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    How Trust Works
    Peter H. Kim
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    In "How Trust Works," USC professor Peter Kim shatters conventional wisdom: trust isn't always earned gradually. His award-winning research reveals why a single bad act outweighs lifetime goodness, and why apologies work for competence violations but not integrity breaches. Featured in NYT and NPR.

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