What is *The High 5 Habit* by Mel Robbins about?

*The High 5 Habit* introduces a simple daily practice of high-fiving your reflection to combat self-criticism and build self-compassion. Mel Robbins combines neuroscience, personal stories, and actionable strategies to help readers silence negative inner dialogue, boost confidence, and create lasting behavioral change. The habit aims to rewire your brain to focus on encouragement rather than self-doubt.

Who should read *The High 5 Habit*?

This book is ideal for individuals struggling with self-esteem, motivation, or anxiety, as well as anyone seeking practical tools for personal growth. It resonates with self-help enthusiasts, professionals facing burnout, and fans of Mel Robbins’ previous work, like *The 5 Second Rule*. The strategies are particularly useful for those seeking mindset shifts in careers, relationships, or daily habits.

Is *The High 5 Habit* worth reading?

Yes—the book offers science-backed, easy-to-implement techniques for improving self-talk and confidence. With over 41 language translations and millions sold, its global impact underscores its value. Readers praise its relatable anecdotes and actionable steps, though critics note its simplicity may not address deeper psychological issues.

What is the main concept in *The High 5 Habit*?

The core idea is a morning ritual: high-fiving your mirror reflection to disrupt negative self-talk and foster self-support. Robbins explains how this act activates neural pathways linked to encouragement, creating a “habit of belief” that improves decision-making and resilience. The practice builds on principles of neuroplasticity and behavioral psychology.

How does *The High 5 Habit* help with anxiety?

By replacing criticism with self-acknowledgment, the habit interrupts anxiety-inducing thought cycles. Robbins cites studies showing how consistent self-affirmation lowers cortisol levels and improves emotional regulation. The physical act of high-fiving triggers dopamine release, creating a positive feedback loop for mental health.

Can *The High 5 Habit* improve relationships?

Yes—Robbins argues that self-compassion directly enhances interpersonal connections. By cultivating self-acceptance, readers develop healthier boundaries, reduced projection of insecurities, and increased empathy. Case studies in the book show improved marital communication and workplace collaboration among practitioners.

How does *The High 5 Habit* differ from Mel Robbins’ *The 5 Second Rule*?

While *The 5 Second Rule* focuses on action initiation to combat procrastination, *The High 5 Habit* targets self-perception and inner dialogue. The newer book emphasizes emotional resilience over task completion, using neuroscience rather than behavioral triggers as its primary framework.

What are key quotes from *The High 5 Habit*?

- “You can’t hate yourself into a better life” – challenges perfectionism. - “Your reflection is the most important relationship you’ll ever have” – underscores self-compassion’s role. - “Celebration isn’t the reward—it’s the requirement” – reframes success psychology.

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1장

The Five-Second Decision That Changes Everything

Ever stood in front of your bathroom mirror, looked at your reflection, and thought "Ugh"? That's exactly where Mel Robbins found herself one morning-overwhelmed by deadlines, family responsibilities, and crushing self-doubt. In that moment of despair, she instinctively raised her hand toward her reflection in what became a high five. Without words, she was telling herself exactly what she needed to hear: that she could do this, that she wasn't alone. As her hand touched the mirror, she felt her spirit lift. The next morning, she found herself looking forward to this ritual, like meeting a friend who always believes in you. This simple gesture-the High 5 Habit-has since transformed millions of lives worldwide. The book has been embraced by celebrities like Reese Witherspoon and Gwyneth Paltrow, and has sparked a global movement with people from all walks of life posting their mirror high fives on social media. What makes this approach so powerful is its simplicity-it costs nothing but delivers extraordinary results by addressing our fundamental human need to feel seen, heard, and celebrated. In a world where we're quick to cheer for others but merciless with ourselves, Robbins offers a revolutionary way to become your own greatest supporter.

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The Science Behind the Simple Gesture

When you high five yourself in the mirror, something fascinating happens: it becomes impossible to think negative thoughts simultaneously. Try it-you can't look in the mirror, raise your hand in celebration, and simultaneously think "I hate my stomach" or "I'm such a loser." Your lifetime of positive associations with high fives automatically shifts your mind into a positive mode, silencing your inner critic. The science supporting this practice is compelling. Researchers studying school-aged children facing challenging tasks compared three forms of encouragement: praising traits ("You're so smart"), praising effort ("You're really dedicated"), or simply giving a high five. The high five proved most effective-children who received high fives felt most positive about themselves, showed greatest persistence despite mistakes, and maintained motivation longest. The researchers were so convinced they titled their study "High Fives Motivate" in the journal Frontiers in Psychology. This effectiveness extends beyond children. UC Berkeley researchers studying NBA teams discovered those who exchanged the most high fives at season's start were most likely to reach championships by season's end. These physical gestures communicate powerful messages: "I've got your back," "Let's go," and "We've got this." They help players shake off bad plays, lift moods, and build confidence. Even talented teams underperform without this culture of mutual support-a partnership you can create with yourself through the High 5 Habit. The habit works by changing your brain structure. It aligns with "neurobics," discovered by Dr. Lawrence Katz at Duke University. Neurobic exercises pair routine activities (looking in the mirror) with unexpected sensory experiences (high fiving) and desired emotions (celebration). This combination creates a "brain fertilizer" that forms new neural pathways. When you high five yourself-something unusual-your brain snaps to attention. Thanks to your lifelong positive associations with high fives, your brain begins connecting those positive feelings with your own reflection, overriding patterns of self-doubt with self-love. Neuroscientist Dr. Judy Willis confirms that the High 5 Habit creates new, positive neural pathways and beliefs. This validation matters because whatever thoughts you repeat become your default subconscious beliefs. For years, your default has likely been something awful-"I'm not good enough," "Nothing works out for me," or "I always screw everything up." The High 5 Habit helps reprogram these destructive defaults, teaching you to be kind to yourself.

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3장

Breaking the Self-Criticism Cycle

Research from the University of Hertfordshire found that among all possible life-improving habits-exercise, trying new things, working on relationships, pursuing goals-self-acceptance is the strongest predictor of happiness and satisfaction. Yet self-acceptance is what we practice least. We'll drink kale smoothies, exercise, meditate, and cut out gluten while constantly beating ourselves up for not doing enough or doing it right. Why are we so hard on ourselves? Most of us weren't taught how to be kind to ourselves. Our parents were hard on themselves and, consequently, on us. You might have grown up with a mother who criticized herself in the mirror or a father who measured his worth by external achievements. If you're tough on yourself, you likely experienced "tough love" as a child-messages like "suck it up" or "pull your big girl pants up." Your brain absorbed these patterns in childhood, creating an unconscious drive to repeat them. Self-criticism isn't just unpleasant-it's counterproductive. Research shows it has the opposite effect of what you intend. Being hard on yourself isn't motivating-it's defeating and discouraging. It's why you feel stuck. Creating a life of happiness requires practicing daily acts of kindness toward yourself. The High 5 Habit isn't about fake praise or forced positive thinking. It's about changing the default programming that keeps you trapped in a destructive relationship with yourself. You can't think or wish your way to a new life-you must act differently and make different decisions. While positive thoughts can boost your mood, they alone won't unstick you. The obstacles we face are real, and some are extreme-from poverty to trauma to discrimination. This practice acknowledges that reality while giving you tools to face it. Life can be cruel and unfair, but you have the power to choose what happens next. High fiving yourself won't change your circumstances, but it changes YOU-making you better equipped to face life's challenges, whether you're in a shelter, going through a breakup, or battling cancer.

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How to Make the Habit Work for You

The habit has two simple steps: First, stand in front of the mirror before checking your phone and be with yourself for a moment-seeing the person inside, not just your appearance. Second, high five yourself in the mirror. This silent gesture says "I love you. I see you. I believe in you. Let's go." Don't rush it-this moment is for you. Morning high fives impact your productivity all day and teach you to prioritize yourself. Research shows your morning mood affects your entire day's productivity. Starting with this positive gesture creates "infectious energy" and motivation. It also helps you put your own needs first before attending to others or checking social media. You can do it however you want-touch the mirror or don't, high five or low five, fingers spread or together. Just make sure you do it. The bathroom mirror provides privacy and fits naturally into your existing routine. "Stacking" a new habit with an established one (like brushing teeth) increases your chances of maintaining it. The mirror is required! The science shows you're fusing the positive association your brain has with a high five with your reflection. This helps you reconnect with yourself, your needs, goals, and dreams that may have been lost in life's busyness. It's called a habit because it must be repeated to become second nature. The high five feels so good that it becomes easy to remember and repeat. Rather than waiting to feel worthy of celebration, making it a habit changes your relationship with yourself. With repetition, it becomes automatic-even half-asleep!

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5장

Why We Torture Ourselves

While writing her book, Robbins received a heartbreaking text from her daughter expressing deep self-criticism. Despite all the reassurance and compliments a mother can give, nothing changes how her daughter sees herself. This illustrates a crucial truth: your life and happiness begin and end inside your own mind. What you tell yourself, how you treat yourself, and your recurring thoughts determine everything-regardless of external success. When someone has programmed negative self-beliefs into their subconscious, no amount of external validation can override it. They'll reject compliments and even argue against them. For those who believe something is wrong with them, high fiving themselves seems absurd-as foreign as walking on hands. This explains the discomfort felt when receiving compliments: deep down, you don't believe you deserve them. Your subconscious reveals itself in how you react to mirrors or cameras. Most people have a "mirror face"-subtle adjustments made automatically to appear more attractive. This represents automatic thoughts that have become default patterns. Through neuroplasticity, you can deliberately change these defaults that currently make you focus on what's wrong. Many people can't pinpoint when they began criticizing themselves-it feels like they've always done it. Research shows about 91% of women are unhappy with their bodies, constantly focusing on what needs "fixing." This self-rejection is the opposite of a high five, creating a pervasive feeling that something is fundamentally wrong with you. You must stop self-criticism for three key reasons: First, focusing on what's wrong prevents change-diets feel like punishment because they reinforce the feeling something is wrong with you. Second, self-hatred doesn't motivate improvement-research shows it makes motivation harder. Third, repeated thoughts create evidence-gathering filters-negative self-talk creates grooves in your brain that become your identity. Though you're not to blame for these patterns, you're responsible for changing them if they make you miserable.

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Rebuilding Your Self-Worth

Self-love is your birthright. As a baby, you loved your reflection, pressing your face against mirrors with wet, sloppy kisses. You are completely unique-your DNA, fingerprints, voice, and iris patterns belong only to you. You're naturally resilient too-as a baby learning to crawl, you never gave up despite countless failures. You kept trying without telling yourself sad stories about not being good enough. That tenacity is still within you, along with your natural inclination toward celebration and joy. Though born perfect and complete, as you grew up, you received the message that "there's something wrong with you." Psychologists call this a "break in belonging"-feeling you don't fit in your family, friend group, or the world. This creates a second break in belonging with yourself. Whether from moving schools, being teased, experiencing racism, or family trauma, these experiences impacted you deeply. No one reaches adulthood without this kind of trauma. Children lack the life experience to process trauma properly. Instead of recognizing that adults or situations are messed up, children blame themselves. When Mel was molested at nine, she thought it was her fault. When her son was bullied at camp, he hid his pain and blamed himself. We all do this-instead of blaming those who hurt us, we internalize the pain and conclude something must be wrong with us. The message many of us received growing up was that what others think is more important than what you think of yourself. This blocks connection to your true self and creates a pattern where your love for yourself becomes transactional-withheld until you approve of yourself. It's a horrible way to live, constantly criticizing yourself and beating yourself up. You don't need to change to deserve love and acceptance-you just need to give yourself that validation. Instead of picking yourself apart in the mirror, look for qualities to appreciate: your strength, intuition, how your body has taken care of you.

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7장

Reprogramming Your Mental Filter

Everyone has a negative mantra about themselves that replays constantly. These thoughts don't help you improve-they keep you stuck. Just like a clogged dryer lint screen, our minds collect mental lint-residue from negative experiences, others' opinions, rejections, and self-doubt. This mental lint clogs your Reticular Activating System (RAS), blocking you from celebrating yourself. You need to clear this residue daily so it doesn't build up and keep you stuck in the past. Your RAS acts as the bouncer for your mind, filtering 34 gigabytes of daily data and deciding what reaches your conscious awareness. Only four things always get past your RAS: your name being called, threats to safety, sexual signals from your partner, and whatever your RAS thinks is important to you. This last point is crucial-you can train your RAS to filter for things that elevate and support you rather than the negative self-image you've carried since middle school. When properly used, your RAS becomes a searchlight revealing opportunities and synchronicities ahead. But if negative thoughts are your soundtrack, your RAS will find evidence to confirm them. This pattern is universal-we each have our own version of "I'm a failure" belief. Your RAS filters the world to confirm your core negative beliefs, blocking contradictory evidence. Your RAS responds to what you tell it is important. Like getting over a breakup and meeting someone new-suddenly you stop seeing reminders of your ex and start noticing love everywhere. When what's important to you changes, how you see the world changes too. The stories you tell yourself are crucial; your RAS will show you evidence that confirms whatever narrative you repeat. Change your limiting beliefs by flipping them to more empowering perspectives. Instead of "I screw everything up. I am a failure," try "I FORGIVE myself for the things I did when I was trying to survive. Every day I am becoming a better version of myself." When you believe you ruin everything, you're actually acknowledging your power-you're so influential you can create consistent outcomes. The truth is, if you can create messes, you can also create amazing things. It's all about what you BELIEVE you're capable of and what you focus on.

8장

Seeing Possibilities Instead of Obstacles

After explaining the High 5 Habit to her skeptical daughters, Mel takes a different approach to demonstrate how quickly we can change our perception. She introduces a simple exercise: look for naturally occurring heart shapes in the world around you. This trains the mind to spot things you currently block out and proves you can make your brain work for you by telling it what's important. Starting tomorrow, find one naturally occurring heart shape in your environment daily. When you find it, stop, look at it, take a photo, and savor the moment. This exercise turns life into a scavenger hunt and demonstrates the power of your RAS-showing how quickly your mind changes when you tell it what you want to see. After a week of finding hearts, you'll realize there's an entire world you've been missing because your mind wasn't allowing you to experience it. Amplify the effect by assuming each heart was intentionally placed for you to find, creating a connection to a larger guiding force. This practice helps you start connecting the dots forward from this moment to your envisioned future. Now that you know about the RAS and have started looking for hearts, it's time to work on those negative beliefs that run on repeat in your head by interrupting old thought patterns and replacing them with how you want to feel. This involves three steps: First, interrupt negative thoughts with "I'm not thinking about that." Second, create a new meaningful mantra that you can believe right now and place visual cues on your bathroom mirror as reminders. Third, take physical actions that match your new positive belief-act like the person you want to become, regardless of how you feel. This behavioral activation therapy proves to your brain that your new belief is true, helping your RAS change your filter more quickly and build self-acceptance.

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9장

Transforming Jealousy into Inspiration

For a long time, jealousy was a problem for Mel. Anger and frustration would literally consume her. She remembers when a friend bought a beautiful house five times the size of hers, and she could barely contain her jealousy. On the ride home, she got into a fight with her husband because she started crying over the fact that "We'd never have a home that nice." She had this toxic belief that if someone else has what she wants, it means she will never have it. When her daughter was scrolling through Instagram, she admitted feeling jealous of a girl living on a Mexican island. "I've always dreamed of traveling, but I wouldn't allow myself to think about doing what she did," she said. "I feel like I'm running out of time. I'm already twenty-two." Mel explained that her self-doubt was preventing her from exploring her deepest desires. As long as you think "It'll never be me," you won't take action on your dreams. If all you ever do is THINK about what you want, it's not a dream-it's a wish. The world didn't say "You can't have this." YOU did. You need to learn that others haven't beat you to it-they're lighting the path! Accept yourself as your best partner in life and you'll be amazed at the other partnerships you form. See the potential in life and you change; you become somebody who can high five your way forward instead of stewing in jealousy. In any area where you feel jealous, flip it into inspiration by changing your limiting belief from "If somebody else has it, I can't" to "Their success is just proof that I can have it too." Jealousy is a navigation tool, just like curiosity or desire. It's telling you the direction to steer your life. When you see someone doing something you desire, don't let that pain keep you stuck-use it to your advantage. Take action: message that person, learn from them, follow accounts showing what you want. That one action alone transforms jealousy into inspiration and helps your RAS make that fast change-to know that it could happen for you too.

10장

Breaking Free from Guilt's Grip

Guilt is one of the most powerful emotions in the world, acting like reins that hold back your spirit. If you're susceptible to it, you need to know how to break free. Guilt makes you believe that pursuing your dreams will hurt or disappoint someone you love. Whether it's training for a marathon, changing careers, or simply saying no to others' demands, guilt convinces you that "it's just easier if I say nothing." What's most misunderstood about guilt is that it's self-inflicted, not caused by others. Guilt connects to your values and emotional triggers. When you "feel guilty," it's because you believe your actions will upset someone else. The discomfort comes from anticipating emotional fallout when putting yourself first, so you cave instead of facing potential disappointment from others. Pleasing others is fine when it genuinely makes you happy. It becomes problematic when you betray your own needs to avoid others' disappointment. As a people pleaser, Mel admits she manipulates others' emotional reactions-and yes, "manipulate" is the right word. People pleasers aren't being "nice"-they're liars who behave in ways to control what others think about them. Instead of showing up authentically, they twist themselves in knots to prevent others from getting upset. People pleasing isn't about others-it's about your insecurities. Mel's deepest fear is people being mad at her. She had to flip her limiting belief from "If someone is disappointed with your decisions, they stop loving you" to "People can be disappointed in you, or upset with your decisions, and still love you." As a parent, she knows her children do things that disappoint her without affecting her love for them. Yet as a daughter, she was still thinking like a child-believing her parents only loved her if they approved of everything she did. During workshops conducted for JPMorgan Chase, Mel noticed something striking: guilt never came up in mixed business owner events, but it dominated every women-in-business event. Studies confirm women experience guilt 1,000 times worse than men. We take it on willingly, like tossing extra socks into our emotional laundry basket. Mothers and daughters pass guilt like a hot potato, each feeling the other doesn't appreciate them enough. At our core, we all just want to feel seen, heard, and celebrated.

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11장

From Procrastination to Action

When you're worried about failing or afraid to start, your mind fills with excuses: I'm not ready yet. It's not the perfect time. I need a full block of time. Maybe I'll just do some chores first. I'll tackle it tomorrow, next week, next month... This mental loop is familiar to most of us who put off our dreams because we don't feel quite ready. Procrastination and perfectionism are dream killers. They're not a high five-they're a hell no! They slowly choke your ambitions until you wake up disappointed, realizing you never even started. But here's the truth: you're not a procrastinator or perfectionist-you're just scared. When you catch yourself procrastinating, you need to flip mental paralysis into physical progress. There are two kinds of people: those who see obstacles and those who see opportunity. A high five attitude is action-oriented and creates opportunity. You can tell within minutes if someone will take action by whether they focus on obstacles or opportunities. That's why you think about your dreams from a safe distance-staring longingly but never moving toward them. You think you're protecting yourself with overthinking and procrastination, but your inaction is actually torturing you. A deadline means you're serious. The High 5 Habit says "Let's go!" When you set a date, you yank the goal out of your mind and plant it in the physical world. Set a deadline for when your game will start-Mel suggests three weeks from now. This creates certainty and gives you a runway to gather momentum through small daily steps. High fiving yourself is one of those small changes that supports your choice to make brave changes. To train your mind to spot opportunities instead of obstacles, start writing down coincidences, signs, and evidence pointing toward your dreams. This exercise builds on the "Look for Hearts" game and helps reprogram your RAS. Like mile markers on a road trip showing you're getting closer to your destination, these signs are everywhere in your life, counting down the distance between you and your goals. By writing them down in a notebook, you're training your mind that this goal is IMPORTANT and activating the Zeigarnik effect, creating a mental checklist your brain holds onto.

12장

Embracing Your Authentic Self

Fitting in will make you miserable, yet we've all been trying to do it since middle school. As adults, only one person's opinion should matter: our own. But breaking the habit of seeking approval is difficult. Our thoughts constantly bend toward conformity-pretending to like what others like, waiting to express our true selves in professional settings, chasing status symbols, and modifying our appearance to match others. Our insecurity begins in school, where fitting in becomes a driving force and sometimes a matter of survival. We've all experienced being that kid in the cafeteria wishing to sit with a certain group. We start seeing the world in terms of groups we belong to and groups we don't, and begin morphing ourselves to fit in. This is when self-rejection starts-criticizing our teeth, skin, height, weight, freckles, hair texture. It's when we make the critical mistake of choosing fitting in over being ourselves. This pattern follows us into adulthood, where fitting in as a kid morphs into keeping up with the Joneses. Anxiety emerges when we can't be ourselves, as we're constantly reading the room for cues on how to act and what to say. This puts us in a perpetual state of questioning and rehashing our every move. Women especially struggle with this anxiety, as they're trained to play various roles-the good daughter, student, employee-and feel pressure to make everyone happy while ensuring they look and sound "right." You should care about others' opinions, but you don't have to follow them. To change your life, learn to honor your feelings more than anyone else's while giving people space to have their own feelings. If you can't value yourself, you'll constantly seek validation from others. Your relationship with yourself forms the foundation for all other relationships-if you're secure with yourself, you'll be secure in relationships, able to set boundaries and ask for what you need. Your insecurities and negative self-talk exist in your head, not others'. Whatever you fear about yourself, you project onto others in conversations. Remember: nobody stays up at night thinking about you-they're too busy with their own insecurities. As you become clearer about changes you want to make, you might feel ready to say "Screw everybody" and do whatever you want. But seeking approval goes beyond superficial validation-it leads to twisting your life into knots and staying in miserable situations. The key is flipping your limiting belief from "What will everyone think?" to "My happiness is more important than what anyone else thinks about it."

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하이파이브 해빗 요약의 핵심 주제

radical self-acceptance
inner critic silencing
positive neural reprogramming
behavioral ritual design
self-encouragement techniques

하이파이브 해빗 요약의 명문장

Self-acceptance is the strongest predictor of happiness and satisfaction.
Being hard on yourself isn't motivating-it's defeating and discouraging.
Morning high fives impact your productivity all day and teach you to prioritize yourself.
The mirror is required!

하이파이브 해빗 요약의 등장인물

Mel RobbinsAuthor and protagonist who discovered the habit
Dr. Lawrence KatzDuke University researcher who discovered neurobics
Dr. Judy WillisNeuroscientist who validates the habit's effects

저자 소개

The High 5 Habit의 저자이자 <뉴욕 타임스> 1위 베스트셀러 작가인 멜라니 리 로빈스(Melanie Lee Robbins)는 자기계발과 습관 형성 분야의 선도적인 인물입니다. 전직 형사 전문 변호사이자 CNN 법률 분석가였던 로빈스는 심리학 연구와 실용적인 전략을 결합하여 독자들이 자신감과 자기 신뢰를 회복하도록 돕고 있습니다.

그녀의 획기적인 "5초 법칙" 프레임워크는 2017년 수백만 부가 판매된 베스트셀러 The 5 Second Rule(5초의 법칙)을 통해 소개되었으며, 41개 언어로 번역되며 세계적인 현상이 되었습니다.

수상 경력에 빛나는 Mel Robbins Podcast의 진행자이자 혁신적인 미디어 플랫폼인 143 Studios의 설립자로서, 그녀는 과학적 근거를 바탕으로 한 짧고 강력한 도구들을 통해 매월 2,500만 명의 팔로워에게 다가가고 있습니다. 로빈스의 활동은 CNN, TEDx(그녀의 샌프란시스코 강연은 3,300만 회의 조회수를 기록함), 그리고 포춘 500대 기업의 기업 교육 프로그램에서 자주 다뤄지고 있습니다.

The High 5 Habit은 전 세계 정신 건강 전문가와 교육자들로부터 인정받은 그녀만의 독특한 사고방식 전환 접근법을 기반으로 합니다. 출간 첫해에 41개 언어로 번역된 이 책은 누구나 접근 가능하고 실행 중심적인 자기계발 리소스를 만들어가는 로빈스의 유산을 이어가고 있습니다.

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