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    Explore the science of snap judgments and social survival. Learn how Princeton research explains why we form reputations and assess trustworthiness in a split second.

    The Science of 'That Girl': Snap Judgments and Social Survival

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    Our brains decide whether a person is trustworthy or aggressive within a tenth of a second, making snap judgments that are often handled by the amygdala before our rational minds can even get involved.

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    So I was talking to a girl that I haven’t seen in a while that I met at the gym that I got kicked out from and I told her oh I got kicked out because of the guy I documented everything still people didn’t do anything and then she said, and then I told her, but it was my fault for over sharing with that guy, but before I said over, sharing with the guy, she instantly said because of that girl, as if she was concerned or she knew something about her was off. What does that mean?

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    Why a Bad Reputation Gets You Noticed - TIME
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    https://time.com/archive/7141501/why-a-bad-reputation-gets-you-noticed/
    Snap judgments decide a face's character, psychologist finds
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    https://www.princeton.edu/news/2006/08/22/snap-judgments-decide-faces-character-psychologist-finds
    “That girl” unfurled: the true story of a viral aesthetic thrown into controversy  - ProspectorNow
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    That Girl meaning in texting, definition of that Girl
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    According to research from Princeton University, our brains are wired for social survival, allowing us to size someone up in just a tenth of a second. This rapid process determines whether we perceive a person as trustworthy or aggressive almost instantly. These snap judgments happen so quickly that a person's social reputation can be solidified in the time it takes to see their face, often before a single word is even spoken.

    Social reputation creates a footprint in the local social landscape that precedes individual interactions. As discussed in The Science of 'That Girl,' friends often recognize the subjects of our stories before we even name them because they are accessing pre-filed snap judgments. This suggests that our brains are constantly filing away information about others to help us navigate social dynamics, making reputation a key component of how we communicate and understand our social circles.

    The psychology of reputation suggests that the window for first impressions is incredibly brief. Research indicates that it takes only a tenth of a second—barely a blink—for the brain to decide if a person is trustworthy. This instant reaction is a fascinating mechanism for social survival, meaning that while we are still explaining a situation, the people we are talking to may have already accessed a snap judgment about the individuals involved.

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