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    Money, Love, and New Year's Financial Reality Checks

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    22 dic 2025
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    Lena and Miles dissect why 90% of couples let one person handle all the money (spoiler: it's a disaster), explore the psychology behind financial fights, and offer practical New Year's resolutions to help couples stop crashing and burning over cash.

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    Financial feelings rarely correlate with actual bank balances; the transformation happens when couples stop seeing money as a source of conflict and start viewing it as a tool for building a shared 'Rich Life' vision.

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    Tell me about relationships and money management, bring in some habit and new years resolution type discussion to help a couple align on finances

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    Opening & Welcome

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    Topic Introduction & Source Material Setup

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    0:59
    1:14
    1:29
    1:45
    3

    Understanding Your Financial Psychology Together

    1:53
    2:11
    2:21
    2:39
    0:27
    3:05
    3:14
    4

    Creating Positive Money Conversations and Habits

    3:31
    3:41
    3:53
    4:06
    4:19
    4:33
    5

    Designing Your Shared Rich Life Vision

    4:45
    4:57
    5:11
    5:25
    5:36
    5:51
    6

    Money Dials and Strategic Spending Decisions

    6:00
    6:16
    1:14
    6:40
    6:53
    0:27
    7

    Building Sustainable Financial Systems and Habits

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    7:33
    7:42
    7:53
    8:04
    8:18
    8:28
    8:41
    8

    Practical New Year Resolutions for Financial Alignment

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    9:54
    10:03
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    Wrap-up & Closing Reflection

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