Ethan Kross
Ethan Kross is a psychologist and University of Michigan professor whose work explores emotion regulation, self-control, and inner dialogue. He is the author of Chatter and Shift. Chatter became a national bestseller and has been translated into more than 40 languages, extending his research to broad public audiences.
Biography & Author's Journey
Ethan Kross is an American psychologist, professor, and nonfiction author whose work sits at the intersection of emotion regulation, self-control, and the ordinary experience of inner dialogue. Born and raised in Brooklyn, New York, he studied psychology at the University of Pennsylvania, graduating magna cum laude and joining Phi Beta Kappa, then earned his PhD in psychology at Columbia University. A postdoctoral fellowship in social-affective neuroscience further shaped his interest in how people regulate thoughts and feelings. In 2008 he joined the University of Michigan, where he founded the Emotion and Self-Control Laboratory, the institutional base for much of his later academic and public work.
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Community Voices
"Ethan Kross isn’t just a world-renowned scientist, he’s an expert storyteller too"
— Susan Cain
"With a scientist’s rigor and a storyteller’s ease, Ethan Kross uncovers the hidden levers that move our emotions"
— Daniel H. Pink
"Ethan Kross has done something remarkable: he’s written a page-turner that’s grounded in science and filled with practical insights"
— Adam Grant
"In Chatter, Ethan Kross weaves cutting-edge science with riveting stories to reveal the tools people can use to manage these experiences"
— Carol Dweck
"Ethan Kross presents a revolutionary guide to mastering your emotional life"
— Charles Duhigg
"Ethan Kross illuminates and solves the crucial issue of mastering self-talk in this modern classic"
— Dave Evans
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"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
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"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
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