma and impervious to stuck. You don't need years of therapy to get unstuck-symptom accommodation through medication, trigger avoidance, or coping skills is perfectly valid. All mental health symptoms are creative manifestations of unmet needs-you're not lazy, crazy, or unmotivated. Take small steps, see how things go, then take another. This is your life. Your chessboard. Let's play.

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Key Themes in Science of Stuck

nervous system regulation
trauma-informed recovery
secondary gain analysis
survival brain mechanisms
procrastination as protection

Quotes from Science of Stuck

Feelings are not facts.
Anxiety functions like a superpower-not because it feels good, but because it guides you toward what needs attention.
There are no negative emotions-only uncomfortable ones that serve important functions.
When you want to be productive but find yourself procrastinating, you're experiencing a trauma response-not laziness.
Trauma is an internal process-not an external event.

Characters in Science of Stuck

Britt FrankAuthor, therapist, and former TV producer
JoCase study who processed trauma-based social fear
Irina52-year-old case study in a toxic workplace
Dr. Bessel van der KolkExpert researcher on trauma and the body
Dr. Stephen PorgesExpert researcher on the body's stress responses

About the Author

Britt Frank is the bestselling author of The Science of Stuck and a licensed neuropsychotherapist specializing in human behavior and mental health. Blending academic rigor with real-world insight, Frank—a Duke University and University of Kansas graduate—draws on her training in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Somatic Experiencing to address themes of inertia, resilience, and neuroscience-backed personal growth. Her work as an award-winning adjunct professor and keynote speaker at events like the Kansas City Business Journal’s Women’s Summit informs her no-nonsense approach to breaking cycles of stagnation.

Frank’s expertise has been featured in The New York Times, Forbes, NPR, and her Psychology Today column, solidifying her reputation as a trusted voice in self-development. Her interactive companion workbook, The Getting Unstuck Workbook, extends the practical strategies in her seminal book. Known for her high-energy workshops and “brain hacks,” Frank equips individuals and organizations with tools to transform stress into actionable progress.

The Science of Stuck has been translated into eight languages and praised for its blend of humor, science, and relatable storytelling, resonating with readers navigating burnout, decision fatigue, and life transitions.

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@Pitiful

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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

201

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

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483

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The Myth of Motivation

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How to Human: Relationship Crash Courses

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The Sticky World of Friendships and Dating

The Emotionally Unskilled Family

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