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Breaking Free: The Art of Living Life on Your Own Terms
Have you ever felt that nagging sense that there must be more to life than following the well-worn path? Chris Guillebeau certainly did. After working as a volunteer in West Africa for four years, visiting over 100 countries, and building a successful online business, Guillebeau developed a revolutionary philosophy: you don't have to live your life the way others expect you to. His book "The Art of Nonconformity" has become a rallying cry for those seeking to escape conventional limitations, with readers ranging from corporate executives to digital nomads. Since its publication, the book has inspired thousands to quit unfulfilling jobs, launch passion projects, and design lives of adventure and meaning. Guillebeau's approach resonates particularly with millennials and Gen Z, who prioritize purpose over paychecks. With over 50,000 copies sold and translations in 20+ languages, this manifesto continues to challenge readers to ask: What if the bridge everyone's jumping from isn't the only way forward?
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The Remarkable Life Begins with Rejecting Conformity
When you were a child, you likely heard the question: "If everyone else jumped off a bridge, would you?" This simple question encouraged independent thinking rather than following the crowd blindly. Yet as adults, we face constant pressure to conform to others' expectations. The core message of nonconformity is deceptively simple yet revolutionary: you don't have to live your life the way other people expect you to.
This philosophy requires four fundamental principles. First, you must be open to new ideas-not accepting them blindly, but carefully considering them before dismissal. As composer John Cage wisely noted, "I don't understand why people are frightened of new ideas. I'm frightened of the old ones." Second, you need dissatisfaction with the status quo-a recognition that the "unremarkably average" life of following prescribed paths, avoiding standing out, and checking society's boxes leads to what Thoreau called "quiet desperation."
Third, you must take personal responsibility for your future, regardless of your past. Whether you had a difficult childhood or a privileged one, from now on, win or lose, you must own your choices. Your past may define who you are now, but it doesn't need to determine where you're going. Finally, you must be willing to work hard-not less work, but better work that energizes you and positively impacts others. Most people want meaningful work worth pursuing, not easy work.
These principles may seem basic, but they're rarely applied in real life. Most people live like the five monkeys in a psychological experiment: when researchers sprayed cold water on monkeys attempting to climb a ladder to reach bananas, the monkeys eventually stopped each other from climbing. As original monkeys were replaced with new ones, the new monkeys learned not to climb without knowing why. Similarly, many people accept limitations without questioning them.
But unlike those monkeys, we're not caged-we can climb the ladder, grab the bananas, and even escape altogether. The sleepwalking life is what many call the "real world," but the clear alternative is the living world of adventure and possibility. The choice between these worlds is yours to make.
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Discovering What You Really Want and Setting Your Terms
Bernard Lopez quit his comfortable New York job after eight years, broke his apartment lease, withdrew his retirement savings, and set out to bike across America. Not for charity or publicity-simply for himself. After experiencing personal tragedy, including his father's death, Bernard embraced this radical change. The journey transformed him, giving him a sense of invincibility and helping him discover his true self.
Most of us don't actually want permanent beach vacations; we crave adventure, growth, and meaningful contribution. Finding our place in a world of seven billion begins with understanding what we truly want. Unfortunately, many people have no idea what they want to accomplish during their time on earth, becoming mired in "life avoidance" rather than moving toward clear objectives.
Three approaches can help discover what you truly want. First, create your ideal world by detailing your perfect day hour by hour-from when you wake up to what you eat and who you talk to. Then adjust your actual life to move closer to this ideal. Second, complement this with radical goal-setting. Begin with a "life list" or "bucket list" of everything you want to accomplish before you die. To get started, imagine yourself on your deathbed-what would you regret not having done? Then organize these aspirations into one-year goals (reviewed several times annually), five-year goals (reviewed yearly), and lifetime goals.
Third, plan for serendipity. Contrary to what people think, organized people aren't super-disciplined-they've simply created structures that allow them to improvise. Setting goals actually creates more space for spontaneity-when you work toward what you truly want, you gain both time and energy for the fun things.
As long as your dreams don't harm others, never apologize for pursuing them. However, you'll likely find that a life completely centered on yourself won't ultimately satisfy you. Ask yourself: What needs can you meet? Who looks to you as a leader? What bothers you about the world? How can you make things better? What unique contribution can you offer?
When you reach the convergence of getting what you want while helping others in a unique way-what Guillebeau calls "world domination"-you live a life of adventure that leaves a radical legacy. Remember that determination matters more than intelligence, and that growth is exponential once fundamentals are in place. As artist Bo Bartlett said: "It is not the decision you make that is most important; it is the degree of commitment with which you make the decision."
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Confronting Fear and Smashing Through Barriers
Sloane Berrent, a self-described "geeky girl with big glasses" from Pittsburgh, found herself standing atop a trash heap in Manila, Philippines, watching professional scavengers work through the city's discards. Despite her history of brave decisions, she admits: "I'm scared every day... I'm frightened something will happen to a loved one while I'm too far off to reach them."
But Sloane recognizes that fear is normal and even necessary-that stomach tug before something big confirms she's on the right path. Rather than letting fear paralyze her, she transforms it into a powerful motivator and tool for heightened intuition.
When choosing to defy convention, the toughest obstacles often come from our own fears and insecurities. Three specific fears emerge: failure, success, and-most significantly-change itself. We resist change until the pain of remaining in our current situation exceeds the pain of making a switch, which happens by either increasing the pain of the current situation or decreasing the fear of the desired one.
Consider Guillebeau's apartment disaster story. While he can handle travel stress easily, he despises moving. When his apartment flooded from a broken pipe during vacation, he and his wife returned to find their belongings relocated and their bedroom dismantled. After enduring "urban camping" in their living room for ten days while insurance companies avoided responsibility, he was considering change but still resistant. Then during an overnight trip away, his wife called to say they had no water-with no clear timeline for restoration. That moment tipped the scales: the pain of staying finally exceeded the pain of moving. Within three weeks, they relocated to Portland, Oregon-a change they'd never have made without the apartment disaster forcing their hand.
People differ dramatically in their readiness to embrace change, as illustrated by two contrasting stories. At just 23, Sean Ogle had secured an impressive financial analyst position with above-average pay. Despite buying a 2005 Subaru Legacy GT, he hated his office job. After visiting Brazil, the contrast between freedom and his desk job became unbearable. When Sean met Guillebeau, he declared he would "do whatever it takes" to change his situation-and unlike others, Sean backed his words with immediate action. Within six months, Sean had paid off debt and connected with website developers in Southeast Asia. When his employer rejected his proposal to work remotely, Sean kept his commitment to change, packed his laptop, and left for Bangkok to start his own business.
Contrast this with Aaron, whom Guillebeau met while in West Africa. Despite Aaron's apparent eagerness to volunteer overseas, he never followed through. For three consecutive years, Guillebeau encountered Aaron during annual visits home. Each time, Aaron expressed the same desire and asked the same questions, yet never took action. He seemed to want someone to make decisions for him rather than taking initiative himself.
To overcome fear, follow three steps: stare down the wall by acknowledging your fears and breaking them down to their most basic level; build your safety net through strategies like considering worst-case scenarios and creating accountability; and finally, smash through the wall by forcing the active decision-stop wavering and decide if you're taking the leap. The quest to overcome fear is lifelong-almost no one is truly fearless. Instead of pretending fear doesn't exist, we must be willing to smash through it.
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Challenging Authority and Finding the Third Way
When confronting authority, finding a third way between traditional protest and anarchism can be powerful. Tim DeChristopher demonstrated this when he disrupted a controversial land auction by registering as a bidder and winning 22,000 acres for $1.7 million he didn't have. His civil disobedience successfully deferred the sale until the new Obama administration could reverse it, protecting the land despite facing felony charges.
Those who choose unconventional paths will inevitably face opposition from authority and the status quo. Gatekeepers maintain control by limiting people's choices while creating the illusion of freedom. They determine who's worthy of consideration, who's a threat, how you compare to others, and what rewards you deserve. These "no" people-often disguised as departments like Legal or HR-excel at swatting down ideas and maintaining the status quo.
Gatekeepers use several tactics to maintain control when challenged: the "Just Because" response (appealing to tradition), the "For the Good of the People" response (claiming unconventional choices harm others), appeals to unspecified higher powers, and the "Things Will Be Different When..." prediction (suggesting limitations based on future life changes).
Malcolm Gladwell's research shows that underdogs win only 28.5% of confrontations using conventional strategies, but win 63.6% when they change the rules of engagement. This "underdog strategy" involves finding alternatives to the limited choices gatekeepers offer. Examples include Lawrence of Arabia's 600-mile desert journey to surprise enemies, David refusing armor against Goliath, and Tim DeChristopher finding a creative third option beyond ineffective letter-writing or violence. Sometimes simply nodding at authority while doing what you intended works best-it's easier to ask forgiveness than permission, though you rarely need either.
Many supposed prerequisites for success are unnecessary: experience (what matters is where you're going), years of preparation (life has already prepared you), paperwork (degrees, certificates, licenses), and mentors (no one will be as invested in your development as you). These things might be helpful, but they're not essential.
What you really need are passion (being absolutely committed to what you believe in), a vision and task (knowing where you're going and what to do next), answers to life's two most important questions (what you want from life and how you can uniquely help others), and commitment to stay the course. Unlike the unnecessary elements that come from others, these essential requirements all depend entirely on you. Above all, you need enough-enough money, time, and courage to pursue your goals. When you let go of what you don't need, everything else becomes easier.
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Competence as Your Ultimate Security
The counterintuitive idea that taking control of your career is actually less risky than trusting someone else to look after you challenges conventional wisdom about security. Your own competence-not external factors-is your best security in any economic climate. This isn't about positive thinking but about changing how you interpret events and taking action to change your circumstances.
While not everyone should be an entrepreneur, self-employment offers the clearest path to independence. Our perceptions about business risk are often skewed by negative news stories that ignore the many successes. Ideal businesses are "location independent," allowing operation from anywhere, typically with an online component. Contrary to popular belief, starting a business doesn't require significant capital-many successful ventures begin with less than $100.
If entrepreneurship isn't your path, consider becoming a "rockstar" employee who redefines their job terms. Allan Bacon transformed his work life through a series of "Life Experiments"-small actions that prepared him for bigger changes. Starting with simple activities like visiting museums during lunch breaks, he eventually negotiated down to part-time employment while building his consulting business. These small experiments had an impact "way out of proportion" to their size, allowing him to maintain stability while gaining freedom.
Another approach is to redefine the employment process itself. Susan Lewis avoided competing with hundreds of job applicants by flipping the traditional hiring process. She created a website where bosses could apply to hire her, conducting interviews and extending a formal offer to her preferred company. Ironically, her chosen employer hadn't even planned to hire someone until discovering her unconventional approach.
Guillebeau's own entrepreneurial journey illustrates resilience in the face of crisis. While managing an information publishing business from West Africa, his carefully balanced operation fell apart when his fulfillment center suddenly shut down without warning. Despite being 5,000 miles away in Sierra Leone, he crafted a creative solution by enlisting his brother as a temporary shipping agent while finding a new supplier. The crisis taught him that "you can come back from anything" and "paradoxically, when you manage to survive a crisis that had 'deathblow potential,' you'll often end up stronger than you were before."
While "escape" is a common theme in self-employment resources, be wary of focusing solely on escaping without having something meaningful to escape to. The key isn't eliminating work but finding better work that you control. Whether as an entrepreneur or employee, "the best job security is your own competence."
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Rethinking Education and Building Your Small Army
Traditional education often fails to deliver the real-world impact and value it promises. Guillebeau contrasts his $32,000 master's degree thesis (read by only three people) with his online manifesto that reached over 100,000 readers in six months at a cost of about $5,000-expenses that were "recouped very quickly." This realization led him to choose writing over pursuing a PhD, recognizing that his "online work had the potential to make a much more significant impact on the world."
Self-directed learning is often "quicker, cheaper, and easier" than traditional education. Guillebeau's "One-Year, Self-Directed, Alternative Graduate School Experience" offers a comprehensive DIY education plan costing under $10,000 that includes reading the Economist weekly, visiting multiple world regions, studying major religions, learning languages, acquiring new skills, reading 50 books, starting a blog, and more. This alternative approach delivers equivalent knowledge to a social science or humanities graduate program at a fraction of the cost and with greater real-world application.
While traditional education has social value, it's worth questioning whether it's worth the cost. Most graduate programs offer virtually no career help despite their high price tags. Through online work, it's possible to build meaningful connections worldwide at minimal cost, allowing you to "do work that you love while still enjoying a wide range of social relationships" without the financial burden.
No matter your goal-whether you're an artist needing fans, an entrepreneur needing customers, or pursuing individual goals like writing a book or visiting every country-you'll need support to achieve it. People follow you because they believe in your cause and your work helps them. A "small army" consists of five groups: prospects (curious but uncommitted), followers (your largest group who actively engage with you), true fans (hyper-responsive followers representing 2-4% who buy everything you offer), allies (like-minded peers on similar journeys), and friends of friends (your extended network).
Building your small army follows three essential steps. First, recruit by creating a platform to speak from, offering a compelling reason for people to pay attention, and creating a welcoming environment. Second, train and reward your army through motivation (inspiration, education, and entertainment) and unexpected gestures of appreciation. Finally, ask your army for help-specifically requesting them to introduce new prospects to your campaign, leverage their networks for opportunities, and provide financial or direct support for your initiatives.
Remember that trust is easily lost through broken promises and unacknowledged mistakes. Your goal should be challenging people without insulting them, lifting up followers and improving their lives meaningfully. As an individual, your advantage over organizations is authenticity-like Leo Babauta, who built Zen Habits to 100,000 subscribers by humbly presenting himself as an average person seeking a simplified lifestyle.
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Money, Freedom, and Intentional Living
Adam and Courtney Baker, a young married couple from Indianapolis, accumulated $50,000 in debt through student loans, credit cards, and other expenses. Though they made minimum payments with Adam working 80-100 hours weekly between his property management business and poker tournaments, the birth of their daughter Millie catalyzed change. They declared "war" on their debt, living on just a third of their $60,000 income for 18 months to pay down bills. Simultaneously, they planned a year abroad in New Zealand, demonstrating that pursuing dreams doesn't require wealth. They practiced "radical financial transparency," publishing all their expenses online to show others it's possible to live intentionally even with financial constraints.
Personal finance requires personal clarity of purpose to avoid simply following others' financial paths. Though money is necessary, studies show happiness doesn't significantly increase beyond about $40,000 annual income. Guillebeau's own experience confirms this-his happiness levels weren't dramatically different earning $8,000 versus $250,000 annually. The key is understanding exactly how much you need, how much you'd like, and what you'll do with it.
A healthy approach to frugality isn't about universal penny-pinching but making conscious spending choices aligned with your values. Spend happily on things you truly value, avoid spending on things you don't value, prioritize experiences over possessions, and invest in others alongside your own savings. The goal is aligning spending with personal values while managing necessary expenses.
Several financial principles are worth considering. Time isn't literally money-walking 30 minutes to save $2 on bus fare doesn't directly fund a $4,000 plane ticket. Deferred gratification can be valuable but also become life avoidance if taken too far-save for the future without sacrificing present enjoyment. Reject the concept of "good debt" versus "bad debt"-all debt locks people into long-term decisions they may later regret. To build savings, focus more on increasing income (abundance behavior) than cutting expenses (scarcity behavior). And while financial independence matters, traditional retirement doesn't-the goal is meaningful work on your own terms.
Two paths to financial independence exist. Wealth-based independence requires saving roughly 25 times your annual expenses, allowing for a safe 4% annual withdrawal rate. This means accumulating $1 million to withdraw $40,000 yearly, or $2.5 million for $100,000 annually. Income-based independence focuses on replacing employer income with self-created revenue streams rather than accumulating a large fortune-prioritizing experiences like travel over wealth-building, while still maintaining enough income to support your desired lifestyle without traditional employment.
Money can be a tool not just for personal freedom but for helping others gain freedom. Consider giving a percentage of your income to non-profits through automatic bank deductions. View this not as charity or generosity but as responsibility and gratitude for privileges you've received. When giving, make ongoing monthly commitments rather than one-time gifts, and importantly-when you give, let go of controlling the outcome. As D.H. Lawrence said: "Life is something to be spent, not saved."
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Creating Convergence Through Radical Exclusion and Abundance
Novelist Haruki Murakami made a deliberate choice to prioritize his relationship with readers over specific people-focusing on what he would gain rather than lose. This exemplifies the practice of abundance: embracing life fully while ordering it around key priorities. The concept of convergence reconciles two seemingly conflicting ideas: taking on a broad range of activities while simplifying to essentials. Convergence is the state where everything in our lives aligns-good relationships, exciting work, good health, daily autonomy, and making a difference. Achieving this requires both eliminating unnecessary obligations and welcoming enriching experiences.
Setting the terms of an unconventional life requires determination against daily distractions. The key is learning to say no to unnecessary obligations by asking "Will someone die if I don't do this?" Radical exclusion means shutting out anything distracting from key priorities-even if it frustrates others. Bill Gates practiced this with his "Think Weeks," isolating himself twice yearly to strategize despite being CEO of Microsoft. Creating a "to-stop-doing list" helps identify energy-draining activities that can be eliminated.
Physical decluttering also helps, as demonstrated by David Bruno's "100 things challenge" and J.D. Roth's closet experiment. Other practical exclusions include giving up meetings, TV, excessive phone use, and managing email overwhelm-all to reclaim hours for meaningful work.
After eliminating the unnecessary, we must decide what to keep and welcome a life of abundance filled with enjoyable, legacy-building activities. The best moments in life come when we're stretched to our limits doing something difficult but worthwhile, as Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi explains in Flow. With 74 productive hours available weekly (after sleep and a Sabbath day), we have 4,440 minutes to fill with meaningful pursuits.
Understanding how you recharge is essential-for introverts, this might mean solitude; for everyone, a weekly Sabbath can provide reflection time. The key is distinguishing between worthy "yes" opportunities (legacy work, deliverable-producing tasks, genuine fun) and necessary "no" decisions (busywork, obligation-only activities). Saying no to some things allows you to say yes to many more. As David Allen puts it: "You can have anything, but not everything."
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Contrarian Adventures and World Exploration
Guillebeau has always been drawn to maps, spending hours as a child studying atlases, planning routes, and memorizing capitals. His nomadic tendencies developed early-growing up in multiple states and the Philippines, plus regular solo flights between his separated parents' homes that made him an airport expert by age ten. His world opened further when he moved to West Africa in 2002, where his job had him traveling throughout the region on questionable flights-one plane had a water bottle labeled "Fire Extinguisher" duct-taped to the wall, while another stopped mid-taxi to let a late passenger board after he bribed the copilot.
During a trip from Benin to Johannesburg, Guillebeau realized he could visit Europe for the same price, and while counting countries in Budapest, he discovered he'd been to about 50 nations. The revelation that visiting another 50 would cost roughly $30,000-the same as friends were spending on SUVs-sparked his quest to see the entire world.
Even if travel isn't your passion, you probably have at least one place you'd like to visit. With just $2 saved daily, you could reach that destination within two years-sooner if you save more or choose somewhere less expensive. There are several approaches to world travel for beginners: the thoughtful planner meticulously researches everything in advance; the water-tester follows the mini-break approach by starting with short trips to test the waters; the all-in adventurer simply buys a round-the-world ticket and figures everything out along the way.
Guillebeau's lifestyle involves multiple 2-3 week trips annually, visiting several places across different continents. He stays in hotels using loyalty points from travel hacking, crashes with friends, or occasionally sleeps on airport floors. His travel isn't about sightseeing or museums-he prefers exploring, reading in parks, and spontaneity. He simultaneously works and travels, checking into business hotels periodically to manage emails and scheduling around time zones for important calls.
His travels haven't always gone smoothly. He's been evicted from a Mongolian guesthouse at midnight, nearly deported from both Pakistan and Saudi Arabia, and stuck in immigration limbo between countries. But these challenges are balanced by high moments like enjoying Virgin Atlantic's Upper Class Lounge with a free haircut in Richard Branson's chair. He embraces both extremes-champagne and mosquitoes-believing that mediocre travel produces few memories.
Travel hacking strategies help navigate the world efficiently: leveraging elite status matches between airlines, using forums like FlyerTalk.com for expert advice, finding affordable lodging through Hostels.com, and scoring hotel deals through Priceline.com. With minimal effort, most people can earn at least 25,000 miles yearly without changing spending habits-enough for one free ticket-while dedicated effort can yield up to 100,000 miles.
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Building Your Legacy Through Meaningful Work
Too many people get stuck reliving their past accomplishments instead of creating new ones. Like the Vietnam veteran who spent twenty minutes describing a war from thirty years ago while his audience checked phones and whispered to neighbors, we risk becoming trapped in our "glory days" if we don't continually move forward.
Glory days are dangerous precisely because they're so meaningful. After returning from Africa in 2006, Guillebeau made sure everyone knew about his experiences-mentioning meetings with Liberia's president and coffee with Desmond Tutu within minutes of meeting someone new. These experiences formed his identity, but he gradually realized he needed to move beyond constantly referencing the past. Otherwise, he'd become like someone still reliving decades-old experiences rather than creating new impact.
We all have foundational experiences that shape our worldview-whether in high school, college, military service, or traveling abroad. We're rightly proud of these "glory days" when we experienced rapid growth and discovery. But there comes a time when we must use these experiences as motivation for greater challenges rather than endpoints. Instead of calling them "the best days of my life," we should say, "That was incredible-now how can I create even more remarkable experiences?"
To find meaning, we must answer two essential questions: "What do you really want to get out of life?" and "What can you offer the world that no one else can?" Viktor Frankl, who survived three years in a concentration camp, believed meaning comes from "creating a work or doing a deed" or through our attitude toward suffering. Rather than viewing legacy as something to consider at life's end, we should begin building our "legacy project" right now.
Building a legacy requires distinguishing between different types of work. As consultant Michael Bungay Stanier explains, every task falls into categories of bad work, good work, or great work. While we should eliminate bad work, the crucial distinction is between good and great work. Good work is useful and productive, but we often have too much of it. Great work is revolutionary and leads to innovation-it's both comforting and discomforting because it pushes us further.
Legacy work involves creating something new rather than merely responding to what already exists. The key is measuring work by output, not hours spent. Guillebeau maintains a "1,000 words standard," committing to write at least 1,000 words daily of something meaningful. This discipline generates about 300,000 words annually, translating to blog posts, newspaper columns, articles, information products, and books. Whatever your creative work, establishing a continual metric keeps you focused on what truly matters.
While the process and journey are important, having clear goals and deliverables matters equally. Building a serious legacy project requires substantial "butt-in-seat time," forcing yourself to make real progress. Just be careful not to put in hours without purpose, which transforms legacy work back into busywork. Remember, we each get one life-you might as well take it seriously and create something beautiful that will outlast you, helping others in ways only you can.
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Embracing Dangerous Ideas and Creating Your Unconventional Life
Unconventional ideas are often dismissed as unreasonable or impossible to implement. Critics say "We can't all do what we want," "Some of us have to be responsible," or "That doesn't work in the real world." But these labels-"unreasonable," "unrealistic," "impractical"-merely marginalize ideas that challenge conventional standards. The world needs more people who refuse to conform and settle. Innovation comes from risk-takers; social justice from those who question authority.
Throughout this book, we've explored numerous dangerous ideas. The belief that career security comes from within rather than from traditional employment challenges conventional wisdom. So does the notion that you can create a life around what you love without being selfish. The conventional model still promotes deferred gratification-spending our most productive years building wealth to be enjoyed in some distant future. Even the basic belief that you should do what you want most of the time troubles many people, as does the conviction that our lives should count for more than our narrow self-interests.
Luck, fate, childhood environment, and social privilege aren't completely irrelevant to who we are today, but they aren't the whole story. While we can't be responsible for our past, we are responsible for our future. What matters from here on out has little to do with luck and much more to do with our choices. Be daring and different-failure is possible, but regrets are optional. Be impractical-most inventions were initially judged impractical, and provocative ideas rarely welcomed by those in power. Assert integrity against the play-it-safers and slaves of the ordinary.
Like Shackleton's famous recruitment for his Antarctic expedition that attracted 5,000 applicants despite advertising "hazardous journey" with "safe return doubtful," choosing an unconventional path may sometimes leave you feeling alone-but also very much alive. Taking the road less traveled is a good start, but you can also build your own road. It's your turn now.
It's far easier to be a cynic than a believer. Whatever you decide, don't do that. Stand for something! Come join the living world. The rest of us are waiting.
