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The Like Switch
Jack Schafer and Marvin Karlins
4.5 (2 Reviews)
Psychology
Communication skill
Relationship
Self-growth
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Former FBI agent Jack Schafer reveals secret techniques for winning anyone over using his "Friendship Formula." Learn the nonverbal cues that build instant trust - the same strategies that helped him recruit spies and profile terrorists. Your relationships will never be the same.

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When a Stranger Becomes a Friend: What an FBI Spy Recruiter Knows About Connection

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What if I told you the same psychological tactics used to turn foreign diplomats into American spies could help you make friends at your new job, find a romantic partner, or simply feel less alone in a crowded room? For two decades, Jack Schafer worked as an FBI behavioral analyst with one primary mission: getting complete strangers to trust him with their lives. His specialty wasn't interrogation or intimidation-it was friendship. The techniques he developed weren't just effective for national security; they revealed something profound about how all human relationships actually work. Think about your closest friend. How did that relationship begin? Chances are, it wasn't love at first sight. More likely, you kept running into each other, started chatting, found common ground, and gradually grew closer. That's not coincidence-it's a formula. Relationships aren't mysterious. They follow a surprisingly simple equation: Friendship = Proximity + Frequency + Duration + Intensity. Each element builds on the others, creating the foundation for genuine connection.

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The Mathematics of Human Connection and the Silent Language Before Words

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Making Others the Star of Their Own Story

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The Hidden Laws Governing Attraction

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The Art of Conversation That Creates Connection

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From Connection to Commitment: The CARE Framework for Lasting Bonds

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The Choice to Connect: Your Next Move

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