Emotional Blackmail by Susan Forward & Donna Frazier Summary
Overview of Emotional Blackmail
Trapped in a relationship where fear, obligation, and guilt control you? Susan Forward's groundbreaking "Emotional Blackmail" reveals the FOG tactics manipulators use to get their way. This 1997 psychology bestseller has helped countless readers break free from emotional prison - therapists worldwide recommend it as essential reading.
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著者の声を通じて本を感じる
知識を魅力的で例が豊富な洞察に変換
キーアイデアを瞬時にキャプチャして素早く学習
楽しく魅力的な方法で本を楽しむ
重要なポイント
When Love Becomes Leverage
Have you ever agreed to something you didn't want to do, not because you chose it, but because the alternative felt unbearable? Maybe it was the silent treatment that stretched for days, the tears that made you feel like a monster, or the threat that someone you love would fall apart without your compliance. This invisible pattern operates in countless relationships, turning intimacy into currency and connection into control. It's emotional blackmail-a manipulation so subtle that victims often can't name what's happening to them, yet so damaging that it slowly erodes the very foundation of who they are. Unlike physical threats, this form of coercion leaves no visible bruises, making it easy to dismiss or rationalize. But make no mistake: when someone weaponizes your love, fear, or guilt to get what they want, you're not in a relationship anymore. You're in a hostage negotiation. Emotional blackmail follows a predictable cycle, though most people don't recognize it until they learn what to look for. It begins innocently enough with a demand-someone wants something from you. When you hesitate or refuse, pressure emerges. Your reluctance transforms into a character flaw while their demand becomes perfectly reasonable. If you continue resisting, threats appear-sometimes explicit, often implied. Eventually, most people surrender to avoid the threatened consequences, and the blackmailer learns exactly which buttons to push next time. What makes this pattern particularly insidious is its resemblance to everyday influence. We all occasionally hint instead of asking directly. But manipulation crosses into blackmail when it's systematically used to override your needs and preferences.
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"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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