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    Ron Lieber
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    In "The Opposite of Spoiled," NYT columnist Ron Lieber reveals why money conversations create grounded, generous kids. This Wall Street Journal bestseller challenges conventional parenting wisdom with a counterintuitive truth: talking about finances doesn't spoil children - it's the secret to raising financially brilliant ones.

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