What is How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed by Ross Jeffries about?

How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed is a controversial dating guide by Ross Jeffries, founder of Speed Seduction, that teaches psychological persuasion techniques for attracting women. The 90-page book covers NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) tactics including anchoring, mirroring, pattern interrupts, and what Jeffries calls "covert hypnosis" to bypass resistance and create rapid sexual encounters. The book advocates an unapologetic masculine attitude and frames seduction as a series of learnable psychological techniques.

Who is Ross Jeffries and what is Speed Seduction?

Ross Jeffries is the founder of Speed Seduction, an early pickup artist methodology that emerged before the modern dating advice industry. He pioneered the application of NLP techniques to dating and seduction, creating a system focused on psychological persuasion and rapid results. Jeffries became a controversial figure in the seduction community, with critics describing him as a "caricature" who represents the extreme lengths some men will go to get laid. His work is considered foundational to the pickup artist movement, though largely dated by today's standards.

Is How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed worth reading?

How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed is worth reading primarily for historical context or amusement value rather than practical application. Reviews describe it as "dated," "impractical," and filled with "hoary old gender-biases" and misogyny. The book represents an early but flawed attempt at systematizing seduction advice, with techniques that have become clichéd or are considered unethical by modern standards. Most reviewers recommend viewing it as a cautionary tale rather than a how-to guide.

Who should read How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed?

How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed is best suited for "completists" studying the history of dating advice or those curious about the origins of pickup artist culture. The book appeals to readers interested in understanding psychological persuasion tactics, NLP applications in dating, or the controversial seduction community. However, multiple reviewers warn that the techniques are outdated, ethically problematic, and impractical for modern dating. Some suggest daughters should read it to recognize manipulation tactics.

What are the main techniques taught in How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed?

The main techniques include: * **Anchoring** (using NLP to create automatic confidence triggers and associate yourself with positive emotions) * **Mirroring** (matching a woman's breathing and gestures to build subconscious rapport) * **Pattern interrupts** (attention-getting openers that disrupt normal thought patterns) Jeffries also teaches storytelling techniques designed to evoke specific emotional states, the "AS-IF Principle" for building warmth, and methods for "breaking resistance" using shock, humor, or guilt. The book provides specific phrases, comebacks for rejection, and strategies for different pickup locations.

What is the core philosophy of How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed?

The core philosophy centers on an **unapologetic acceptance of masculine desire** without apologizing for who you are or what you want. Jeffries advocates an "I don't need you, you need me" mindset that emphasizes self-respect, independence, and inner validation over seeking female approval. The "bedrock attitude" involves focusing on what you want to win rather than what you might lose, maintaining resilience in the face of rejection, and believing you can't be controlled. This philosophy emphasizes direct action, reading feedback, and treating seduction as a learnable skill rather than luck.

What is anchoring in Ross Jeffries' Speed Seduction method?

Anchoring in Speed Seduction refers to using NLP techniques to create automatic psychological triggers that produce desired emotional states. Jeffries teaches accessing "Picture Types 1 & 2" (powerful emotional memories) and linking them to specific gestures, touches, or words. The technique involves creating confidence triggers before approaching women, then linking arousal and physical touch during interaction through "sensory overlap"—shifting between visual, auditory, and kinesthetic descriptions to increase suggestibility. The stated goal is bypassing conscious resistance by creating subconscious associations.

What is the Jeffries Upright/Uptight Scale in the book?

The Jeffries Upright/Uptight Scale is a rating system presented in the appendix for evaluating women based on their attitudes toward sex and general character. The scale helps men assess compatibility according to Jeffries' standards, with "red flags" indicating potential problems. Warning signs include talking about sex too soon, rudeness toward service workers, flakiness, and other behavioral cues. The scale reflects Jeffries' approach of screening women quickly to determine if they fit his criteria for potential sexual encounters.

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How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed

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The controversial blueprint behind "Speed Seduction" - combining NLP and covert hypnosis to influence women's emotions below conscious awareness. Jeffries' controversial techniques sparked ethical debates about manipulation vs. consent, while teaching men to "bait the hook with what fish bite on."

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I make no excuses for my desires as a man. I make no excuses for myself. I move through the world without apology.

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How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed

Ross Jeffries

Communication skill Psychology Relationship

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主なポイント

著者

よくある質問

あなたに合った学び方を探す

クイックサマリー8分

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深堀り42分

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キーアイデアを瞬時にキャプチャして素早く学習

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楽しく魅力的な方法で本を楽しむ

「How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed」のベストクォート

I make no excuses for my desires as a man. I make no excuses for myself. I move through the world without apology.

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The Unapologetic Mindset: Foundation of Attraction

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The most powerful shift in dating success isn't about clever lines or manipulation techniques-it's about adopting a fundamental mindset: "I make no excuses for my desires as a man. I move through the world without apology." This represents a radical departure from how many men approach dating-hesitant, apologetic, and afraid of expressing interest. Imagine a crowded upscale party. A stunning woman stands surrounded by well-dressed men making small talk. Most circle cautiously, hoping for an opening. Then someone different walks in-a man who cuts directly through the crowd, makes eye contact with her, and says simply: "I saw you through the doorway, and unlike these gentlemen here, I don't have time for small talk. I'd like to take you out." This direct approach, delivered with warmth rather than aggression, often succeeds precisely because it stands out. This unapologetic attitude manifests through your entire presence-tone of voice, facial expressions, posture, and speaking pace. When speaking, maintain steady eye contact without staring. Keep your shoulders back and chest open. Speak at a measured pace that commands attention. It's not about being rude; it's about honoring your authentic desires without shame. The mindset pairs with another crucial attitude: "I don't get rattled by setbacks because I learn from my mistakes." When a woman declines your advance, respond with grace: "I appreciate your directness. Have a great evening." This demonstrates both emotional stability and social intelligence-qualities that are universally attractive.

Installing Genuine Confidence Through Visualization

The Power of Boundaries: Your Most Valuable Word

Creating Instant Connection Through Warmth

Pattern-Interrupting Openers: The First Critical Moments

Building Deep Rapport Through Mirroring

From Connection to Date: Closing the Loop

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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

117

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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

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254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

@Cashflowbubu

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

201

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

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The Unapologetic Mindset: Foundation of Attraction

Installing Genuine Confidence Through Visualization

The Power of Boundaries: Your Most Valuable Word

Creating Instant Connection Through Warmth

Pattern-Interrupting Openers: The First Critical Moments

Building Deep Rapport Through Mirroring

From Connection to Date: Closing the Loop

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The Unapologetic Mindset: Foundation of Attraction

Installing Genuine Confidence Through Visualization

The Power of Boundaries: Your Most Valuable Word

Creating Instant Connection Through Warmth

Pattern-Interrupting Openers: The First Critical Moments

Building Deep Rapport Through Mirroring

From Connection to Date: Closing the Loop

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おすすめの本

重要なポイント

The Unapologetic Mindset: Foundation of Attraction

Installing Genuine Confidence Through Visualization

The Power of Boundaries: Your Most Valuable Word

Creating Instant Connection Through Warmth

Pattern-Interrupting Openers: The First Critical Moments

Building Deep Rapport Through Mirroring

From Connection to Date: Closing the Loop

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The Unapologetic Mindset: Foundation of Attraction

Installing Genuine Confidence Through Visualization

The Power of Boundaries: Your Most Valuable Word

Creating Instant Connection Through Warmth

Pattern-Interrupting Openers: The First Critical Moments

Building Deep Rapport Through Mirroring

From Connection to Date: Closing the Loop