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    Hope vs Longing: The Dance of Human Desire

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    2 ott 2025
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    Explore the fascinating relationship between hope and longing through philosophy and psychology. Discover how these emotions differ in their relationship to time, agency, and meaning-making in our lives.

    Hope vs Longing: The Dance of Human Desire

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    Hope and longing are both expressions of our refusal to accept that what is now is all there could ever be. They are complementary ways of being fully human in a world where meaning isn't guaranteed but has to be created through our engagement with time, possibility, and care.

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    I would like to understand how hope and longing are interrelated.

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    Everything Is F*cked
    Hope - Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy
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    https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/hope/
    Analyses of Longing: Origins, Levels, and Dimensions
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    https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/00223989909599768
    The Emotions of Hope: From Optimism to Sanguinity, from Pessimism to Despair
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    https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12108-022-09544-1?error=cookies_not_supported&code=7eb3057c-f8c9-4d35-8970-c21273f1f877
    Distinguishing Hope from Optimism and Related Affective States - Motivation and Emotion
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    https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11031-006-9010-4
    Being and Time

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    Core Exploration: The Temporal Dimension

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    Core Exploration: The Emotional Architecture

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    Core Exploration: The Paradox of Control and Agency

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    Practical Applications & Listener Takeaways

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