Asking for It by Kate Harding Summary
Overview of Asking for It
Kate Harding's brilliant dissection of rape culture challenges victim-blaming myths with sharp wit and rigorous research. Jessica Valenti calls it "timely and brilliant" - a #MeToo movement cornerstone that asks: why do we still struggle to believe survivors?
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The Myth We Live Inside
Have you ever noticed how we talk about rape as if it's weather-something that just happens? "She was raped." "A woman was sexually assaulted." The perpetrator vanishes from the sentence entirely, leaving only the victim and an invisible force. This linguistic sleight of hand reveals something profound about how we've constructed our understanding of sexual violence. Rape culture isn't just about individual bad actors or explicit misogyny. It's the water we swim in-invisible, omnipresent, and so normalized that even its victims sometimes can't see it clearly. Women internalize these patterns too, calling each other sluts, questioning survivors' stories, and perpetuating the myth that modest dress prevents assault. Female judges have described armed gang rapes as "theft of services." The problem isn't a few monsters lurking in alleys; it's an entire infrastructure of beliefs, institutions, and everyday behaviors that trivialize sexual assault while claiming to despise it.
Seven Lies We Tell Ourselves
The Invisible Tax Women Pay
When Those Who Should Protect Don't Believe
The Prosecution Gap and Media's Complicity
The Rising Tide of Change
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