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    The Secret Science of Infidelity

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    Explore research showing 25% of marriages experience infidelity, with unfaithful partners using an average of seven different deception strategies simultaneously. From digital evidence removal to introducing affairs as 'friends'.

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    Infidelity doesn't usually happen overnight; there's typically a long erosion of connection that precedes any betrayal. The most powerful prevention strategy is staying emotionally connected and addressing problems while they're still small.

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    I would like to research infidelity in marriage. Is there any research on adultery , the ways people initiate it and how not to get caught?

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    The Hidden Science of Infidelity

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