You Are the One You've Been Waiting For by Richard C. Schwartz Summary
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Discover why Terrence Real and Esther Perel recommend this revolutionary guide to healing relationships from within. Using the transformative Internal Family Systems model, Schwartz reveals the surprising truth: your partner isn't meant to fix you - you already have everything you need inside.
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The Magic Kitchen Within: Finding Your True Source of Love
Imagine having a magical kitchen in your home that produces unlimited amounts of delicious food. Would you still scavenge for scraps or accept stale offerings from others? Yet this is precisely what we do in relationships when we don't recognize our internal source of nourishment. When we have abundant internal resources-a magical kitchen of unconditional love-we can nourish all parts of ourselves generously. Our inner "children" feel secure and satisfied, making us naturally selective about relationships. We recognize and decline unhealthy connections while remaining open to mutually nourishing ones. Conversely, when we're emotionally impoverished, our starving "basement children"-what Schwartz calls our exiled parts-become desperate for external nourishment. They'll make us accept poor-quality relationships just to get crumbs of affection. We'll tolerate mistreatment, cling desperately to partners, or constantly seek validation because these exiled parts believe external love is their only chance for survival. What most of us never realize is that our true Self is the magical kitchen-an unlimited source of love for all our parts. Yet we've been conditioned to believe this nourishment can only come from outside ourselves. Our culture reinforces this myth through romantic stories portraying finding "the one" as the solution to inner emptiness.
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