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Dr. Judy Ho

Born: June 12, 1979 – Taipei, Taipei City, Taiwan

Dr. Judy Ho is a clinical and forensic neuropsychologist whose writing focuses on attachment, self-sabotage, relationships, and parenting. She is the author of Stop Self-Sabotage and The New Rules of Attachment, and co-author of I’ll Give It to You Straightish. A tenured Pepperdine professor, she is a two-time National Institute of Mental Health Services Research Award recipient.

Biography & Author's Journey

Dr. Judy Ho has built her career at the intersection of clinical science, teaching, and public communication. Trained first at the University of California, Berkeley, where she earned dual undergraduate degrees in psychology and business administration in 2001, she went on to complete a master’s degree in clinical psychology at San Diego State University in 2004 and a Ph.D. in clinical psychology in 2007 through the joint San Diego State University and University of California San Diego School of Medicine program. Postdoctoral work at UCLA and National Institute of Mental Health fellowships further anchored her in research-based practice, and those credentials later converged in her roles as a triple board-certified clinical and forensic neuropsychologist, a tenured professor at Pepperdine University, and a California-based private practitioner. ((https://drjudyho.com/wp-content/uploads/Curriculum-Vitae-Judy-Ho-2025.pdf))

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Self-sabotage occurs when your drive to reduce threats is higher than your drive to attain rewards
-Why We Self-Sabotage
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Try one or more of these today and watch your superpower grow
-Top 5 Ways to Find Calm During Extreme Stress
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Instead, make it your new best friend
-Embrace the 'S' Word for Greater Well-Being
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Write down one thing your adult self will do to show unconditional self-acceptance to yourself today
-What We Know About High Achievers and Attachment Styles
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Your attachment style doesn’t just determine what you expect in relationships, it creates your self-concept
-Does Your Psychological Operating System Need a Tune-Up?
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Self-sabotage triggers (or negative automatic thoughts), are like the termites that have invaded a house
-What’s Your Trigger?
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Self-care can be practical and doesn’t need to take a lot of time—especially on busy days
-Simplified Self-Care
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Toxic productivity often masquerades as ambition or dedication
-The Hidden Cost of Always Being Productive
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Most of all, believe in your own potential to heal past attachment wounds and associated negative self-talk
-How to Quiet Our Negative Self-Talk
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Intimacy is about building bonds that make us feel safe, secure, and fulfilled
-The 5 Types of Intimacy You Need to Know

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