The Comparison Trap in Relationships

30 min

Explore comparative triangulation—when partners use third-party comparisons to control relationship dynamics. We unpack both negative and idealized comparisons, their psychological roots, and how to recognize and respond to this manipulation.

The Comparison Trap in Relationships

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Create a podcast on Comparative Triangulation in Romantic Relationships—when a partner regulates power or distance by comparing you to a third party repeatedly. Cover: 1) Comparison to a “bad” other (an unstable, harmful, or low-standard ex) used to induce fear, compliance, or “you’re better than that” pressure. 2) Idealized absent other comparisons (singing praises, “you’re not him”, fabricated sexual history) Explain psychology, attachment dynamics, impacts, red flags, and grounded responses.

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