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    Does Too Much Access Create Disrespect? | Podcast Discussion

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    Explore how excessive access can lead to disrespect in relationships. This podcast discusses setting boundaries, human behavior, and why familiarity breeds contempt.

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    If a river never runs dry, nobody stops to praise it for the water—they just expect it to be there when they’re thirsty. When your availability is perceived as limitless, others begin to treat it as a common resource rather than a gift.

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    知识来源
    The Psychology of Why Your Kindness Can Turn Into Disrespect – MartinHamilton.com
    link
    https://martinhamilton.com/the-psychology-of-why-your-kindness-can-turn-into-disrespect/
    The Over-Availability Trap: When Accessibility Erodes Authority - The Critical Thought Lab
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    https://thecriticalthoughtlab.com/the-over-availability-trap-when-accessibility-erodes-authority/
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    https://websites.umich.edu/~smgarcia/pubs/Status_Signals_Paradox.pdf
    11 Moments When Being Too Available Lowers Respect, Backed by Psychology
    link
    https://cottonwoodpsychology.com/blog/11-moments-when-being-too-available-lowers-respect-backed-by-psychology/
    The Leadership Habit Everyone Praises, but Quietly Undermines You
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    https://ianbrowne.substack.com/p/the-leadership-habit-everyone-praises

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