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    Scarring and the Body Image Lag: Post-Op Blues After Surgery

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    Explore the psychological impact of scarring and body image lag after body contouring surgery. Learn why post-op blues occur after excess skin removal.

    Scarring and the Body Image Lag: Post-Op Blues After Surgery

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    If you’re judging your body based on how it looks a few months after surgery, you’re essentially judging a house while the scaffolding is still up. Your mind often changes much more slowly than your physical shape, and what you see as a scar today is actually a symbol of your body working for you, not against you.

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    So I got my skin removed from being over weight and honestly I thought that was going to help now I think my scar is ugly and my mom pointed it out today like really I did it to remove skin but. Now I’m telling myself that unconciously 🤦‍♀️ uhhhhh how can I see it more clearly

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    Fonti di conoscenza
    Changing Body Image and Well-Being: Following the Experience of Massive Weight Loss and Body Contouring Surgery
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    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4934463/
    How Can I Manage the Emotional Impact of Scarring After Surgery? - Together4Cancer
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    https://www.together4cancer.com/post/how-can-i-manage-the-emotional-impact-of-scarring-after-surgery/
    Living with Surgical Scars: Physical and Psychological Recovery
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    https://www.surjen.com/blog-details/living-with-surgical-scars-physical-and-psychological-recovery
    Support
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    https://myscarspecialist.com/en/patients/treatments/coping-with-scars
    How to Talk About Your Surgery Without Shame: Strategies for Confident Conversations - Minneapolis Liposuction Specialty Clinic
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    https://www.minneapolisliposuction.com/surgery/how-to-talk-about-your-surgery-without-shame-strategies-for-confident-conversations/
    Body Image Changes After Bariatric Surgery: Support - Acibadem Hospitals Group
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    Body image lag occurs when your brain hasn't caught up to your new physical reality after a major transformation like excess skin removal. Even after reaching a weight loss goal, you may unconsciously use old negative scripts to describe your appearance. This disconnect can lead to distress as you struggle to reconcile your internal self-image with the new scars or changes visible in the mirror.

    Post-op blues are incredibly common during the first year following body contouring surgery. Many patients expect the struggle to end once the excess skin is gone, but they may instead feel shocked or even mutilated by the resulting scars. This period of psychological recovery is often intense because the scar becomes a new focal point for long-standing insecurities to latch onto.

    Scarring can feel loud or ugly, sometimes trading one source of distress for another after a significant weight loss transformation. When a scar is perceived as a focal point of insecurity, it can solidify fears about how others view your body, especially if family members make negative comments. Understanding that these feelings are a common part of the healing process can provide relief during the recovery journey.

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