Harriet Lerner
출생: November 30, 1944 – Brooklyn, New York, United States
Harriet Lerner is a clinical psychologist and author whose work centers on women’s psychology, family systems, anger, apology, and intimate relationships. She is best known for The Dance of Anger and books including The Dance of Connection and Why Won’t You Apologize?; The Dance of Anger became a long-running bestseller and sold millions of copies.
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Harriet Lerner grew up in Brooklyn in a household that linked learning, culture, and therapy. She has said that her mother’s belief in therapy helped fix her ambition early; before finishing kindergarten, she had already decided to become a psychologist. She studied psychology and East Indian studies at the University of Wisconsin–Madison, spent a junior year doing research in Delhi, earned an M.A. from Teachers College, Columbia University, and completed a Ph.D. in clinical psychology at the City University of New York. After internship training at Mount Zion Hospital in San Francisco, she moved to Topeka in 1972 for postdoctoral work at the Menninger Foundation and remained there for more than two decades as a teacher, supervisor, and clinician. ((https://www.harrietlerner.com/about?utm_source=openai))
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The Psychology of Connection
This learning plan is essential for anyone seeking to move beyond surface-level interactions and heal strained relationships. It is particularly beneficial for individuals looking to balance emotional intimacy with strong personal boundaries through evidence-based psychological strategies.
Break free from limerent obsession patterns
This plan is designed for individuals who feel trapped in cycles of obsessive longing or emotionally draining relationships. It provides a science-backed roadmap to healing attachment wounds and reclaiming emotional autonomy from codependent patterns.
Self healing
Self-healing is essential for anyone carrying unprocessed trauma, chronic self-criticism, or disconnection from their body and emotions. This learning plan offers a compassionate, structured path for those ready to understand their wounds, release stored pain, and cultivate the self-love necessary for genuine transformation and lasting peace.
Release anger from past misunderstandings
This plan is designed for individuals feeling weighed down by long-standing grudges or recurring conflicts rooted in past miscommunications. It provides a holistic path for anyone seeking to transition from reactive anger to proactive emotional clarity and interpersonal connection.
Neurochemistry of Love, Trauma & Bonding
Understanding the biological roots of our emotional lives is essential for anyone seeking to break destructive relationship cycles. This plan is ideal for therapists, coaches, or individuals looking to leverage neuroscience to build deeper, more secure connections.
Psychology, Desire & Relationships Guide
This guide is essential for individuals seeking to move beyond surface-level interactions and understand the biological and psychological roots of human connection. It is ideal for anyone looking to heal relationship patterns, improve emotional regulation, and master the art of intimate communication.
Fisher: Brain Systems of Love & Attachment
This learning plan bridges the gap between biological research and interpersonal dynamics, making it essential for anyone seeking to understand the 'why' behind their romantic impulses. It is particularly beneficial for individuals looking to heal attachment wounds and professionals in the coaching or psychology fields.
Heal shame & master conflicts
Shame and unresolved conflicts damage relationships, career growth, and mental health, yet most people never learn the skills to address them effectively. This learning plan combines research-backed approaches from psychology, negotiation science, and relationship studies to help anyone struggling with self-criticism, avoiding difficult conversations, or feeling stuck in recurring conflicts. Whether you're navigating workplace tensions, personal relationships, or your own inner critic, these skills are fundamental to living authentically and building meaningful connections.
커뮤니티 의견
"Harriet Lerner pioneers on behalf of women’s whole humanity"
— Gloria Steinem
"I love Harriet Lerner’s work!"
— Anne Lamott
"With her signature punch and humor, Harriet Lerner tackles the injuries that occur in marriage, family and friendship"
— Janis Abrahms Spring
"If you want to know why Harriet Lerner is one of my great heroes, Why Won’t You Apologize? is the answer"
— Brené Brown
"Harriet Lerner ... is a serious writer with a gift for translating scholarly ideas into books that hit a nerve with lay audiences"
— SFGATE
"With accessible language, luminous examples, and clinical nuance, Harriet Lerner shows us the value and power of apologies"
— Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt
"Harriet Lerner is one hell of a wise woman"
— Esther Perel
"Harriet Lerner has written a valuable guide for both those who deserve an apology and those who owe one"
— John Kador
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
