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Leil Lowndes

Leil Lowndes is a communications and relationship author known for practical self-help books on conversation, social confidence, and interpersonal connection. Her best-known works include How to Talk to Anyone, Goodbye to Shy, and How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, which helped establish her as a widely read voice in social-skills advice.

Biographie et Parcours de l'Auteur

Leil Lowndes built her career from a difficulty she has described with unusual candor: severe shyness that lasted from childhood through college. In her own telling, attending an all-girls high school and university did little to ease that anxiety. After graduating, she returned home when her mother suffered a stroke and worked as an elementary-school English teacher. The decisive turning point came after her mother’s death, when Lowndes deliberately chose jobs that forced her into constant interaction with strangers. She became a Pan American flight attendant, tried acting and landed a starring role in a Broadway show, and later worked as a cruise director. Those experiences became, in effect, her field education in the social confidence and observational skills that would later define her work. ((https://www.lowndes.com/about/))

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Citations

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I can feel alone and ignored even when I'm with them
-A Modern Love Story
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Extend the conversation at least a few sentences so they feel like it’s personal, not just another cash register click
-Make him/her feel like a person, not a customer
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People may think that you don’t ALWAYS tell the truth!
-Avoid These Common Words That Hint You’re Not Being Honest with Someone
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A lot of people prefer their more formal name
-Should I Use Their Full Name or Nickname?
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Isn’t the lovely holiday worth a whole sentence?
-Don’t Say “Happy Easter.” Be Original & Kick It Up a Notch
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Don't start any conversation with those words
-Don’t Take This the Wrong Way
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Hearing YOU, in a positive context, comes in second
-What is One Word That Helps Deepen Friendships?
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It's been proven that you're more apt to get it!
-How Can I Make People Want to Do Favors For Me?
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Even if you’re guilty, it will leave your accuser speechless—and impressed with you!
-How to Come Out Smelling Like a Rose When Somebody Accuses You of Something
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Don't use that phrase if you want to keep his/her friendship or good will
-Are You Open to Some Constructive Criticism? NO!

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"Like a sure-footed guide who shows up in the nick of time, Leil Lowndes charts a path for professional success in our dizzying digital age"

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