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    Exploring how coercive control works through what's missing—withdrawn support, neglected development, and eroded independence—and why victims often can't see this invisible abuse until they've escaped its subtle grip.

    The Invisible Cage: Control Through Absence

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    Coercive control is like a cage made of a person's own diminished sense of what's possible. It operates not through dramatic violence, but through a systematic pattern of withholding support and eroding a person's capacity for autonomy.

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    Coercive control through omission (Evan Stark): how control operates not through active restriction but through withdrawal of support, neglect of development, and passive erosion of capacity. Why it's invisible to the person experiencing it, why it mirrors childhood neglect, and why the damage only becomes visible after exit.

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