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    David Schnarch's 'Passionate Marriage' challenges conventional wisdom, arguing that marriage itself prepares us for marriage through 'differentiation'—maintaining selfhood while being intimate with another person.

    Marriage as a Growth Machine

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    “

    Nobody's ready for marriage—marriage makes you ready for marriage. It is a people-growing machine where the conflicts and tensions that arise aren't signs something's wrong, but actually opportunities to develop emotional maturity.

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    The Art of Standing on Your Own Feet

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