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30 Lessons for Loving
Karl Pillemer
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Relationship
Self-growth
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Psychology
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What if 700 long-married elders could whisper their relationship secrets directly to you? Karl Pillemer's wisdom-packed guide reveals timeless love strategies that Harvard professors and relationship experts call "profound" and "refreshing." Your relationship roadmap, written by those who've mastered it.

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What Seven Hundred Marriages Can Teach Us About Love

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Here's a radical thought: what if the best relationship advice doesn't come from therapists, self-help gurus, or dating apps, but from people who've actually made it work for half a century? Over seven hundred Americans who've sustained marriages for 30, 40, even 70 years were asked a simple question: What have you learned? Their answers challenge nearly everything modern culture tells us about love. These aren't celebrities or relationship coaches-they're ordinary people who've weathered depression, war, illness, infidelity, and profound social change without giving up. Their collective wisdom reveals patterns that transcend generations, offering a roadmap for lasting love that feels both ancient and urgently relevant.

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Choosing Wisely: The Gamble You Can Win

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Red Flags That Demand Your Attention

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Testing Compatibility Before Commitment

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The Art of Talking, Listening, and Understanding

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Actions That Speak Louder Than Words

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The Foundation: Respect and Partnership

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