BeFreed
    Categories>Communication skill>How to Talk and Get What You Deserve

    How to Talk and Get What You Deserve

    8 min
    |
    |
    6 nov. 2025
    Communication skillSelf HelpPersonal Development

    Learn practical strategies to advocate for yourself, negotiate effectively, and overcome self-doubt. From building confidence to mastering strategic communication, discover how to finally ask for and receive your true worth.

    How to Talk and Get What You Deserve

    Meilleure citation de How to Talk and Get What You Deserve

    “

    Advocating for yourself isn't about being pushy or demanding; it's a skill set rooted in self-awareness and preparation. When you genuinely believe you deserve what you're asking for, that confidence comes through and creates a path for mutual benefit.

    ”

    Cette leçon audio a été créée par un membre de la communauté BeFreed

    Question posée

    how to talk and get what they deserve

    Voix des présentateurs
    Niaplay
    Eliplay
    Sources de connaissances
    Knowing Your Value
    Assertiveness
    Bargaining for advantage
    How to Ask For What You Want (And Get It)
    link
    https://hbr.org/2023/03/how-to-ask-for-what-you-want-and-get-it
    Building Self-Advocacy Skills for the Workplace: A Complete Guide ...
    link
    https://linksaba.com/building-self-advocacy-skills-for-the-workplace/
    Smart Negotiating: Advocating Effectively For Yourself & Future
    link
    https://purisconsulting.com/smart-negotiating-advocating-effectively-for-yourself-your-future/

    Découvrir plus

    Negotiate Your Salary With Confidence
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    Negotiate Your Salary With Confidence

    Salary negotiation is a critical skill that directly impacts your financial future, yet most professionals enter these conversations underprepared. This learning plan equips you with research-backed strategies and confidence-building techniques to secure compensation that truly reflects your worth.

    3 h 15 m•4 Sections
    Speak Up with Unshakable Confidence
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    Speak Up with Unshakable Confidence

    This plan is designed for professionals who struggle to assert themselves in group settings or high-pressure meetings. It provides a roadmap to move from passive participation to strategic influence by mastering both internal mindset and external communication tactics.

    1 h 12 m•3 Sections
    How to improve communication skills
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    How to improve communication skills

    Effective communication is the cornerstone of professional success and personal fulfillment. This plan is designed for professionals and leaders who want to master everything from foundational listening to high-stakes persuasion and conflict resolution.

    5 h 32 m•4 Sections
    Build self-respect & handle work power plays
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    Build self-respect & handle work power plays

    This learning plan is essential for professionals who feel undervalued, struggle with boundary-setting, or find themselves outmaneuvered by office politics. It's particularly valuable for those who want to advance their careers without compromising their integrity, and for anyone dealing with difficult colleagues or toxic workplace dynamics that erode their confidence and peace of mind.

    4 h 53 m•4 Sections
    I want to learn how to ask for what I want
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    I want to learn how to ask for what I want

    Many people struggle to advocate for themselves effectively, often sacrificing their own needs to avoid conflict or rejection. This learning plan equips you with practical assertiveness skills that help you communicate your desires confidently while maintaining positive relationships.

    3 h 28 m•4 Sections
    Speak confidently & know my worth
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    Speak confidently & know my worth

    This learning plan is designed for individuals who struggle with self-doubt, hesitation in expressing themselves, or feeling overwhelmed by unproductive patterns. It's ideal for professionals seeking to amplify their presence, entrepreneurs building their personal brand, or anyone ready to shift from insecurity and scattered efforts to confident self-advocacy and focused achievement.

    5 h 21 m•4 Sections
    Build confidence & assertiveness skills
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    Build confidence & assertiveness skills

    This learning plan is essential for anyone who struggles with self-doubt, people-pleasing, or difficulty speaking up for themselves in personal or professional settings. It's particularly valuable for individuals who want to break free from limiting beliefs, stop seeking external validation, and develop the inner strength to advocate for their needs while maintaining healthy relationships.

    5 h 5 m•4 Sections
    Become a good talker
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    Become a good talker

    Effective communication is the cornerstone of professional and personal success. This plan is designed for anyone looking to overcome social anxiety, lead with influence, and master the unspoken signals that define human interaction.

    5 h 23 m•4 Sections

    Cree par des anciens de Columbia University a San Francisco

    BeFreed rassemble une communauté mondiale de 1,000,000 esprits curieux
    Decouvrez comment BeFreed est discute sur le web

    "Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

    @Moemenn
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

    @Chloe, Solo founder, LA
    platform
    comments
    12
    likes
    117

    "Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

    @Raaaaaachelw
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

    @Matt, YC alum
    platform
    comments
    12
    likes
    108

    "Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

    @Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC
    platform
    comments
    254
    likes
    17

    "Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

    @djmikemoore
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

    @Pitiful
    platform
    comments
    96
    likes
    4.5K

    "BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

    @SofiaP
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

    @Jaded_Falcon
    platform
    comments
    201
    thumbsUp
    16

    "It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

    @OojasSalunke
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

    @Leo, Law Student, UPenn
    platform
    comments
    37
    likes
    483

    "Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

    @Cashflowbubu
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    Cree par des anciens de Columbia University a San Francisco

    BeFreed rassemble une communauté mondiale de 1,000,000 esprits curieux
    Decouvrez comment BeFreed est discute sur le web

    "Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

    @Moemenn
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

    @Chloe, Solo founder, LA
    platform
    comments
    12
    likes
    117

    "Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

    @Raaaaaachelw
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

    @Matt, YC alum
    platform
    comments
    12
    likes
    108

    "Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

    @Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC
    platform
    comments
    254
    likes
    17

    "Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

    @djmikemoore
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

    @Pitiful
    platform
    comments
    96
    likes
    4.5K

    "BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

    @SofiaP
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

    @Jaded_Falcon
    platform
    comments
    201
    thumbsUp
    16

    "It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

    @OojasSalunke
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

    @Leo, Law Student, UPenn
    platform
    comments
    37
    likes
    483

    "Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

    @Cashflowbubu
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

    @Moemenn
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

    @Chloe, Solo founder, LA
    platform
    comments
    12
    likes
    117

    "Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

    @Raaaaaachelw
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

    @Matt, YC alum
    platform
    comments
    12
    likes
    108

    "Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

    @Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC
    platform
    comments
    254
    likes
    17

    "Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

    @djmikemoore
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

    @Pitiful
    platform
    comments
    96
    likes
    4.5K

    "BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

    @SofiaP
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

    @Jaded_Falcon
    platform
    comments
    201
    thumbsUp
    16

    "It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

    @OojasSalunke
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

    @Leo, Law Student, UPenn
    platform
    comments
    37
    likes
    483

    "Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

    @Cashflowbubu
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

    @Moemenn
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

    @Chloe, Solo founder, LA
    platform
    comments
    12
    likes
    117

    "Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

    @Raaaaaachelw
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

    @Matt, YC alum
    platform
    comments
    12
    likes
    108

    "Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

    @Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC
    platform
    comments
    254
    likes
    17

    "Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

    @djmikemoore
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

    @Pitiful
    platform
    comments
    96
    likes
    4.5K

    "BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

    @SofiaP
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

    @Jaded_Falcon
    platform
    comments
    201
    thumbsUp
    16

    "It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

    @OojasSalunke
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star

    "The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

    @Leo, Law Student, UPenn
    platform
    comments
    37
    likes
    483

    "Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

    @Cashflowbubu
    platform
    star
    star
    star
    star
    star
    1.5K Ratings4.7
    Commencez votre parcours d'apprentissage, maintenant
    BeFreed App
    BeFreed

    Apprenez n'importe quoi, personnalise

    DiscordLinkedIn
    Resumes de livres en vedette
    Crucial ConversationsThe Perfect MarriageInto the WildNever Split the DifferenceAttachedGood to GreatSay Nothing
    Categories tendance
    Self HelpCommunication SkillRelationshipMindfulnessPhilosophyInspirationProductivity
    Listes de lecture de celebrites
    Elon MuskCharlie KirkBill GatesSteve JobsAndrew HubermanJoe RoganJordan Peterson
    Collection primee
    Pulitzer PrizeNational Book AwardGoodreads Choice AwardsNobel Prize in LiteratureNew York TimesCaldecott MedalNebula Award
    Sujets en vedette
    ManagementAmerican HistoryWarTradingStoicismAnxietySex
    Meilleurs livres par annee
    2025 Best Non Fiction Books2024 Best Non Fiction Books2023 Best Non Fiction Books
    Auteurs en vedette
    Chimamanda Ngozi AdichieGeorge OrwellO. J. SimpsonBarbara O'NeillWinston ChurchillCharlie Kirk
    BeFreed vs autres applications
    BeFreed vs. Other Book Summary AppsBeFreed vs. ElevenReaderBeFreed vs. ReadwiseBeFreed vs. Anki
    Outils d'apprentissage
    Knowledge VisualizerAI Podcast Generator
    Informations
    A propos de nousarrow
    Tarifsarrow
    FAQarrow
    Blogarrow
    Carrieresarrow
    Partenariatsarrow
    Programme Ambassadeurarrow
    Repertoirearrow
    BeFreed
    Try now
    © 2026 BeFreed
    Conditions d'utilisationPolitique de confidentialite
    BeFreed

    Apprenez n'importe quoi, personnalise

    DiscordLinkedIn
    Resumes de livres en vedette
    Crucial ConversationsThe Perfect MarriageInto the WildNever Split the DifferenceAttachedGood to GreatSay Nothing
    Categories tendance
    Self HelpCommunication SkillRelationshipMindfulnessPhilosophyInspirationProductivity
    Listes de lecture de celebrites
    Elon MuskCharlie KirkBill GatesSteve JobsAndrew HubermanJoe RoganJordan Peterson
    Collection primee
    Pulitzer PrizeNational Book AwardGoodreads Choice AwardsNobel Prize in LiteratureNew York TimesCaldecott MedalNebula Award
    Sujets en vedette
    ManagementAmerican HistoryWarTradingStoicismAnxietySex
    Meilleurs livres par annee
    2025 Best Non Fiction Books2024 Best Non Fiction Books2023 Best Non Fiction Books
    Outils d'apprentissage
    Knowledge VisualizerAI Podcast Generator
    Auteurs en vedette
    Chimamanda Ngozi AdichieGeorge OrwellO. J. SimpsonBarbara O'NeillWinston ChurchillCharlie Kirk
    BeFreed vs autres applications
    BeFreed vs. Other Book Summary AppsBeFreed vs. ElevenReaderBeFreed vs. ReadwiseBeFreed vs. Anki
    Informations
    A propos de nousarrow
    Tarifsarrow
    FAQarrow
    Blogarrow
    Carrieresarrow
    Partenariatsarrow
    Programme Ambassadeurarrow
    Repertoirearrow
    BeFreed
    Try now
    © 2026 BeFreed
    Conditions d'utilisationPolitique de confidentialite

    Fait partie d'un plan d'apprentissage

    Negotiate Your Salary With Confidence
    PLAN D'APPRENTISSAGE

    Negotiate Your Salary With Confidence

    3 h 15 m•4 Épisodes

    Points clés

    1

    Opening & Welcome

    0:00
    0:10
    0:25
    2

    Topic Introduction & Source Material Setup

    0:38
    0:52
    1:09
    1:26
    3

    Understanding Your Worth and Overcoming Self-Doubt

    1:37
    1:45
    1:59
    2:11
    2:25
    2:35
    4

    The Art of Strategic Communication

    2:48
    2:55
    3:11
    1:09
    3:33
    3:39
    3:52
    3:56
    5

    Negotiation Strategies That Actually Work

    4:02
    4:06
    4:21
    4:32
    4:44
    4:58
    5:05
    6

    Building Confidence Through Practice

    5:17
    5:23
    5:35
    5:47
    5:57
    6:03
    6:17
    7

    Practical Applications & Listener Takeaways

    6:24
    6:31
    6:39
    6:48
    6:59
    7:09
    7:16
    8

    Wrap-up & Closing Reflection

    7:27
    0:10
    7:52
    8:06
    8:19
    8:32

    Dans le même genre

    Couverture du livre Speak Up: Assertive Communication in Relationships
    AssertivenessWhen I Say No, I Feel GuiltyUnfuck Your BoundariesNot Nice
    26 sources
    Speak Up: Assertive Communication in Relationships
    Learn the practical framework for advocating for yourself without being aggressive or staying silent. Discover scripts, boundary-setting techniques, and how to break free from people-pleasing patterns.
    62 min
    Couverture du livre How to Communicate What You Want in Relationships
    Love More, Fight Less7 tips on how to communicate your needs in a relationship - CalmCommunication in MarriageHow To: Communicating Your Needs & Desires in Your Relationship
    6 sources
    How to Communicate What You Want in Relationships
    Learn to transform frustrating "why don't they get it?" moments into genuine understanding. Discover expert strategies for expressing needs clearly, creating emotional safety, and building deeper connection through better communication.
    9 min
    Couverture du livre Speak with Power, Lead with Confidence
    The Charisma MythThe Elements of Rhetoric -- How to Write and Speak Clearly and PersuasivelyHow Highly Effective People SpeakCommunication Skills Training
    28 sources
    Speak with Power, Lead with Confidence
    Discover how to transform your communication style to project authority and influence, even when put on the spot. Learn practical techniques to overcome mind-blanks and speak with authentic confidence.
    45 min
    Couverture du livre Speak with Power When Feeling Powerless
    Public Speaking for SuccessThe Art of Public SpeakingSpeak With No FearThe Public Speaking Bible; a Survival Guide for Standing on Stage
    23 sources
    Speak with Power When Feeling Powerless
    Discover practical strategies to project confidence in any speaking situation, even when you're terrified inside. Learn body language tricks, mental reframing, and voice techniques that command attention.
    28 min
    Couverture du livre Ask For It
    Ask For It
    Linda Babcock and Sara Laschever
    Empowering guide for women to overcome societal barriers and negotiate effectively in all aspects of life, from career to personal relationships.
    8 min
    Couverture du livre Negotiate Your Way to Higher Pay
    Negotiation GeniusBargaining for AdvantageGetting MoreAsk For It
    24 sources
    Negotiate Your Way to Higher Pay
    Learn proven strategies to confidently negotiate salary offers and avoid leaving hundreds of thousands on the table over your career. Expert tips on timing, psychology, and tactics that actually work.
    35 min
    Couverture du livre How to Talk to Anyone
    How to Talk to Anyone
    Leil Lowndes
    Master the art of conversation with 92 clever techniques for social and professional success in any situation.
    9 min
    Couverture du livre Bargaining for advantage
    Bargaining for advantage
    G. Richard Shell
    Master the art of negotiation with proven strategies, real-world examples, and a systematic approach to achieving your goals.
    9 min