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    The Belonging Disconnect

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    Research reveals a gap between our expectations of effortless community connection and the reality of 'social labor' required. Discover the four contextual factors that shape belonging and why community initiatives often miss the mark.

    The Belonging Disconnect

    The Belonging Disconnectのベスト引用

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    Meaningful social connection requires considerable 'social labor'—the emotional and practical work of reaching out and maintaining connections—rather than being the effortless, organic experience many imagine.

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