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    Exploring why teacher crushes are normal, how to navigate complicated feelings without shame, and why attraction to authority figures doesn't invalidate your identity.

    Teacher Crushes: When Being Lesbian Feels Hard

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    I really love being a lesbian but having a crush on a girl teacher is too much right?. When we see her at first , I kept looking at her because I like her style. We are the same, kinda boyish then that's it. But days passed I started questioning myself that if I have a crush on her, I'm zoning out and thinking this is not right and I'm insane. That's the first time I felt that being a lesbian is hard. Idk I'm kinda confused too

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