The Science of Fading Love: Why Relationships Die and Revive
What makes love fade and passion disappear? Drawing from Helen Fisher's brain chemistry research, the Gottmans' relationship science, and Esther Perel's work on desire, this episode reveals the biological and psychological patterns behind relationship decay-and the evidence-based practices to rekindle connection.
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Think of relationships like a garden: attraction is the wildflower that pops up quickly; love is the forest you plant over time. Both need sun and mystery, but they also need deliberate tending.
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Why do relationships lose their passion and how can we bring it back?
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