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    How to Connect with Strangers: Follow-up Questions for ADHD & Anxiety

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    Learn how to connect with strangers by using follow-up questions to manage social anxiety and ADHD impulsivity. Master active listening for deeper conversations.

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    The goal isn't to be the most 'normal' person in the room, but to be the most 'present' person. Most people don’t want a perfect robot; they want a human connection.

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    Connecting depet with strangers by not jsut waiting for yojr turn to reply but asking followup auestions for someone with social anxiety adhd impulsvitiyy etc

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    Breaking Through Shyness: How to Start Conversations and Build Friendships when your ADHD Gets in the way. – ADD Resource Center
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    https://www.addrc.org/breaking-through-shyness-how-to-start-conversations-and-build-friendships-when-your-adhd-gets-in-the-way/
    The Follow-Up Question Formula: Never Run Out of Things to Say
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    https://www.hyperbound.ai/blog/follow-up-question-formula
    The Follow-Up Question Formula That Shows You Actually Listen
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    Active Listening for AuDHD Brains: Strategies That Actually Work<br/>
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    https://www.kimberlylouvin.com/blog/4kzbvhhz7jha5790j2hbvgb221c7jg
    Stop interrupting, be present and enjoy connecting with others: How to manage ADHD in conversations
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    https://www.drsharonsaline.com/blog/2023/09/stop-interrupting-be-present-and-enjoy-connecting-with-others-how-to-manage-adhd-in-conversations

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