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Why We Love
Helen Fisher
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Dive into the chemistry of attraction with Helen Fisher's groundbreaking exploration of love's biological roots. Endorsed by renowned biologist Edward O. Wilson and tapped by Match.com to revolutionize online dating, this book reveals why love isn't just poetry - it's powerful evolutionary science.

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The Chemistry of Falling: When Your Brain Becomes a Love Laboratory

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What if I told you that the butterflies in your stomach, the sleepless nights replaying a single conversation, and that ridiculous grin you can't wipe off your face aren't just emotions-they're the result of a precisely orchestrated chemical symphony in your brain? Love isn't merely a feeling; it's a biological imperative as fundamental as hunger or thirst. When someone captures your heart, specific brain regions light up like a city at night, flooding your system with dopamine, norepinephrine, and a cocktail of other neurochemicals that literally alter your consciousness. This isn't poetic exaggeration-it's neuroscience. The ancient poets were right about love's power to transform us, but they didn't know they were describing a primordial mating drive millions of years in the making, one that hijacks our rational mind and makes us do wonderfully irrational things. Love doesn't stay confined to your mind-it commandeers your entire body. Hearts race at the mere sound of a loved one's voice. Palms sweat. Knees weaken. You might stammer, flush, or find yourself unable to eat despite being hungry. Sleep becomes elusive, yet paradoxically, you're flooded with energy-able to talk until dawn, write passionate letters, or cross continents for a brief encounter. These aren't metaphors from romance novels; they're documented physiological responses catalogued across centuries and cultures. The Tamil people have a word for this state: mayakkam-intoxication, dizziness, and delusion.

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