The Course of Love by Alain de Botton Summary
Overview of The Course of Love
A philosophical novel that redefines romance by embracing its imperfections. Alain de Botton's "The Course of Love" sparked a cultural phenomenon when his related NYT essay became their #1 most-emailed article. Can accepting "enlightened romantic pessimism" actually save your relationship?
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著者の声を通じて本を感じる
知識を魅力的で例が豊富な洞察に変換
キーアイデアを瞬時にキャプチャして素早く学習
楽しく魅力的な方法で本を楽しむ
重要なポイント
Love Is a Story That Continues After "The End"
Most love stories end with a kiss, a proposal, or a wedding. But what happens after the credits roll? What about the arguments over IKEA furniture, the sleepless nights with colicky babies, or the quiet resentments that build over decades? "The Course of Love" follows Rabih and Kirsten from their first meeting through years of marriage, revealing that real romance isn't about finding perfection but navigating imperfection together. Their journey shows us that true love isn't a destination but a continuous process of learning, unlearning, and growth. What makes their story remarkable isn't its uniqueness but its universality - the everyday challenges that all couples face but rarely discuss openly. Fifteen-year-old Rabih watches a French girl eating chocolate mousse in a hotel lobby and constructs an entire relationship in his mind without exchanging a single word. This pattern continues into adulthood - intense longings for strangers glimpsed on the London Underground or at work conferences, each time believing he's found his "soulmate" based on nothing more than intuition. When Rabih meets Kirsten during an Edinburgh library project, their professional relationship evolves naturally into romance, culminating in a first kiss among towering Victorian palm houses. But what makes this beginning significant isn't its sweetness but what it represents - our cultural obsession with how love starts rather than how it continues. Movies end with weddings, novels conclude with proposals, but the real love story begins after the honeymoon. It unfolds in quiet moments of compromise, in the daily choice to remain present, in the unglamorous work of building a shared life. Romance exists not in perfect understanding but in the reality of choosing to understand each other, day after day, when staying would be harder than leaving.
The Chemistry of Complementary Wounds and the Marriage Gamble
The Battlefield of Small Things
The Affair: Testing the Boundaries of Love
Learning to Love: The Therapeutic Journey
The Quiet Heroism of Choosing Each Other, Again and Again
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『The Course of Love』の核心的なアイデアを分かりやすいポイントに分解し、革新的なチームがどのように創造、協力、成長するかを理解します。
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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