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It's Not You
Ramani Durvasula
4.53 (8638 Reviews)
Self Help
Relationships
Psychology
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In "It's Not You," Dr. Ramani Durvasula's New York Times bestseller unveils the hidden world of narcissistic abuse. Endorsed by Maria Shriver, this revolutionary guide shifts blame from victims to abusers. Ever wondered why you feel crazy in certain relationships? The answer might shock you.

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When Narcissism Leaves You Questioning Everything

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Have you ever felt like you're going crazy in a relationship? Like your reality is constantly being challenged, your feelings dismissed, and your self-worth eroded bit by bit? You're not alone. Millions of people find themselves trapped in relationships with narcissistic partners, questioning their own sanity rather than recognizing the toxic dynamics at play. The revolutionary premise of "It's Not You" shifts our focus from analyzing narcissists themselves to understanding the profound impact they have on those who love them. This perspective change is both validating and liberating-finally acknowledging that the problem was never you.

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The Invisible Wounds That No One Sees

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The Chameleon: Recognizing Narcissism's Many Forms

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The Addictive Cycle That Keeps You Hooked

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When Your Reality Becomes Negotiable

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Reclaiming Your Voice: Breaking the Self-Blame Cycle

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Creating a Life Beyond Narcissistic Influence

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