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The Pursuit of Lawyer Happiness: A Delicate Balance
In a nation founded by lawyers, where Thomas Jefferson enshrined "the pursuit of Happiness" as an inalienable right, the legal profession faces a striking paradox. While Americans pursue happiness with unmatched intensity, lawyers experience significantly lower satisfaction than many other professionals. A staggering 70% wouldn't choose law again, half discourage their children from following in their footsteps, and a third of big firm associates leave within three years.
Yet this isn't simply a profession in crisis. Most lawyers plan to continue practicing, and law school applications remain steady. The emotional state of American attorneys is complex-many become lawyers not from passion but practicality, and the anxious, pessimistic personality that serves legal practice well may predispose lawyers to unhappiness. As the profession evolves, with law schools and firms increasingly recognizing the importance of attorney satisfaction, understanding the science of happiness and how it applies to legal careers has never been more crucial.
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The Happiness Conundrum: Are Lawyers Really Unhappy?
Being lawyers, we analyze happiness meticulously, considering what "happy" means, when we're measuring it, and how our answers compare to others. Despite these complexities, the data is clear: while most lawyers report being happy (as do most humans), they're decidedly less happy than many other professionals. Clergy, architects, scientists, physicians, and even butlers report higher happiness levels than lawyers. Overall, 43% of American lawyers say they're "very happy"-not alarming, but leaving substantial room for improvement.
This matters tremendously since we spend about one-third of our lives and half our waking hours working. The data reveals some contradictions: while 43% of lawyers report being "very happy" with their lives generally, career satisfaction hovers around 55%. Dissatisfaction numbers have remained fairly steady over decades, with 20-27% of lawyers reporting being "dissatisfied or very dissatisfied" with their work.
When examining all available studies, most lawyers fall somewhere in the middle of the happiness continuum. The best-designed research indicates that while most lawyers are satisfied with their decision to become attorneys, significant dissatisfaction exists regarding specific aspects of their jobs. Many lawyers could be happier if their work better aligned with their values, strengths, and interests.
Happiness in law correlates with several factors. Attorneys over fifty, those working in smaller firms, in-house counsel, government lawyers, and part-time practitioners report the highest satisfaction levels. Public sector attorneys show 68% satisfaction with career, appreciation, and work-life balance, while large firm lawyers report only 44% satisfaction despite higher earnings. Solo practitioners and small firm lawyers benefit from greater autonomy. Lawyers with routine, repetitive work and limited creativity-especially those constrained by billable hours-experience more discontent.
Counterintuitively, graduates of lower-ranked law schools report higher happiness levels than their elite counterparts. Only 27% of top-ten law school graduates reported being extremely satisfied with their career choice compared to 43% from fourth-tier schools. When comparing only attorneys at the largest firms, the gap widens further-26% satisfaction for elite graduates versus 49% for fourth-tier graduates.
Unlike Hogwarts' magical Sorting Hat that perfectly matches students to their ideal houses, aspiring lawyers must assess their own abilities, interests, and desires without perfect guidance. Of the 48,000 Americans who enter law annually, approximately 20,000 end up disappointed for various reasons. That more lawyers are satisfied with choosing law than with their specific jobs suggests many believe their careers could improve with different firms, practice areas, or better coping strategies.
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Understanding Happiness: The Science Behind Satisfaction
Happiness operates on three distinct levels that can sometimes conflict with each other. First is short-term joy-the bright, intense happiness experienced during leisure activities. Second is the paler, intermediate form of happiness found in professional satisfaction. Third is the retrospective happiness of looking back at a well-spent life. Maximizing one type, such as present pleasures, might undermine another, like long-term life satisfaction.
Happiness research has exploded recently, with scientists competing for publication in specialized journals like The Journal of Happiness Studies. Just decades ago, this subject was largely ignored by scientists, considered impossible to evaluate scientifically. Now, happiness has become a legitimate field of inquiry with research from three main fields: neuroscience, evolutionary psychology, and positive psychology.
Evolutionary psychology explains why we have emotions at all-they're mechanisms that passed through natural selection because they contributed to reproductive success. Nature doesn't prioritize our happiness; persistent contentment wouldn't enhance survival. Early humans who ignored dangers didn't live to pass on their genes, so we're programmed to recognize threats more readily than pleasures.
Evolution has given humans three brains: the primitive brainstem controlling essential functions, the limbic "mammalian brain" generating basic emotions including happiness, and the neocortex responsible for intellect and logic. The amygdala in our limbic brain plays a crucial role in our emotional life, sending more signals to the prefrontal cortex than it receives. This makes us fundamentally emotional rather than intellectual creatures.
Four key brain chemicals influence our happiness. Cortisol is the stress hormone that prevents happiness when present in high quantities. Dopamine flows when we anticipate pleasure-it's part of our motivation system for seeking food and sex. Serotonin deficiency is linked to depression, which is why antidepressants work by increasing serotonin availability. Oxytocin, "the bonding chemical," creates deep connections between people and underlies our capacity for empathy and trust.
While temporary chemical adjustments can bring moments of pleasure, achieving lasting happiness requires reshaping brain structures. Two proven techniques can produce long-lasting mood improvements: meditation and exercise. Princeton scientists discovered that exercising rats create new brain cells that respond better to stress. However, it takes three to six weeks of regular exercise to reap these psychological benefits.
Satisfaction is determined by genetics, circumstances, and personal choices. While most of this book focuses on choices you can make to increase happiness, understanding your limitations is equally important. Science reveals that happiness levels are largely genetically determined-between 40-80% according to various estimates. This genetic baseline, our "happiness set point," is the level to which we tend to return after emotional highs or lows.
Contrary to popular belief, circumstances contribute surprisingly little to happiness-only about 10% of the difference in happiness levels. Millionaires aren't much happier than middle-income people. Age makes little difference, with twenty-year-olds no happier than sixty-year-olds. However, certain circumstances do significantly affect happiness: religious involvement, close relationships, and trust levels.
Our happiness fluctuates daily, but we tend to gravitate back toward our set points over time-a phenomenon called adaptation or "the hedonic treadmill." When we experience positive events like promotions or marriages, we enjoy temporary happiness spikes before gradually returning to our baseline. We're also poor predictors of future happiness. Most people expect to be happier five years from now, but the best predictor of future happiness is simply current happiness.
With genetics accounting for 50% of happiness and circumstances only 10%, a substantial 40% remains within our control through intentional actions and thinking patterns. This "forty-percent solution" represents the ceiling of potential happiness improvement-challenging to reach fully, but worth pursuing.
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The Legal Profession's Happiness Challenge
When researchers analyzed job satisfaction across 198 occupations, clergy ranked highest while roofers ranked lowest. The clergy reported extraordinary satisfaction (87.2% "very satisfied") and personal happiness (67.2% "very happy"), suggesting both that happy people enter the profession and that the work itself brings fulfillment. Lawyers fall slightly above the middle in job satisfaction (52.4% "very satisfied"), ranking below doctors but above accountants.
Billable hour requirements have escalated dramatically since the 1970s, when associates averaged 1,700 hours yearly. By 2009, the national average reached 1,888 hours, with large firm associates expected to bill 1,900-1,950 hours annually. These figures are deceptive, as forty billable hours typically requires 50% more actual office time. While median American workers put in forty hours weekly, lawyers average fifty, with one-fifth of new lawyers working sixty-plus hours.
Money has become the root of lawyers' professional discontent, transforming law from a profession into a business fixated on maximizing profits. Firms now provide much less job security, readily abandoning less profitable practice areas and shedding attorneys during economic downturns. This creates a revolving door where 80% of associates change jobs within five years of graduation-a stark contrast to previous generations' lifetime careers at single firms.
One of lawyers' greatest professional dissatisfactions is dealing with other lawyers. Incivility has become rampant, particularly in larger cities where attorneys may face opposing counsel only once, never to meet again. In surveys, 56% of lawyers cited obnoxiousness as the most common unpleasant quality in colleagues, while 69% believed civility had declined over time.
The legal profession has seen a dramatic shift in how compensation information is shared. Before 1975, minimum fee schedules were published by bar associations, and few lawyers made astronomical sums. But in 1987, Steven Brill's American Lawyer began publishing detailed lists of partner earnings and starting salaries at major firms. This transparency fundamentally changed the profession's culture-suddenly lawyers became acutely aware of their place in the financial pecking order.
Lawyers face relentless public disdain, as evidenced by countless cruel jokes portraying them as worse than pond scum. A 2006 Gallup poll found only 18% of Americans rated lawyers' ethics as "high" or "very high"-far below nurses (84%), doctors (69%), and police officers (54%). Nearly three-quarters of respondents in an ABA survey believed lawyers manipulate both the system and truth to win at any cost.
Despite widespread negativity, law remains a noble profession where attorneys create mechanisms for peaceful conflict resolution centered on truth-seeking. Many lawyers pursue their work with passion, making significant contributions through adoptions, constitutional defense, anti-discrimination efforts, legislative drafting, protecting abuse victims, or simply providing trusted advice.
Career satisfaction tends to increase over time for lawyers. Experienced attorneys typically spend more time on enjoyable tasks, achieve greater competence, understand expectations better, and develop supportive relationships. ABA studies show lawyers with over ten years of experience report 40-50% higher career satisfaction than newer attorneys.
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Building Your Happiness Toolbox
This chapter provides practical tools for building a happier legal practice or repairing an unhappy one. Career dissatisfaction stems from both job characteristics and personal factors, but certain universal desires underpin happiness: control over one's life, connection to others, engagement in meaningful work, and alignment with personal values.
Control is essential for lawyer happiness, yet most attorneys have less autonomy than people in many other occupations. Eduardo Punset argues that loss of control is "the ultimate origin of unhappiness and depression," with studies showing that control correlates strongly with happiness across various populations. Control has several crucial facets: work-life balance (which 70% of lawyers cite as a reason to change jobs), job security (particularly challenging in large firms), and the sense that one's contribution matters.
An experiment with five rats demonstrates the critical importance of control: when subjected to random electric shocks, only the rat with a lever that could stop the shocks survived, while the other four died of depression-like symptoms despite receiving identical shocks. Similar studies with humans consistently show that control directly correlates with happiness.
Work-life balance issues are a leading cause of stress among lawyers. While Americans average 2,000 work hours annually, Europeans work about 15% less (around 1,700 hours)-potentially explaining why happiness levels have stagnated in the US while rising in Europe. Law firms should prioritize giving attorneys more control beyond just reducing billable hours.
When we compare ourselves to those better off than us, we suffer from "upward comparisons" that breed discontent. Olympic bronze medalists are actually happier than silver medalists because bronzes compare themselves to non-medalists while silvers fixate on missing gold. For lawyers seeking happiness, working with less fortunate clients provides natural downward comparison opportunities and the satisfaction of making tangible differences in people's lives.
About 70 percent of our controllable happiness stems from relationships. After sex, socializing is the activity that makes us happiest-first with friends, then with spouses and children, followed by co-workers and clients. Working ranks near the bottom of pleasure-inducing activities, beating only commuting.
Without commitment, you're just spending time-you cannot love a job with one foot out the door. Mid-career boredom often sets in after the initial excitement of being a lawyer wears off. Career coach Hindi Greenberg advises lawyers to focus on what they enjoy about their work and adopt a "glass half-full" attitude. No legal job is perfect; as Justice Sonia Sotomayor notes, "The vast majority of lawyering is drudgery work."
Flow occurs when we're so absorbed in an activity that self-consciousness disappears and time flies by. These stretching experiences happen when challenges match our skills-demanding enough to test us but not so daunting as to produce anxiety. For lawyers, flow might come during cross-examination, crafting contract language that prevents litigation, leading classroom discussions, or writing clear, significant prose.
We're remarkably poor at predicting what will make us happy. Research shows we should observe others in situations we're contemplating rather than relying on our imagination. For career choices, "snooping in on other people's lives" provides better guidance than simply asking if someone likes their job.
The path to happiness is surprisingly simple: identify what gives you pleasure and do those things more often. We often chase competitive rewards (promotions, money, high-profile clients) rather than activities that bring genuine pleasure. The most satisfying jobs combine three elements: activities that give you meaning, activities that give you pleasure, and activities that allow you to exercise your personal strengths.
The happiest lawyers do work they believe makes the world better. Deborah Rhode notes that attorneys experience their "greatest source of disappointment" when they feel they aren't contributing to the public good. Even when direct impact seems modest, finding meaning matters-like hairdressers who see themselves as key confidants. The happiness that comes from meaningful work is especially resilient, less prone to "set-point reversion" than happiness from promotions or pay raises.
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Preparing for a Satisfying Career: The Law School Years
The three-year journey through law school can spell the difference between a happy legal career and an unhappy one. Not everyone is cut out to be a lawyer. If you're considering law school solely for money or to please parents, reconsider. The glamorous portrayal of legal practice in media rarely reflects reality-most lawyers spend their days researching, reading contracts, writing memoranda, and meeting with clients rather than delivering dramatic courtroom speeches.
Your peer group may be the most critical factor in choosing a law school. These students will shape your values and approach to practicing law, potentially becoming lifelong professional and social connections. Research shows that peer groups profoundly influence our behavior and happiness through "network contagion."
While U.S. News rankings may matter for certain career paths, they don't necessarily correlate with career satisfaction. Interestingly, graduates of "fourth-tier" schools report the highest job satisfaction. Personal visits are essential when choosing a school. Sit in on classes, talk to upper-level students, and evaluate whether the school prepares students for practice stresses, encourages moral development, and fosters problem-solving skills.
Find a school where professors respect students and demonstrate that people matter. When visiting, observe if faculty learn students' names, start classes on time, and value different viewpoints. Great teachers care not just about classroom performance but about students' lives. The best professors counterbalance the tendency to dehumanize case participants by reminding students that real people with real suffering stand behind every case.
Law schools often narrowly define success through grades, class standing, and prestigious firm placement, causing students to abandon their initial aspirations of making a difference. Students get sucked into the "institutional glide path" where external markers of achievement become all-consuming. Remember that 90% of students won't graduate in the top 10%, and three-quarters won't practice at large firms.
Law school transforms students through intense reading of unfamiliar terminology, potential public questioning via the Socratic method, and the realization that law is indeterminate. This experience can be unsettling, particularly for those drawn to law because they appreciate clear rules. Research shows that law students begin with normal psychological profiles but become increasingly unhappy during their education, shifting from intrinsic motivations toward external measures of validation like grades and status.
Despite the challenges, many students thrive in law school. A 2007 survey of over 27,000 law students showed that 82% rated their experience "good" or "excellent," with only 3% calling it "poor." Many students develop lasting friendships and professional networks during this time. Clinics and externships provide windows into satisfying career options, and 79% of third-year students reported feeling optimistic about their future careers.
The keys to law school satisfaction have little to do with academic success. Research shows high LSAT scores are "slightly negatively related to life satisfaction." Instead, engagement with material and defining success by your own internal values predicts satisfaction. Students who focus on mastering topics rather than outperforming peers actually perform better academically while avoiding the distress-depression-substance abuse cycle.
While government and public interest lawyers report higher job satisfaction than those in private practice, many students abandon their public interest aspirations after law school. The explanation isn't just debt (though 2009 graduates averaged $100,000 in loans), but also that most law school curricula don't adequately prepare students for public interest careers. Remember that money has limited ability to increase happiness-higher income aspirations actually lead to reduced life satisfaction, and the pleasure from raises is only temporary due to the "hedonic treadmill."
The real danger isn't failing to find a job (over 90% of law graduates find employment within six months), but finding the wrong one. There's no ideal job, but many could be satisfying-and some could be completely wrong for you. When considering career options, be aware of institutional pressures steering you toward certain paths.
Law schools subtly steer students toward large firms through various institutional pressures. Faculty members, who averaged only 3.7 years in practice before teaching and typically worked at large firms, often guide students toward the model they know. Schools gain prestige from placing graduates in high-paying jobs, and career services offices cater to large firms that regularly recruit on campus.
Combining your legal training with existing passions or skills can create unique career opportunities that distinguish you from the 43,500 annual law graduates. Consider Kevin Travis, who merged his mechanic background with legal skills to become a specialist in vehicle service contract litigation. Or Julia Belian, who paired divinity and law degrees to find "special joy" in estate planning, approaching it as "a ministry of the highest order."
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Creating Happier Law Firms
The legal profession has undergone troubling changes, with many experienced attorneys lamenting that "law is becoming just another business" rather than a profession valuing quality and community service. Firms increasingly emphasize billable hours over face-to-face contact, compromise work quality to address client cost concerns, and lose the collegiality and civility that once characterized the profession.
The primary resources of law firms are their lawyers. When firms lose top talent due to unhappiness, they suffer. NALP surveys show staggering attrition rates-37% of associates leave within three years and 77% within five years. Replacing a departing associate costs between $200,000 and $500,000-roughly 1.5 to 2 times their annual salary. Losing five lawyers annually represents a $1-2.5 million loss.
Mounting evidence shows happier workers are more productive. They receive better evaluations, earn higher pay, have less absenteeism, and lower medical costs. They set higher goals and persist longer at cognitive tasks. Studies outside law show happy people are better negotiators, make better managerial decisions, show more creativity, and compliment colleagues' performance more.
Law firms now employ four generations with different values and expectations. Gen X (1965-79) and Gen Y/Millennials (1980-2000) often work under Baby Boomer (1946-64) or Traditionalist (pre-1946) partners. Younger generations prioritize work-life balance over income, with Gen X willing to accept reduced compensation for lifestyle flexibility. Gen Y lawyers seek mentoring, teamwork, feedback, and meaningful work, while showing less tolerance for drudgery.
Clients nationwide are challenging traditional hourly billing methods, recognizing the inherent conflict between resolving matters efficiently and billing by the hour. Financial incentives discourage efficiency and encourage padding hours. Many large companies now negotiate fixed fees or flat rates rather than billable-hour arrangements.
Autonomy consistently ranks among lawyers' top sources of job satisfaction. In a 2001 Catalyst survey of 1,400 elite law school graduates, "control over work" was the leading satisfaction source for men (68%) and third highest for women (57%). Associates typically experience the opposite-low decision latitude combined with high workload demands and high-stakes outcomes.
When asked what they dislike most about legal practice, lawyers overwhelmingly cite billable hours. In a 2005 NALP Foundation survey, "reduction of work hours" was the top factor prompting job changes. An astounding 84% of respondents to an ABA Journal survey would accept lower income for fewer billable hours, including nearly half of attorneys in management positions.
Nearly two-thirds of lawyers report difficulty managing work and personal life demands. Work-life balance ranks among the top three reasons lawyers select employers, with more than one-third of male lawyers and almost half of female lawyers citing it as crucial. Law students are increasingly demanding change, with organizations like Law Students Building a Better Legal Profession (BBLP) pressuring firms to reduce billable hours, implement balanced hours policies, and make work expectations transparent.
Managing partners can foster a "can do" atmosphere through emotional contagion. At Cravath, partners emphasized that associates should be problem-solvers rather than merely problem-spotters. New lawyers were taught that when clients ask if something can be done, "the first word out of your mouth should always be 'yes'"-even if followed by explanations of difficulties or alternatives.
Pro bono work correlates directly with greater job satisfaction for lawyers, yet only 46 percent of surveyed lawyers meet the ABA's goal of 50 hours annually. New lawyers identify lack of pro bono opportunities as a major source of dissatisfaction. Encouragingly, law firms increasingly view pro bono as good business-a recruitment tool, training ground for associates, and community engagement method.
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Real Lawyers, Real Stories
The best predictor of our happiness in future experiences comes not from our imagination but from examining how others have responded to similar situations. Our imaginations often fail us-we let present attitudes color our imagined futures and underestimate our adaptability to both good and bad events.
When surveying hundreds of lawyers nationwide, the most frequently cited obstacle to happiness was achieving work-life balance. As Justice Joseph Story noted in 1829, "The law is a jealous mistress and requires a long and constant courtship"-an observation that remains true today. Attorneys consistently report sacrificing personal lives for careers, often unhappily. They describe pressure to work longer hours rather than smarter, losing years and friendships, lacking time for personal development, and experiencing anxiety from always being on call.
The billable hour system particularly frustrates many lawyers who feel it values quantity over quality, punishes efficiency, and breeds resentment among colleagues. Work-life balance is especially challenging for attorneys with children, with one marketing consultant observing that law firms are "probably the most family unfriendly place you can go."
When asked what makes them happiest in their jobs, lawyers consistently point to relationships. Those who regularly interact with colleagues and clients they like and trust report high career satisfaction, while those dealing with ungrateful clients, unsympathetic supervisors, or unethical opposing attorneys experience much less happiness.
The happiest lawyers are those who wake up eager to get to work, asking themselves, "How is it that I actually get paid for doing work that I love so much?" While law practice typically mixes interesting work with tedium, the puzzle-solving nature of legal work can be deeply absorbing for the right person.
You're happiest when your work matters and aligns with your values. When lawyers feel their efforts are meaningless or unvalued, even good pay and colleagues can't produce happiness. Lawyers consistently identify peak experiences as cases where they contributed to just outcomes affecting individual lives-securing child custody for deserving parents, helping psychiatric patients obtain needed guardianships, or creating estate plans that honor clients' wishes.
Lawyers frequently change jobs seeking greater happiness. Many who begin as associates in firms find the lack of control frustrating-having to answer to multiple people and not seeing projects through to completion. Some litigators discover they prefer transactional work, finding litigation's emotional roller-coaster unsuitable for their temperament.
第9章
Finding Your Path to Happiness
Happiness isn't a permanent state but a shifting landscape we visit periodically. There's no formula that guarantees happiness, as it results from a complex mix of genetics, circumstances, and our own actions.
Even following every piece of advice in this book won't guarantee perpetual happiness. Our genetic makeup and adverse circumstances can keep happiness at bay. Martin Seligman discovered that simply removing sadness doesn't create happiness but emptiness. Happiness and sadness aren't opposites but complementary experiences. As Carl Jung noted, "happy" would lose meaning without sadness as counterbalance.
Perhaps surprisingly for authors of "The Happy Lawyer," we acknowledge that happiness isn't everything. For most of human history, survival, not happiness, was the primary concern. Philosophers focused on virtue, honor and loyalty rather than happiness. Religious texts rarely emphasize happiness as a primary goal. As Thomas Jefferson observed, "Perfect happiness... was never intended by the Deity to be the lot of his creatures."
You move toward happier ground by first opening yourself to the possibility of becoming a happier lawyer. Don't force it-as John Stuart Mill noted, "Happiness should be approached sideways like a crab." Obsessing about unhappiness takes you out of the present moment where happiness actually resides.
Does your work interest and appropriately challenge you? If you're bored by filling out the same forms or making the same arguments repeatedly, explore changing departments, clients, or your approach to assignments. Law offers many challenges-seek them out. First understand your own competencies, then find ways to use your strengths.
The closer your values align with your work, the happier you'll feel. Even boring work has benefits when consistent with your values. When asked about peak experiences, lawyers repeatedly mentioned cases where they believed their work made a difference. When conflict arises between what your head and heart tell you to do, listen to your heart.
Control over work-life balance stands above other aspects of control for lawyer satisfaction. If you feel good about the balance between work obligations and commitments to others (family, friends, self), you'll likely feel better about your job. If your current position makes such balance impossible, do something about it. Don't postpone happiness-children grow quickly, athletic abilities fade, and friendships require attention.
"Social embeddedness" is the single best predictor of happiness. Your workplace relationships are crucial to finding greater satisfaction. Trust-a small word with enormous meaning-is fundamental. The inability to trust undermines happiness as surely as the capacity to trust promotes it. As psychiatrist George Valliant concluded from his seventy-year longitudinal study of Harvard graduates: "The only thing that really matters in life is your relationships to other people."
Ben Franklin urged finding happiness in "the little advantages" of daily life. Almost all lawyers experience some job aspects that bring pleasure-strategizing with colleagues, outlining briefs, or clearing tasks from your inbox. Recognize these moments through self-study, as we're not all naturally attuned to what gives us genuine pleasure.
After researching countless opinions on happiness, we've concluded that love makes us happier than anything else. Not necessarily romantic love, but the love inherent in being attentive-caring deeply about somebody or something, whether justice, a cause, or the life of the mind. British scholar Avner Offer puts it concisely: "Attention is the universal currency of well-being."
Like any relationship, your connection to your work will have tensions and difficult days. But as long as your work holds your attention-as long as you can love it-there's more than just hope for being a happy lawyer.
