Why Love Hurts by Eva Illouz Summary
Overview of Why Love Hurts
In "Why Love Hurts," sociologist Eva Illouz reveals why modern heartbreak stems from social structures, not personal flaws. Challenging traditional psychological explanations, this provocative 2012 analysis asks: Why do commitment-phobic relationships and emotional inequality between genders persist in our consumer-driven romance culture?
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重要なポイント
The Paradox We Don't Talk About
Why does finding love feel harder than ever before? We swipe through endless profiles, we have more freedom than any generation in history, yet so many of us end up heartbroken, confused, or emotionally exhausted. The self-help industry tells us to work on ourselves, fix our "commitment issues," or learn better communication skills. But what if the problem isn't us? What if modern love hurts because the entire architecture of romance has fundamentally transformed? This isn't about individual psychology-it's about how social forces have reshaped intimacy itself. Understanding this shift won't make love painless, but it might help us stop blaming ourselves for struggles that are, in many ways, built into the system.
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