What is *The Explosive Child* by Ross W. Greene about?

*The Explosive Child* outlines Dr. Ross Greene’s Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS) model, which redefines behavioral challenges in children as stemming from lagging skills—not defiance. It offers strategies to identify unmet needs, solve problems collaboratively, and reduce outbursts by addressing root causes rather than punishing symptoms.

Who should read *The Explosive Child*?

Parents, educators, and therapists dealing with children who exhibit frequent meltdowns, rigidity, or emotional dysregulation will benefit. The book is particularly relevant for those seeking alternatives to traditional discipline methods like rewards/punishments.

What are the main concepts in *The Explosive Child*?

Key ideas include: - **Lagging skills**: Challenging behaviors arise when demands exceed a child’s current abilities (e.g., flexibility, emotion regulation). - **Collaborative Problem Solving**: Parents and kids work together to identify triggers and mutually agreeable solutions. - **Proactive intervention**: Preventing outbursts by addressing unresolved problems before they escalate.

How does *The Explosive Child* approach discipline differently?

Greene rejects punitive measures, arguing they worsen power struggles. Instead, the CPS model prioritizes empathy, skill-building, and joint problem-solving to resolve conflicts peacefully.

What is the “kids do well if they can” philosophy?

This core premise asserts children want to succeed behaviorally but lack necessary skills. Outbursts signal unmet needs, not intentional defiance—a shift from blaming to understanding.

Does *The Explosive Child* work for school-related challenges?

Yes. The CPS model is adaptable to classrooms, helping educators address academic frustration, social conflicts, and transitions by modifying demands or teaching missing skills.

What are common criticisms of *The Explosive Child*?

Some argue the method requires significant time/patience and may not suit crisis situations. Others note it contrasts sharply with behaviorist approaches like sticker charts or time-outs.

How does Ross Greene’s approach compare to ABA therapy?

Unlike Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), which uses rewards/consequences to shape behavior, CPS focuses on identifying skill deficits and solving problems collaboratively without external motivators.

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The Explosive Child

Ross W. Greene

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The Explosive Child

Ross W. Greene

4.16 (12975 Reviews)

Psychology Relationship Education Health

概要

主なポイント

著者

よくある質問

あなたに合った学び方を探す

クイックサマリー9分

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深堀り42分

知識を魅力的で例が豊富な洞察に変換

フラッシュカード7件の洞察

キーアイデアを瞬時にキャプチャして素早く学習

エンタメ23分

楽しく魅力的な方法で本を楽しむ

「The Explosive Child」のベストクォート

Kids do well if they can.

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When Explosions Signal Missing Skills, Not Bad Behavior

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Imagine your child melting down over something seemingly trivial-a broken cookie, a change in plans, or homework frustration. Your instinct might be to punish, plead, or give in. But what if these explosions aren't willful defiance but signals that your child lacks crucial skills? This revolutionary perspective forms the foundation of Dr. Ross Greene's approach. Traditional parenting assumes children misbehave because they want something or haven't been disciplined effectively. Greene flips this completely: "Kids do well if they can." When children aren't doing well, it's not because they lack motivation-it's because they lack skills. Seven-year-old Philip didn't dump eggs in the sink to be defiant; he lacked the flexibility to handle unexpected changes, the emotional regulation to manage disappointment, and the communication skills to express his needs appropriately. This paradigm shift transforms how we respond to challenging behaviors. Instead of asking "How can I make my child behave?" we ask "What's getting in my child's way?" Behind every tantrum or explosive episode lies a set of underdeveloped cognitive skills-not character flaws or deliberate choices. Many explosive children struggle with cognitive flexibility-the ability to adapt when things don't go as expected. For six-year-old Courtney, a rained-out park visit wasn't just disappointing; it was catastrophic because her rigid thinking made shifting gears impossible. Another common challenge is difficulty managing emotions. While all children experience strong feelings, most develop the ability to set emotions aside temporarily to think clearly. Problem-solving difficulties compound these challenges-when faced with obstacles, these children either act impulsively or freeze. Communication difficulties make everything worse. Children lacking language skills may resort to physical responses like hitting because they literally don't know what else to say.

Identifying Unsolved Problems and Choosing Your Approach

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Sharing Your Perspective and Finding Solutions

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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

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@Raaaaaachelw

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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

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@djmikemoore

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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

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483

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"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

201

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

@Cashflowbubu

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

201

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

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Implementing the Collaborative Problem-Solving Approach

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When Explosions Signal Missing Skills, Not Bad Behavior

Identifying Unsolved Problems and Choosing Your Approach

The Art of Understanding Your Child's Perspective

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Implementing the Collaborative Problem-Solving Approach

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「The Explosive Child」のベストクォート

おすすめの本

重要なポイント

When Explosions Signal Missing Skills, Not Bad Behavior

Identifying Unsolved Problems and Choosing Your Approach

The Art of Understanding Your Child's Perspective

Sharing Your Perspective and Finding Solutions

From Chaos to Connection: A New Family Dynamic

Implementing the Collaborative Problem-Solving Approach

クイックサマリーモード - 『The Explosive Child』の要約を9分で読む・聴く

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おすすめの本

重要なポイント

When Explosions Signal Missing Skills, Not Bad Behavior

Identifying Unsolved Problems and Choosing Your Approach

The Art of Understanding Your Child's Perspective

Sharing Your Perspective and Finding Solutions

From Chaos to Connection: A New Family Dynamic

Implementing the Collaborative Problem-Solving Approach