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    Discover why trying harder to persuade often backfires and learn science-backed techniques that actually work to influence decisions ethically.

    The Psychology of Getting People to Say Yes

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    The most effective approach is the complete opposite of arguing. Instead of telling someone why they're wrong, you ask open-ended questions to help them find their own motivation to change, rather than imposing your reasons on them.

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