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Touched Out
Amanda Montei
4.19 (392 Reviews)
Society
Psychology
Relationship
Philosophy
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Overview of Touched Out

"Touched Out" exposes the hidden toll of motherhood, where bodily autonomy meets societal expectation. Praised by Eve Rodsky as "leading a new wave of feminism," this revolutionary work gives voice to what countless mothers feel but couldn't articulate. What if motherhood's exhaustion isn't personal failure?

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The Weight of a Million Tiny Hands

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Have you ever felt your body recoil from the people you love most? There's a moment many mothers know but rarely name-when your toddler reaches for you and everything inside screams *not again*. Your skin crawls. Your jaw clenches. You'd give anything for ten minutes where no one needs your body for anything at all. This isn't postpartum depression, though it often gets confused with it. This is being "touched out"-a visceral, overwhelming sensation when your body has been so thoroughly claimed by others that you've become a stranger to yourself. It's the physical manifestation of what happens when motherhood demands the complete surrender of bodily autonomy, transforming women into 24/7 feeding stations, comfort objects, and jungle gyms. The phrase "touched out" captures something profound about modern American motherhood that goes far beyond simple fatigue. From nursing infants who treat breasts as all-access buffets to toddlers who climb mothers like playground equipment, women's bodies become public infrastructure-accessible, expected to function flawlessly, and rarely given maintenance. During the 2020 pandemic lockdowns, this reality intensified to a breaking point. Mothers found themselves trapped in endless cycles of diaper changes, meal preparation, emotional regulation, and physical comfort with no backup systems, no breaks, no escape routes. The isolation revealed what had always been true: American mothers parent in a vacuum that would be considered neglectful in most human societies throughout history. What makes this experience so isolating is how it's simultaneously normalized and silenced: mothers whisper about it in bathroom stalls and private Facebook groups, but rarely in daylight where it might challenge our romanticized notions of maternal devotion.

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When Bodies Become Battlegrounds and Miracles

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The Pleasure That Demands Everything

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The Economics of Invisible Labor and Perfect Performance

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Learning to Say No in a Culture That Demands Yes

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Refusal as Revolution and Teaching What We Never Learned

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Building Something New

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『Touched Out』の核心的なアイデアを分かりやすいポイントに分解し、革新的なチームがどのように創造、協力、成長するかを理解します。

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