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Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts - Seven Questions to Ask Before (and after) You Marry
Les Parrott III
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Discover why over a million couples trust this Oprah-featured marriage guide. What question do eHarmony's founder and the Parrotts agree is essential before saying "I do"? Their seven-question framework transforms relationships from Seattle classrooms to global counseling centers.

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The Marriage Blueprint: Expectations vs. Reality

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Imagine spending thousands on a perfect wedding day only to find yourself in therapy during your first year of marriage. This happened to Les and Leslie Parrott, who despite dating for six years and enjoying a nine-month engagement, were blindsided by the challenges of merging two lives. They're not alone. While couples obsess over wedding details, less than 20% invest in actual marriage preparation, despite alarming statistics showing 43% of marriages won't survive, with over 200,000 ending before their second anniversary. Marriage begins with expectations, not just rings. These unconscious expectations - formed through family experiences, media portrayals, and personal hopes - create the invisible architecture of our relationships. When reality inevitably differs from these unspoken dreams, disappointment and conflict follow. Think about it: how many conversations did you have about who manages the finances, navigates on trips, or plans holidays before saying "I do"? The truth is, we all bring "unspoken rules" and "unconscious roles" into marriage. When these hidden expectations clash, even the most loving couples find themselves in bewildering conflicts. Successful marriages don't avoid these clashes - they make the implicit explicit, transforming unconscious assumptions into conscious agreements that both partners understand and accept.

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Dismantling Marriage Myths and Building Love's Triangle

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The Attitude Adjustment: Choosing Happiness in Marriage

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The Communication Bridge: Beyond Words

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The Gender Dance: Understanding Differences

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Conflict as Growth: Fighting for Intimacy

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The Spiritual Connection: Becoming Soul Mates

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