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Jared Tendler

Jared Tendler is a mental game coach and author who specializes in performance psychology for poker, trading, and golf. He is best known for The Mental Game of Poker and The Mental Game of Trading, which helped popularize structured approaches to tilt control, confidence, and decision-making under pressure.

Biography & Author's Journey

Jared Tendler built his career from a personal frustration. As a junior golfer, he experienced a formative collapse in a 1997 U.S. Open local qualifier, missing a playoff by one shot after four short misses. At Skidmore College he became a three-time All-American and won nine tournaments, yet continued to underperform in national events. That mismatch between ability and results pushed him toward deeper study. He earned a master’s degree in counseling psychology, became a licensed mental health counselor, and in 2005 began coaching golfers, turning his own search for answers into a practical framework for performance. ((https://jaredtendler.com/about-jared/?utm_source=openai))

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Quotes

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You can’t stop what you can’t see
-The Mental Game System
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Too many people think pain is the problem and don’t take the step back to understand what’s causing the pain
-Find the “Rocks” in Your Mind
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Goals provide direction for your motivation
-Everything Gets Easier When Your Goals are Right
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Emotions provide data on a host of things, including our underlying belief systems, goals, perspectives, and ingrained habits
-Emotions Signal a Problem— They’re Not the Problem
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You heard that last one right, intense emotions make it harder to control your emotions!
-The Malfunctioning Mind
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In short, “tomorrow” never comes. It’s a fantasy
-Perfectionists Who Procrastinate
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Real mental toughness doesn’t happen by forcing yourself to be fearless or tiltless or supremely confident once or twice
-Training Mental Toughness
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Ignorance of your own ignorance creates overconfidence
-Overconfidence is a Silent Killer
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I stand by it though – you can’t always be at your best
-You Can’t Always Be Your Best

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Trading psychology
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Trading psychology

Trading success depends as much on psychological mastery as on technical analysis. This learning plan helps traders at all levels overcome emotional barriers, develop mental discipline, and build the psychological resilience needed to maintain consistency in volatile markets.

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Trading in the zone, Mark Douglas 
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Trading in the zone, Mark Douglas 

This plan is essential for traders who have technical knowledge but struggle with emotional consistency and discipline. It bridges the gap between market analysis and profitable execution, making it ideal for both beginners and experienced investors seeking a professional edge.

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Mental toughness
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Mental toughness

Mental toughness is the critical differentiator between those who crumble under pressure and those who thrive. This learning plan provides research-backed frameworks and practical techniques for building psychological resilience, benefiting professionals, athletes, and anyone facing significant challenges or high-stakes situations.

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Sports mentality
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This plan is essential for athletes and high-performers who struggle with performance anxiety or inconsistency. It provides the psychological toolkit needed to bridge the gap between physical talent and championship-level execution.

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Learn about tennis
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This learning plan is designed for tennis players at any level who want to move beyond just physical technique and develop the mental, strategic, and holistic skills that separate good players from great ones. Whether you're a beginner struggling with performance anxiety, an intermediate player hitting a plateau, or an advanced competitor seeking that championship edge, this comprehensive approach combines mental game mastery, champion insights, and tactical intelligence to transform your complete tennis performance.

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Strategies for poker
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Strategies for poker

This learning plan bridges the gap between casual play and professional mastery by combining mathematical precision with psychological insight. It is ideal for aspiring players looking to transform their game from intuition-based to a data-driven, strategic powerhouse.

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Be a better poker player
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Be a better poker player

Poker combines mathematics, psychology, and strategic thinking in ways few games can match, making it an excellent training ground for decision-making under uncertainty. This learning plan is designed for anyone looking to move beyond casual play—whether you're a recreational player tired of losing to friends, an aspiring professional seeking systematic improvement, or a strategic thinker drawn to the game's intellectual depth.

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Psychology, Self-Improvement & Investing
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Psychology, Self-Improvement & Investing

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Community Voices

"Jared Tendler cares about people. That's why he is so good at helping them"

Tommy Angelo

"Jared Tendler invented the field, as far as I'm concerned"

Jesse May

"Jared Tendler is the author of The Mental Game of Poker and has coached more than 200 players from around the world"

PokerNews

"Jared Tendler is a pioneer of the poker mental game"

Hunter Bick

"Jared Tendler is one of the most respected names in the world of mental game coaching in the poker industry"

Poker News Daily

"Jared Tendler is a mental game coach for over 650 poker players from 45 countries, including some of the top players in the world"

Card Player

"Tilt? Jared Tendler extends his arm and casually flicks a middle finger at it"

Jon Young

"Jared Tendler is a mental game coach who has worked with over 300 poker players and helped them achieve their full potential at the table"

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